Do you consider marriage as a form of settlement in life or wait for your career to become stable and then think about marriage?

[Anonymous]

A very significant percentage of girls are having PCOD and infertility. Boys are having infertility too. Tell me as I do not know the exact figure.

My question is not about the fertility and reproduction. But it is a very crucial part of ones life.

And when the risk of infertility is this high, it is better to get on with the baby phase as soon as possible. For the couple as a whole I mean.

And one way of respectfully getting on with it is marriage.
So... what do you think about the question.

[menina]

Not everyone wants to get married nor having kids.

Also that depends on the person's goals and on what they want for their lives. Some people prefer to work before starting a family and others prefer to get married.

Another thing not everyone who has children is married. And you don't need to get married to have kids.

I understand that this is what you believe in, I'm just saying that it doesn't work like that for everyone.

That being said, if someone wants to get married and have kids, I think they should focus on making money first. Raising a child is not only a matter of love, care and patience is also a matter of being financially stable.

[DizzyDesii]

A job is a job, career or not. It’ll never be nothing more than a way to make money for myself. So no I dont let a job hold me back from marriage and kids. The only tthing holding me back with marriage is meeting someone close enough to what I want to where I actually want to walk down the aisle. The only thing holding me back with kids is making sure my body is healthy enough to prepare for birth and my consideration of either in vitro or waiting around for that guy. A job doesn't influence either for me

[OlderAndWiser]

"Do you consider marriage as a form of settlement in life. . ." Settlement like making a compromise, or settlement like settling down into a routine?

[Asker]

Into a routine.

[OlderAndWiser]

Yes, a good marriage gives a person a sense of being settled and anchored in life, having a sense of importance and priorities, and of not being alone.

[ArtemisSilver]

I think it's more of a way to make a woman feel safe when you intend to breed her

[LilyoftheLake]

I think the point of marriage is to grow together, to have an ally through the hard times, not as a convenient retirement after them. I think waiting to get married until (insert reason) misses the main point - even if that's an acceptable way to do it.

[anon1903]

I'd actually marry someone infertile. My periods are very regular and I'm assuming I'm very fertile. I'd hate being a mother tho. So marrying someone infertile would be the way to go.

[NathanDavis]

we will hit 8 billion population in November...

[slatyb]

I consider it a legal condition.