Who do you see end up happier in the long run?

[Anonymous]

Women marrying in their mid to late twenties, to not very successful men, (think a corporate slave)

Women marrying in their late twenties, to early thirties, to very successful men, (think a lawyer).

The reason I ask is so many people I notice marry in their mid to late twenties with people they know at the time, out of fear that they may not find someone else. What if someone else the perfect partner is out there, but it just takes time to find that partner?

[HighValue]

One thing I have never seen IRL is a woman getting married after 30 to a good partner for long term. They always end up alone or with some very low quality partner from what I have seen in real life.

And is money the only way she thinks someone is "successful?" Because people with lots of money can easily replace her with the exact same kind of woman that values money so much because there are a very small number of men with that much money, but MANY women that go after them.

[OlderThanILook]

I dont think either of them will ever be happy if they value a man based on his occupation. I would say the girl with the corporate worker because it will be less of a financial shock when he gets fed up and leaves her. I personally would make sure she has the worst relationship of her life before I left though.

[FilmGuy93]

A lot of those people who wait a longer time also end up miserable though. So the length of the search isn’t as important as the technique

[Asker]

Technique? What technique

[FilmGuy93]

Where she meets men, what hobbies she has, how she talks with men; that sort of thing. Dating technique and general social skills

[exitseven]

I say the former. A lot of successful guys are real assholes.

[Asker]

A lot of unsuccessful guys are worse.

[exitseven]

yes, I suppose that is true.

[Jamie05rhs]

You're making quite bold assumptions about the status of the man.

[OddBeMe]

Former. Getting successful together is very emotionally connecting.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

The happiest person will be the one who married the right person for them. LOL