At what age do you tend to focus on finding a marriage partner and start not messing around in a relationship?

[Ins0mn1a]

What is the reason?

[Pinay_ako]

I don’t mess around in a relationship regardless my age. When I was a teenager, all I want is good love. A love that’s true and pure. But heartbreaks happen and I learnt from it. Take every relationship seriously. You never know that could be the one ☝️or the one that got away.

[Guy13]

There is a shifting change, however, 40% of first marriages end in divorce. This implies that one or maybe both bit off more than they could chew. Until the last five years, the consensus marriage age was 28-32 for men. This is changing and seems to be around 23-25 now. Every person is different but it seems that people are choosing to get married at the start of their mutual career instead of after establishing career. I hope this is helpful?

[MikeInHawaii]

I tell young people, I don’t care if they’re preteens, “Don’t go out on the first date with someone you already know you wouldn’t marry.” Dating is a vetting process to see if you’ve found the right one. That takes time. Sometimes you can spot Mr. or Miss Wrong from across the room.

[BlueScorpio]

I would say mid 20s to early 30s is a great time to get married. Early 20s is the time you explore the world, figure out who you are, focus on your plans if a career or becoming more stable in your personal life. I feel like people tend to mature a bit more in their mid 20s.

[Ins0mn1a]

True

[Mollynotgemma]

I was focused on marriage etc. when I fell in love at 16, that’s because I was young and had all the ideals in my head. Since then I’ve had many relationships and been engaged three times…. But never walked down the aisle…
This is definitely down to my belief that you can choose when things happen.
When I was a teen I’d say I want marriage and kids by the time I’m 25….
Well…
It doesn’t work like that.

[tfan1]

Late 20’s to early 30’s. My wife and I got married when I was 30 and she was 29 and lost our virginity to each other together on our wedding night 2/28/2008 🙂👍❤️

[Ins0mn1a]

Wow 👍👍👍 respect man

[tfan1]

Thank you 👍🙂

[mrlongdongsiilver]

Better to get married earlier if a girl or boy settle with you during early 20's there settling 100% cause they love you unless your rich and famous. as you get older it's less about love and more about wanting kids or having a certain lifestyle older you are more money you have and many people are willing to deceive you for that money stay safe kings and queens don't end up in a loveless marriage

[bamesjond0069]

Around 30 I got more serious. Men are far more attractive to women in their 30s and even 40s. So better for men to wait... with the exception if you stumble into the perfect girl young. She absolutely must be a virgin when y'all young and younger than you, not older.

[Xoxocutekitty]

Around 22. From 18-21, I was still a student, moving every 6-12 months, aggressively paying off debt, and kept getting stuck in the attraction part of 'relationships' over lifestyle and personality compatibility.

[Chris_Morgan]

I can only speak for myself.

I got a steady girlfriend at 21, by 23 I was thinking about bettering myself so I could be a good father one day, at 26 we got married, at 27 we had a baby.

[Chris_Morgan]

Why?
Because I didn't think i could ever get a hotter girlfriend and I didn't want anyone else so marriage seemed like a reasonable goal. I just knew I wanted to have a family one day and I wanted to do it while I was young enough to play with my kid and be alive for as many years of his life as possible. We didn't want to wait.

[watercolor_lions]

It wasn't never really about age for me. Sure, I wanted a partner. But it I held myself to a number, I would have hated who I ended up with.

[Apple1996]

It's different for everyone. For myself I knew after I met my husband that I wanted to marry him. We got married at 19 and it was the perfect time for us

[LazerBean]

Always, personally. I hate wasting time on stupid things.

[Stay-hungry]

Not age

but when I find the right person

but 24 -28 would be great

[Literalbillionaire17]

I’d say prob in your late 20s to early 30s but it all depends on the person ofc

[Hardworkingguy]

After the age of 30. That's when a person begins to consider marriage as something important

[Kelly6]

Different for everyone,

some get lucky and girlfriend boyfriend becomes married.

some find a partner for marriage after girlfriend boyfriend.

[FreyaRed]

When I'm old and ugly.

[MikeInHawaii]

So you don’t want to get married?

[Nikki1989]

I didn't even think about it till I was 25.