Why do I have to follow traditions and spend lots of money for marriage?

[Anonymous]

Why do i have to follow traditions for marriage?

We can sign marriage papers and that's it.

Why do i have to follow traditions and spend lots of money?

[jennifer_bloom]

If you mean the marriage ceremony, I don’t even want a big one, I would not have enough females to invite cause I don’t socialize except with a very small group of people.

[Asker]

I do not want to deal with ceremonies,
I just want to sign marriage papers. That's it.

[Asker]

No one could explain reasons of ceramonies

[jennifer_bloom]

I don’t care too much about ceremonies and I have not cared since age 20. I also hear the more people spend on their wedding, the higher the risk of divorce, and the shorter the marriage. I believe this is God punishing people for being selfish.

[misogynistic_pig]

Because in the modern Western context, marriage is a system of legalized prostitution whereby a man bribes a woman with food/drink, housing, emotional security, job security, transportation service, an expensive ring, and a lavish wedding.

[Adam1978]

You don't, I would recommend to stay away from any woman that requires it, she is clearly just after your resources and her special day. With no care about what it does to you.

[Anonymous]

are you kidding me? a wedding can be as cheap as you want...

[Anonymous]

You don't, and I would strongly urge you as a man to avoid marriage unless you find the rare woman who is worthy.

[Dinklex3]

?

You don't.

[Alliegal]

Who’s making you?

[Asker]

My girlfriend and mom

[Alliegal]

Dangggg

[In_Trance]

you don't