Why do people think its so bad to marry for money?

[Anonymous]

I am currently pregnant and engaged to a wealthy man who owns a business. I am 29 and he is 36. He is an excellent provider and protector. Since the first week I became pregnant, I have quit my nursing job (pays incredibly well by the way, 190k). Not many women have this luxury, I know nurses who have to work 12 hour shifts all day while heavily pregnant because their husbands can't provide for her. After our daughter is born, we plan on hiring an expert baby nurse to watch her overnight so that we wouldn't have to wake up in the middle of the night to care for her. I don't plan on ever working again for the rest of my life. I might work once in a while to preserve and maintain my nursing licensure. But I plan on dedicating the next 20 years of my life to mothering our children. On the other hand, I know plenty of moms who have to work 8 to 12 hours a day then come home to do all the housework. My man and I go out to luxury lunches and dinners everyday then he comes home to rub my feet since they're been swollen due to my pregnancy. We drive around in a comfy, spacious, luxury car and live in a nice neighborhood where everyone is upper class, educated and super respectful. We have a house cleaner that comes in to clean our apartment. I never have to do any housework. Since I have met him over the past year, we have traveled to 4 different countries already. We never have to worry about not being able to afford a nicer room or having to pay extra to have breakfast delivered to us in bed.

I would never have to stick to a job I hate ever again. I can pick and choose where to work or do whatever I want since money isn't a factor. I would never have to tolerate working with coworkers I hate or having to get yelled at by a patient or a doctor again.

I really do not regret my decision to marry for money. And I think all of this ridiculing about gold diggers just comes from a pile of very jealous, angry men who know they cannot measure up.

[NoDecision]

Well, hope you never get divorced in the future. After you have kids your freedom to do what you want goes out the door. And if you don't work you get no SS or retirement, although at this stage all that stuff is up in the air. Only Congressmen are guaranteed a retirement.

[genericname85]

it's only bad if one side is exploited. like if you're suggesting you love a man just cause you want his money though marriage, so he thinks you love him which you don't, that's betrayal and fraud. if both agree to a marriage under these terms, then there's nothing wrong with that.

[Asker]

what im saying is... there is nothing bad about marrying for money. it sure is way better than working yourself to death because you chose to marry someone who couldn't provide. Its not something that should be shamed for wanting.

[genericname85]

dude. as i already said. if you lie to a man in order to get his money, that is bad. so there CAN absolutely be all bad with that. the condition to make it not bad is MUTUAL CONSENT.

[Asker]

Money can make a woman fall in love. When a man can take care of a woman THAT way, THAT well, it can make a woman loyal.

[genericname85]

well if all you love is his money, make sure you're not lying about loving anything else. then it's fine.

[Asker]

Its like saying... a woman who you didn't love to begin with. She washed your underwear, cooked for you, gave you the best blow jobs for years, was your only biggest supporter for years, never gave up on you when the rest of the world did, made sacrifices for you, bought you the best while she had nothing. Yes, absolutely you can love and stay loyal to a woman like this.

[genericname85]

"She washed your underwear, cooked for you, gave you the best blow jobs for years" we live in the age of feminism xD women aren't doing any of that for men.

[Asker]

rich men typically don't care if a woman likes their money. He understands that money is part of his appeal and this will bring him higher quality women.

[Asker]

["She washed your underwear, cooked for you, gave you the best blow jobs for years" we live in the age of feminism xD women aren't doing any of that for men.]

this is how rich men take care of their women. this is how providers care for their women. he takes care of her every need. Poor men can't do this. Poor men actually stress their wives out.

[Asker]

do you really think being broke is going to bring him a high value, attractive young woman? this is why rich men don't care if women likes their money

[genericname85]

rich men pay house keeping services and don't let their wifes do the dirty work. lol. what planet are you from? you seem to live in a wildly different reality. also poor men don't have time for their women. they live for their profession. a woman is an accessoire they bring to a party like the expensive watch on their wrist. nothing more.

[genericname85]

and why should rich men settle for "one" woman, if they can litterally fuck any girl they want cause there's countless money loving whores out there XD the marriage is just on paper for the status in public affairs.

[Asker]

@genericname85

[rich men pay house keeping services and don't let their wifes do the dirty work. lol. what planet are you from? you seem to live in a wildly different reality]

you never heard that rich men hired maids? what world do you come from? haha

[ also poor men don't have time for their women. they live for their profession]

poor men force their wives to work full time job all day then she has to come home to continue doing all the housework and child care... because he can't afford to hire a maid or a nanny. how sad...

[a woman is an accessoire they bring to a party like the expensive watch on their wrist. nothing more.]

because rich men can fall in love too?

[and why should rich men settle for "one" woman, if they can litterally fuck any girl they want cause there's countless money loving whores]

because he is in love with her? because there is something so special about coming home to 1 person every night who is all ears to listen to you , care for you with affection, having a best friend?

[genericname85]

maids are one branch of house keeping but i guess you didn't know that. also rich men don't marry their maids. so you basically invalidated your own argument xD

rich men can fall in love. i agree. but you know who they never fall in love with? the endless supply of whores who just like their money xD

[Asker]

[maids are one branch of house keeping but i guess you didn't know that. also rich men don't marry their maids. so you basically invalidated your own argument xD]

only poor men marry maids. rich men marry upper class women with education and class and of course looks.

[rich men can fall in love. i agree. but you know who they never fall in love with? the endless supply of whores who just like their money xD]

yea... we all know you're pissed. Sorry you were so offended by this question

[genericname85]

yup. and if all you supply to a man is "cooking and cleaning, and sucking their dick", then you are a maid :D

ah now i see. you wish i'd be pissed. why is that? you wanna piss me off or something? what would be the goal of something so dumb?

[genericname85]

i mean let's be real here. i'm not rich and you're not hot enough to get the attention of rich man anyway. nothing for us two to be mad about :D

[ohsheeT]

Well, I guess it depends on how much you have. I mean i'm sure we could strike up some kind of deal lol

[EmmaMary]

From which Mills and Boon romantic novel does this imaginative story come from?

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[Nikki1989]

You should hook up with the man on here who posts the imaginary sexual stories.

[jahaims]

Because a lot people know that leads to a negative unhappy outcome.

[Anonymous]

Do you really want to know or are you just looking for an argument? Because I'll tell you why but I'm not interested in arguing the point.

[wkhan_87]

Nothing is bad with that , people just share their individual opinions

[WellBye]

Story timeeee.🤡

[FunkyMonkee]

Because that's not what marriage is for!

[Asker]

we all have the right to make our lives easier instead of harder.

[FunkyMonkee]

So? Become a business partner with him instead of marrying him! It makes you look like a cheap, worthless slut to marry just for his money!

[Asker]

poor men stress their wives out. rich men make their wives' lives easier.

[FunkyMonkee]

If a rich guy gets tired of you, he can just dump your ass and take up with the next one in line because there'll always be a next one in line waiting to take your place JUST because he has money!!
A poor guy knows that it's MUCH cheaper to keep her!! And, will probably do what he can to keep her happy, thus making his life happier.
And the same thing goes for rich and poor broads.

[Anonymous]

Lame fake profile dude