What do you think makes the bride/groom start crying when she comes down the aisle to him?

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I don't know i never understood it. Why would i be crying? 😂 If i cry, its cause i don’t wanna be there #FeelFreeToList

NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

One of my more... unusual opinions is that The Muppets Take Manhattan is my favorite of the classic (or Jim-era) Muppet movies. But even as a kid, the wedding scene, where seemingly random attendees in the pews just bursting into tears, baffled me. Weddings are happy; why would you be crying? Tears of sorrow, of pain, of frustration- these I could understand. But joy? No, that made no sense. Mom kept telling me they were crying because they were happy, and I kept telling her that made no sense. Eventually, she fell back on "you'll understand when you're older".

Now, two and a half decades and at least a dozen weddings later, it STILL makes no sense. I have NEVER seen someone crying at a wedding in real life, and I've looked. The closest was an "I wish your father was here to see this" moment during the reception, but that was sorrow, not happiness. Well, sorrow and whiskey.

SnowedIn · Accepted Answer

Maybe sheer happiness? An "omg is this really happening?". "I can't wait to jump them later?" Or they're a diva and it's crappy acting?

I just remember my wife was either beaming or cracking up because my mother was acting like an idiot (and so was my dad and his wife) and my brother showed up with Star Trek crap on his tuxedo. So, yeah, no crying at our wedding. 😎

kylee2437 · Answer

Because crying isn’t always a sign of sadness. Sometimes something’s are so beautiful and intense to the point that they cry.

Guy13 · Answer

My single life is over... my single life is over... Waaaa ;-)

UniquelyBasic · Answer

Probably a bunch of emotions hit at once realizing everything you two have been through has paid off in a sense and looking towards what they hope is a bright future. Its probably one of those things that you can't understand until you've had that experience with someone you truly love.

icedragoom · Answer

For a guy I would say this is both mine and my now wife's day she is dressed as beautiful as can be and that being with the woman of my dreams not just making me happy but seeing that my family and her family approve of us being together it makes thinking about all those dates we had the sad moments the happy moments and the dad may I ask for your daughters hand moment all that more special cause at any point in time during the time you were dating you both could have left and not had anything to do with one another but it's different

snackthatsmilesback · Answer

You ever have a delayed crying? Like something bad happens but you don't have an emotional reaction until you know it's definitely over? I think for me it was something like that.

Happened like an hour before the wedding tho lol, lucky cuz I'm loud crier. We did a little practice will the song last how long it takes to walk?, and he bust open the door and smile and it hit me this was it. We'd been together yea, but now I realized we were definitely together. And all the past shit came back at once like that was all over now. This was good. He was fucking amazing. Weird thing cause I was super happy ofc, but at the same time it wasn't "happy tears." What made me cry felt bad, even tho I felt good. That's the best way I can explain it. 🖤

Prettygurl12 · Answer

Because the bride is stunningly gorgeous and the groom is excited to finally marry her 🤷🏼‍♀️ My husband cried when I came down the aisle.

exitseven · Answer

I got married in January and it was snowing out. I was standing at the altar and all of a sudden the door opens and my future wife is standing there in her wedding gown. A big gust of wind blew in a bunch of snow and she looked like a perfect snow angel. There was not a dry eye in the place.

loveslongnails · Answer

Crying doesn't necessarily mean you're upset or sad, but rather it's often the reaction to any kind of strong emotion or physical pain. When I saw the Sistine Chapel for the first time it brought tears to my eyes because it was so beautiful.

Brides cry because for most of them, it's a day they've been looking forward to for their whole life. Everything they built up and dreamed of is now happening, so the emotions are just bursting.

Wiredone · Answer

I never had a big wedding so I don't know. We just got married by the justice of the peace. All the people we know that had big weddings are now divorced. The ones who got married by the justice of the peace are still happily married. That's why we did it. Neither of us cried at our wedding.

Dnice1 · Answer

Seeing the one you love looking so handsome or beautiful and knowing that that person that I love so much and who loves me so much is finally becoming mine and that we'll be spending the rest our lives together just as we have both wanted for so long. It's an incredible feeling of joy, happiness and true love. It's feeling I hope to feel that feeling one day my boyfriend.

dustybiker · Answer

It’s usually the grooms gaze that does it. They look at you as if you are a dream. It’s pretty emotional already, but to see the volley of expressions cross their face is wild and rare and stirs everything up.

Justneedtokno · Answer

relief that they chose them because they could have not down the aisle, relieved that they are finally at this point in their lives happiness joy, overwhelming. These are just my thoughts.

DeeDeeDeVour · Answer

Those are tears of joy.  Usually, when a woman cries during her wedding, it's because it's a very happy moment in her life.

RavVid · Answer

I have no idea at all. WTF? My eyes will water if I am laughing hard. But laughing your way down the aisle would weird too.

worldscolide · Answer

Neither of us cried during that part. I cried during her vows because she sang them. It was a song. I almost cried during mine, because I meant them more than anything else in my life.

AdithyaR · Answer

People often do cry of happiness so its common that they cry cause they're happy or touched by emotion, weddings are often a very special day for people.

the_sinner · Answer

The partner might be looking gorgeous.  Pre wedding jitters  Probably a once in a lifetime event

TrillXHippy · Answer

If I cried it would be because I would get to see the person that is going to become my wife walk down the aisle to me, how beautiful she looks and getting married is something that would never be a reality for me

lilyanony1 · Answer

Nerves, emotions because traditionally they don't see each other for an extended period of time

Nikki1989 · Answer

I balled my eyes out at my wedding. I was so happy, I felt overwhelmed by it.

AimeeKyle · Answer

I didn’t cry…but I can see how people could. It is the culmination of a lot of work / stress and everyone is there. It is a relief once everything is underway.

Ms_Facesitter · Answer

Maybe the realization that he got this far, that he gets to marry the person he loves.

ZenJen444 · Answer

It's a big day. Usually the groom is not allowed to see the bride before the wedding. How beautiful she looks and the thought of spending their life together is what makes them cry

Tina19 · Answer

I think they just want to make it more interesting and romantic and they start to cry lol

kellytheman · Answer

I thought they are usually so happy and the emotions just take over there body. Also the bride always look so amazing. I never cried at a wedding but I am also not a groom or been married.

LiamJHayden · Answer

I'd be crying because it would be dawning on me that the act is likely going to be a life destroying mistake on my part.

Aakash_Hangargi · Answer

Because at this moment he knew that he fucked up 🤣

admles · Answer

As a man who just got married 5 days ago, it was being overcome with love that made me want to cry

Mark987 · Answer

The fact she is leaving her family for him.. a new chapter of her life

Jamie05rhs · Answer

It's because it's an emotional moment. And sometimes it just hits you and it can be overwhelming.

nawtee_me · Answer

That was my thought too, if crying she might have just realized it is for real…..

TheAfrikan · Answer

I guess she be missing the dick and hopes shit goes down soon. so that she can feed on it.

Agape93 · Answer

No idea. I never got that either.

melanieeeB · Answer

Probably out of happiness I guess

Degenerate · Answer

This might be the dumbest question I've seen

Guardian45 · Answer

I thought you said "You wish"?

NathanDavis · Answer

true love...

Phoenix98 · Answer

Happy tears.

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