I think that marrying a non-virgin woman is asking for trouble. People who had sexual experiences with others before marriage are more likely to cheat. Am I being insecure and narrow minded by thinking this way or is there some truth to it?
I think your misogyny is showing and I really hate using that word. So let's break it down - the factors that increase or decrease the odds of unfaithfulness are multifaceted and unique to every individual and circumstance. But one thing is dead certain the presence or absence of virginity before marriage doesn't mean jack squat.
There are countless stories of both sexes saving it for the wedding night and lapsing into a pattern of betrayal-and-repent till divorce or death. While at the same time the reverse is also seen. The only thing universal amongst them is an absence of authenticity, effective reconciliation and trust.
I don't think there's any such connection. In fact, the opposite is probably more likely. The woman may want to experience something different.
Depend did she do ons or did she have sex with her long terms boyfriend? I know a girls that waited more than 2 years before having sex with her boyfriend so in this case if for example they broke off I wouldn't think of her as being more likely to cheat than a virgin. (cause when she had sex with them she surely thought he was the one like most girl believe, at least where I live it's like that).
But after having a preference for a virgin partner is not a bad things, I would also prefer a virgin partner cause we could learn together, more romantic and I believe in waiting until wedding.
No, bruh. You gotta stick to purity. And you can't touch yourself, either. Don't you know if you touch a penis, you become gay?
Make sure you also INSIST on knowing whether any woman you're talking to is a virgin. Demand body counts and make sure you tell her every other message that you're a virgin.
And remember, sending memes about how women's vaginas get loose and stay loose is a power move.
Don't forget to throw a tantrum and insist women who have sex before they met you are whores.
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u It's not guarantee. People can and do seriously re-evaluate themselves, their values, and their choices. It's possible that they can be a thoroughly committed spouse.
That said, that is also not a guarantee. It is perfectly reasonable to look at someone's history and wonder what effect it has on how they view the opposite sex, sex itself, and marriage. And no, you're not judging a person's character or their heart by reflecting on those things and asking those questions. And by the way, the same holds true for viewing pornography, going to strip clubs, prostitution, and so forth.
In marriage, which is fulfilled in sexual union, husband and wife give each other to themselves entirely. If someone has already given that much of themselves to someone else - especially in light of how much "value" (using that term very loosely) modern culture places on sex - asking about how it will affect that intimacy with you is one of the most sane things you can do.
As it so happens, this exact topic came up on Tim Pool recently...
https://www.youtube.com/embed/G6EXgAKLDe8
personally, i would think so. my friend has been jumping from guy to guy, could never stay single longer than a week. sometimes she would already start a relationship, while in a relationship that was about to end. that's how bad she couldn't be alone. so eventually, something's gotta give...
That's absurd. There's no truth to it whatsoever. Sex before marriage doesn't increase the chance of cheating, regardless of the stupid chart some virgin chasers are fond of posting in order to rationalize their fetish.
Yea she is likely to cheat, women lose the ability to bond if other men has been on them.
Those things have nothing to do with each other. If she cheated before marriage, then sure, cheating is more likely.
I don't know. Ask my sister.
Test her out before marrying.
has nothing to do with it
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