Hello everyone,
I am married, I love my husband, he is a great husband but sometimes I feel like a roommate.
we’ve be married for 4 years, we have a 10 years old daughter and a 6 years old. My partner is a great father, he is a great husband in his might, he loves me but I feel alone sometimes.
I feel alone because I pull more weight on our relationship than him, I feel like a man. We’ve been married for 4 years, we bought a house 3 years ago, we have a 3 years old and a 10 years old. He is a good father he loves his children, he loves me in his abilities, I’d say, he cares about me, we gives small kisses often, hugs staying affectionate, but …! as the woman I feel like a man. We moved to an area where I got a lot of harassment. I am the one laying all the boundaries, so people won’t squatter on our property and claim adverse possession. I am drained, I look angry, he doesn’t want to get on their bad said.
We go out people are being rude, even body shove me, he said nothing, when address the person, he just say babe let’s go. When we’re driving I get the same people acting as Road aggressors, he doesn’t believe me. « One of my neighbor is acting and trynna intimidate me, so he drove up and down the road in front the house, you know when you see people on the rd you slow down and make you drive safe, and they safe..! Well that neighbor did the opposite, I was standing right near my driveway, he sped near me, close enough to hit me. Then he drove a round and return my way, at a point drove in reverse and back the vehicle behind my back while pretending to look away. » I told my husband about it, he said be careful of that man, my head went down and I felt alone more than usual.
Tell him... Sit him down and say how you feel!
Move our first apartment was so awful but he never saw any of it! Not till latter did things like red lights click for him!
It's more you can't let your needs go you need them met by him! Tell him andove for your health!
Give him the duties show him things in a way your kids will understand... Men are dumb!
Don't just cut work with him and move!
Leave skunk stink around a lot blaming the neighbors of drugs and pot all day!
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So I have to be honest w this. I feel as though you’re making everything into something. Like you’re the type of female who will drag their boyfriend or husband into a situation because you want to make it into a big deal. So you get him involved in a fight or something. At the same time you had to have known this as far as how he is if this is really true. Most men don’t like confrontation. But we tend to get dragged into it because of women. Like honestly my girl will say some things similar to what you say, not as much but I notice it myself, it isn’t what she says or thinks it is. But she will make a big deal of it. But like I was saying you should have seen this in the beginning before you married him.
to be honest i do not see which need was neglected. he related to the kids and is affection to you. that is more than many rotten fathers.
honestly he's smart. when it comes to people in public, it's best to just ignore and keep head down. you don't want to get into an altercation and then someone pulls out a gun...
as for the rest about the house/down payment. you chose to do that. what is he supposed to do if you're the one who has the money to do so? get some counseling... WITH your husband.
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