Should MEN propose or do you think it does not matter who does the marriage proposal?

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Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

I'm very traditional and believe that the man should be the one to propose.

jaskin777 · Accepted Answer

Only men

OlderAndWiser · Answer

There really isn't a OSFA rule for this subject. For me, in my world, the guy I am and the women I have dated. . . the man proposes. On a Friday night, wearing a suit and tie, down on one knee, in the middle of the restaurant where you had your first date. And when she says "yes," you pull the ring out and place it on her finger. That's how I did it.

AviatorTom · Answer

It doesn't matter. I proposed way back when, and I've known couples where the woman proposed and the man agreed. In one case, the woman asked the man, "When are we gonna get married?" He immediately got down on one knee and said "Will you marry me?" In that case, who actually did the proposing?

HawkPerception · Answer

I'd much rather propose. I make sure my partners are feminine enough to let me propose and let me do something I've planned my whole life when the time comes. I don't care if it sounds like toxic masculinity. I'd feel somewhat emasculated.

However, if my partner happened to blindside me, I'd probably tell her yes so she doesn't feel like I didn't accept her. But I'd quickly add that I will not accept the ring and she should return it for her money because want to be the one to propose to her.

JTPeterson · Answer

I know I’m in the minority of this but honestly us men have done it forever and just like how I feel woman can and should start making the first step in talking to a man they are interested in a woman can also propose to a man especially if they also want marriage as well it shouldn’t be all on the guy to stress out on saying the first hello to a woman and ask for marriage women I believe should do it too. And I get it a woman would be just as nervous as a guy would but I have always personally dreamed of a woman who would not only say hi to me first and hit on and flirt with me but I have always wanted a woman to propose to me. Maybe I’m just always nervous about being the one to always do it but I would just love to see a woman do that with me for a change

Anonymous · Answer

It doesn't really matter. I know some women feel men doing it is tradition and that's fine. Some women say they would NEVER do this and give some b. s. excuse like if the guy doesn't propose he doesn't really want to marry me, and that's fine if they want to believe this. I only know what I see with my own eyes. I have a lady friend and she asked the guy she was dating to marry her. And they married 18 years. Ago. They've got 3 kids and are still going strong!

I think if you use your head, choose well, and give it your all it doesn't matter which ge Der proposes.

RebelinSteel · Answer

It does not matter who does it, who should do it in a same sex relationship? This year is a leap year and February 29 is the time when women will propose to men. It is tradition, for those in relationships, the women has tradition on her side and can pop the question.

molonski2 · Answer

Look admittedly I'm old fashioned , but its not the woman's place to propose marriage , that would freak me out. This is the role of the male , its his task and his duty , I don't want any women proposing to me thanks - scary , some things a man MUST do , and show some balls and courage.

Miristheiss · Answer

Women are NOT men. Men should propose.  Everyone should stop trying to act as if men and women are exactly the same and are interchangeable.

JHAYES317 · Answer

I don’t think it should matter frankly, and actually I would be turned off if any girl I was dating told me that I had to be the one to propose. I don’t want to feel obligated to it. That being said, generally I’d say men are gonna do it out of tradition, and I personally probably would if I was as in that situation, but suggesting that it has to be this way, and that women can never propose to guys is ridiculous.

citygirlxox · Answer

It depends on the dynamic me personally I like a dominant man so I want him to

LazerBean · Answer

Men who want a traditional woman should propose. Otherwise it doesn't matter.

HighValue · Answer

Men should propose. . . a prenuptial agreement.

OddBeMe · Answer

I think most proposals are foregone conclusions of longtime relationships. I’m sure men still by the engagement ring as that’s the custom, but gals know it’s happening soon.

RoseTheNose47 · Answer

I don't really think it would matter its mainly depending on what type of person the man or woman is I have a girl friend who toled me that one of her aunts proposed first. So I think that it could go ither way.

EmpressAJ · Answer

I would rather shit in my hands and clap before I propose to man🤣

RingOfFire · Answer

No freaking way I want a woman to propose. This is a man's job. It's in the DNA.

SotiCoto · Answer

Does there even need to be marriage any more?

IslaTheWitch · Answer

It doesn't matter

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Marriage is a traditional institution. Only men should propose and only propose to traditional women.

Shiningtempest · Answer

@spacegalaxy It depends on each individual. In the end, all that matters are having compatible vision for their marriage.

Anonymous · Answer

My mother proposed to my father. They've been married 46 years. It doesn't matter who asks.

Hulk30 · Answer

I'm thinkin women because whatever's actually women's idea most likely they actually want it

mandyfire98 · Answer

In my opinion it doesn't matter.

Mado108 · Answer

Men should propose

dragoblack · Answer

It doesn't matter who.

Anonymous · Answer

100% absolutely, yes.

jimmy2 · Answer

My wife proposed to me

Lydiana · Answer

I think it's supposed to be the men to do it

Anonymous · Answer

ı think men can do it

renodnol32 · Answer

Doesn't matter.

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