When a man proposes to a woman should he try to propose in a way that she would like or should it be his way only?

Anonymous
Recently I was proposed too, I had a feeling that it was going to happen soon and he had asked me if I had ever thought about how I would want to be proposed too.
I said, I never had a exact idea of how I wanted to be proposed too but I had always wanted it to be a intimate moment with just me and the person asking me. And it was fine if we saw people after but during the asking I wanted it to be just us.
He told me that, that wasn’t going to happen to for me and that this was going to be his way. I thought maybe he said this to through me off but when he proposed he had all of his family there, and my mother.
It was hurtful to me that he didn’t came enough to try to make it something he knew I wanted, and if he knew he wasn’t going to respect it why didn’t he at least invite more than my mother from my family to be there.
Am I wrong for feeling this way?
When a man proposes to a woman should he try to propose in a way that she would like or should it be his way only?
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