Fathers and brothers, have you cried when your sister/daughter got married?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I just watched a very cute video, a brother cried when his sister got proposed 😂

[abc3643]

No. I was happy for the most part although my sister was 4 years younger than me. (*)
It was otherwise a very tough time in my life which was bottoming out. Being in her wedding party as a groomsman was nice though.

(*) She was 27 and I was 31 when she got married in 1994.
I got married at age 38 in 2001.

[abc3643]

I need to be clear though; my sister and I were never close and, currently, we are estranged which is fine by me. She is a devout Trumpster and I am a rational human.

[AManOnTheWeb]

My sister's wedding was outdoors. There was a lot of dust in the air that made my eyes water. That's my story, and I'm sticking to it.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Awwww, so sweet 😍 I’ll give MHO to you 🥰

[AManOnTheWeb]

Thanks so much!

[RoseySarah]

Sweet but not really crying! They were more... He finally proposed! At last!

[LemonJuicee]

I don't think my dad or brothers would really care tbh

[AviatorTom]

No. I was an usher at my sister's wedding. No time for tears, I was busy escorting people to their seats. And the ceremony was beautiful. No time for tears.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I felt so extremely happy and proud and clapped my hands when my little sis got married, but I never understood how happy tears worked. I've only experienced the kind where I get tears when I'm extremely upset.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I have cried a few times from happiness

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

Is there a hint of sadness there, like bittersweet? I'm not allergic to crying in such situations; I figure happy tears are perfectly harmless. It's just very confusing to me.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

There was one time I remember crying watching the end of Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind where the ending is on a happy note. But I was brokenhearted when I watched it so it made me kind of sad and happy at the same time which caused me to tear up.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

No, first time I cried with happiness I was 13-14, my father sent me an amazing present.

It was the first time I cried of happiness. Nothing have ever felt the same ever, but there have been 3-4 other times.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I cried of happiness because he got me something I dreamed of, but much better than I could ever picture in my dreams.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He basically outcompeted my dreams.

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

I see; I might just be unfamiliar with this type of strong feeling! I was so happy though and swelling with pride when my sis got married. Now they have a child; she's 7 years old now.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

That’s wonderful

[GuyAnswersGirls123]

(her daughter, that is)

[molonski2]

I'm pretty sure I was rapt when my 3 sisters finally got married.

BUT , Id probably be a blubbering mess if either of my daughters finally got married , I kinda hope it happens one day , but no pressure.

[AmeerX]

You are laughing 🤔. It's really normal thing in my part of world. Girls are leaving their parents home for her husbands.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am laughing not as condemning but instead because how cute I find it

[AmeerX]

Husband's*

[AmeerX]

Ohh :). Maybe you will too when you marry your future husband 😊

[AmeerX]

Oh the bride also used to cry when marriages were more arranged

[HawkPerception]

My younger brother's gonna get married pretty soon. I can't see myself crying, but I am happy for him. He has his life figured out and a good girl at his side. I definitely don't see them divorcing in the future.

[NathanDavis]

I have no sisters or daughters...

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

What about your brothers haha

[NathanDavis]

not because of marriage... but, holding my nieces for the very first time, yes

especially the youngest one which came to this world at very challenging in difficult birth, so I did cry, I had never hold someone so dearly and carefully in my life before...

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

That’s so sweet 🥹

[NathanDavis]

and very fortunate... (=

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Indeed it is.

[Likes2drive]

Maybe if it happens when my daughters eventually do, my sister never got married so I don’t know yet, I’ve only seen my stepson get married recently and I was smiling and happy for him

[Redstang88]

No I’m definitely not a crier

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Why not, what’s wrong with tears

[KrakenAttackin]

@LaFemmeFatale_1. Seriously? This has been hashed out a hundred times. Women don't respect men who cry.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@KrakenAttackin That is the type of women you MUST never been interested to be with in the first place. Blame your own taste. Men have cried with me, I have respected them for their openness and trust to me.

[Redstang88]

I’m just not that emotional 🤷‍♂️ Doesn’t accomplish anything

[KrakenAttackin]

@LaFemmeFatale_1. You would never date/marry a man who cried in front of you.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@KrakenAttackin I dated and was engaged to one! He cried when I was leaving. I always remembered his tears when I was away from him. He tried to hide them, but I saw.

And I always told myself, I would never hurt him, because I knew how much I meant to him. I have never seen him cry, I saw him cry just for once or twice and both times - because of me.

It was a responsibility for me, meaning I knew I had his heart and I had to take a gentle care of it.

[KrakenAttackin]

@LaFemmeFatale_1. And yet he is an "ex"...

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

And he was a very tough guy. I haven’t thought any less of him, because of him.

To the contrary, I only fell for him more deeply.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@KrakenAttackin We broke up amicably because we couldn’t make it to each other, due to idiot lockdown during pandemic. For two years!

He has been my only love and I am grateful to him, so is he to me. We were each other’s first loves. Sometimes things end not because we messed up, but because life is cruel.

[KrakenAttackin]

@LaFemmeFatale_1. So you were soul mates but couldn't get through separation? Doesn't sound like soul mates to me.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@KrakenAttackin whatever, I never asked your opinion.

[KrakenAttackin]

@LaFemmeFatale_1. You constantly talk about how many men you have dangling around you. I just can't imagine you ever being seriously attached to one man.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

@KrakenAttackin Yet, I was…

[SotiCoto]

Eh. Nah. But I laughed when she got a divorce.
Divorce is basically the family tradition by now. We've all gone through it.

[McLlovin]

No. That’s doesn’t mean I wasn’t super happy, that just doesn’t make me cry.

[love_conquers_lust]

Nope. I attended the ceremony and paid my respects.

[JayBones]

My sister never got married and my daughters are 14 12 and 3

[jahaims]

Daughter is 4 so she obviously isn't married and idc about my sister so no.

[Pete671]

Yes I cried when my sister got married,,,

[Liketotry]

Yes, I have