Or is it just the idea of being with one person that scares you?
People that don't plan on marrying, are you close minded on the idea of marriage?
Or is it just the idea of being with one person that scares you?
In the second part of the movie Dune, the character Paul Atreides, portrayed by Timothée Chalamet, faces a similar predicament. He is destined to join forces with Chani and the Fremen, but he also grapples with the concept of a predetermined future. Despite his initial reluctance, he ultimately embraces his destiny, resulting in an epic storyline. This mirrors the idea of marriage - some individuals may initially be hesitant, but when they encounter the right person, they might reconsider and embrace the idea.
In the movie Spaceman, Adam Sandler portrays an astronaut named Jakub who embarks on a solitary research mission. Throughout his journey, Jakub realizes that he is not alone in the vast universe. This could be interpreted as a metaphor for those who have reservations about marriage due to the fear of being confined to one person. They may feel as though they are embarking on a solitary path, but eventually come to realize that they are not alone and that there is someone out there for them, be it some love doctor brat practicing his nonsense or @gyno-nurse-Chad grabbing random pussies.
I don't plan on getting married anytime soon, but I like to think I'd be open to it when I'm older & actually know what I want more.
That's good bro, you do you
Everything about it sounds stupid to me.
I’m a skeptic and open minded. I question everything. Marriage; just like Religion is a cult. A practice.
It has Nothing To do with nature and reproduction. And we are carnal beings as part of nature. No creature in nature marries.
It’s simply a control of human behavior, or parenting for adults. That’s why most marriages don’t last, or the men and women cheat in marriages.
Still comparing humans to normal animals I see but fair enough emy
Just because we have the title “human”, doesn’t mean we aren’t animals. If you eat animals of nature and fruits of nature. You’re an animal.
Just because we have communication, high IQ, and language. Doesn’t mean we aren’t an animal.
@chicofromthe305
Stop with the stupidity.
All stats show that marriages don’t last and both husbands and wives get bored of eachother. Marriage is just a promise and a paper. Easily broken. Based on nothing but belief
@chicofromthe305
And belief is a powerful tool for control.
I believe in the carnal world in front of me. No Gods, No Religion, No marriage.
https://youtu.be/wEAE6IhPu_U?si=13478ajeZPe6WBiZ
Marriages not lasting is a human error, not spiritual, you talk about stupidity but speak blindly, sounds like the true definition of stupidity, I'm open minded, to think thats stupid kinda makes you stupid, weither a god exists or Not, having the open mind to believe a god does exist is a higher form of intelligence than to keep a close mind and follow man made statistics like the stats themselves are a god, you worship stats, having an open mind in believes that doesn't have a limit that extends beyond our universe and that makes you not only wonder but believe there's a purpose and eternity beyond our existance is far better than enclosing your believes to something as small as information that was gathered on a single planet and believe all that information is all there is, putting all your life and the salvation of whatever happens after death all into the hands of other humans by believing their discoveries is creation is stupid if you really wanna talk about stupid, you live and believe it, don't forget you and every other human you see and will ever see all have one thing in common and that is the cluelessness of anything beyond physicality and we are all on the same boat making new discoveries everyday, marriage is only the beginning of the topic of love which itself is unexplainable when it comes to it's existance.
https://youtu.be/vNe5SuSxtbY?si=8ahH-OoIbpKw_Zjv
https://youtu.be/HFwAOBTyV0Y?si=JvhRgnxz8dhtqLF4
You believe in marriages and religion, and gods. Your sheep 🐑. Period. A sheep to cult.
Just because your parents said so. Doesn’t make it true.
Just like Santa 🎅.. Jesus and God is parenting for grown adults.
Grown adults of which when menstruating and ejaculating, all they want to do is f-k eachother.
You are in the same boat with the government, and companies, they tell you stuff and you believe It, you aren't thinking very clearly, but to be fair, you never do.
I don’t believe anything.
What are you offended you little cultist? 🖕😆
That I said your Sky Daddy don’t exist? 😆
I'm not offended, you are the one replying wish hostility, sounds to me like you don't want to believe and it bothers you that I do, grow up child
With*
If your mom believed in Santa. And she told you that Santa makes her torture animals and babies.
That wouldn’t bother you?
( Belief is a powerful tool )
I believed in Santa and as I grew up I realized it's fake, never happened to me with my faith, you are being hypocritical because the same goes for you, when people tell you something doesn't exist you believe it too, and we don't do animal sacrifices, you are confusing it with satanism.
Are you stupid? I never said you do sacrifices.
I said the sacrifice part to “show you”. How powerful and dangerous belief can be.
Specially BLIND BELIEF.
Believing in any God, is BLIND BELIEF.
I stopped being religious by the age of 24.
Will never look back. It’s parenting for adults.
The only reason you push it it’s because you want to “parent” women. You want women subjugated. Following rules.
I 100% bet you , sir, aren’t following the rules.
https://youtu.be/cND-L8e6nXQ
Sounds to me like you are just clueless on what to reply so you say whatever crap your last floating brain cells tells you 😂

This f—🌈—gt
Telling me I have no braincells
Well you don't or you'd know that sexuality has nothing to do with this conversation 😂
And stop keeping my pictures, that's weird 😂
Don't do nothing weird with that... you hear lmaoo
I live in a place where marriage is more a tradition than anything else... so I don't treat marriage as something ultimate :D
People find happiness together without signing papers or saying vows before the altar.
I consider that in the future a man would have an idea of marring me. I don't really care :D I don't need that but if it will be important for him I'm open to
Fair enough isla
@ManOnFire lmao, are you proposing?
@ManOnFire you flatter me but I would like to talk about conditions before I say "yes" :D
@ManOnFire I don't doubt you are an ideal husband material :D but I'm definitely not a wifey type :D so let's talk before you will face a huge disappointment :P
@islathewitch hmm... intriguing
@ManOnFire I'm sorry but I have a prior appointment with @NathanDavis we will have to postpone negotiations :D
I feel like karaoke night though... what was that other talk about getting lost?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wDjeBNv6ip0
@NathanDavis lmao
one of my favorite songs
what's a favorite of yours that I yet, don't know about...
@NathanDavis I think I still can find a few my favorite things you don't know about :D
say when...
when...
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It's just not that important to me and I'm really not that interested in having a wedding.
I've also never been in love, so there's always the possibility that I could change my mind someday.
Interesting, I hope you fall in love one day hella
Bella*
You will don't stress 😆
Very. I hate the idea of love…. But who actually marries for love? lol 😂
I don’t like sharing..
I do, I only plan on marrying for love so I can only assume there's more like me but fair enough
Ig a guy can marry for love. Lol 60-70 percent of women don’t. Love don’t pay the bills. lol marriage is a lot more than love
Welp it's why I plan on finding a woman within that 30-40 percent that does, love doesn't need to pay the bills, working does that.
And that 30-40 percent is desperate lmaoo
Good luck tho
No they Aren't, they are smart and mature, technically women that date without marriage or relationships in mind are desperate cause it means they do it out of loneliness and to seek for attention.
And there’s nothing wrong with that! Lmaoo don’t take jabs bitch.
I sureee the fuck dooo
You are so miserable it shows, that's pretty sad, you've become more toxic since the last time we spoke lol
Who is miserable? I really want to know?
All because I had my own opinion. Boy, fuck you fr. I thought you were cool. You suck and women have to settle for you.
It's not about the opinion, it's about the mindset, you dating is only wasting other people's times, just fall into hookup culture at that point, you already know I'm straight forward and the tough love type, why you still so surprised lol
You legit seem miserable and you don't seem to have a strategized path in life, answer this cause it's a genuine question, do you prefer I lie to you?
Sir, with all due respect. I don’t give a fuck.
I have nothing to prove to you.
I pray for the women you settle with.
You should be praying for yourself too not just my future wife, why you getting salty, relax, you are way too sensitive for no reason.
You fucking relax.
I am, I wasn't not relaxed 😇
Throwing jabs at someone and calling them miserable is not relaxed. You’re messy in the name of “being honest”
Nope I just lack that filter that people sugarcoat with, I didn't throw jabs at you, you just took it as jabs but it doesn't change the fact that you feel insulted so I apologize for sounding like a dick but I still think you are low-key miserable, a few months back you were dating looking for love and now you are saying it's all garbage or whatnot which only makes me think you are just broken from being treated incorrectly and I'm not here to judge you, but I'm not going to agree with something I know is good for you that you seem to hate now, love is healthy for your soul chels, I'm sorry your mind has changed on it but it doesn't change the fact that every human has the ability to love and it's not for you to just ignore it, without it you might feel like you are happy but it won't last your whole life, I hope you know many people date for love, if you don't then maybe dating isn't the environmentfor you.
I was never looking for love. I set that record straight with him day one. No sex, relationship or casual… I told him we can talk until he moved on. He made me feel a certain way. He made me feel a very yeah that’s hard to explain. I hurt my own feelings and that’s okay.. he presented himself in a way that was false and I fell for it.
I’m not miserable but I do think there is a game when it comes to dating.
Maybe my views on men and “love” changed but I think love is a rare thing
Well it surely is a rare thing, it only adds more value to it's worth and when you do eventually find it, it will be worth it, I hope you are at least open to the idea of it, the truth is that dating is meant to seek for love, any other way might just backfire on you and it sounds like a terrible way to spend or waste your time, don't fear falling in love either, even if it doesn't go the way you wanted it too, there's always learning from the experience and taking the leap of faith always gives something in return even if it's just experience in love or knowledge, you never walk out empty handed unlike dating by excluding love.
Yeah, not something I want. I love man eating
Alr.
But you guys do put women through a lot emotionally. You can’t shame people for not wanting love when you don’t know exactly what they’ve been through.
Sometimes love isn’t enough… you love someone when they treat you bad, call you names, cause depression/ suicidal thoughts, make you feel Not good enough
Love doesn’t exist in the way you want it to. The love you think exists always gets you hurt
Well chels we can't live without getting hurt, it's a part of life unfortunately and it's also unfortunate that love doesn't always prevail but that always depends on the effort put in from both in that relationship, personally the only relationship I had, I was the dumpee and it hurt but I've healed and I've learned from it and I took time to get ready again, no matter what you've been through, you shouldn't shun your ability to love because at the end of the day, at some point you will crave it, it's inevitable, really think of it, do you want to die alone? Cause without love, you sure will, the ones that will be by your side on the death bed will be the people that love you, what you described chels is one sided love, that's completely different and you shouldn't stick around for that, when someone loves you foreal, you'll surely notice it.
I don’t want to. No point to it really 🤷🏻♀️
Fair enough
I’m not, in fact I want to get married, but I haven’t met someone yet who I want to marry.
But the idea is there so that's good
actually im not against the concept of marriage
I value having a real balanced marriage to make a healthy family to give to society
Very healthy mindset, I like it 🙂👏🏼
I don’t need to have a bit of paper to tell someone I love them
Fair enough
Yeap.
I don't like it and I don't believe in the concept.
Fair enough
I'm not sure what i want to do yet. I go both ways on the subject
Why both ways, explain your brain 😂
So you date just to see how long it lasts, I don't get it 😂
I guess it depends, the ceremony is basically symbolism I think, cause I doubt Adam and eve signed documents for settlements and shit but you don't really have to do That, you can just marry, with rings and stuff and leave out the documents but it's always known to be more official with documents considering the government keeps track of it, so if you aren't married you will be known as single and will have to put single on important documents
I guess that's a fair way to think of it, together rather than making the decision by yourself 😂
I wouldn't go that far and say you aren't always mouthy, most of the time you are 😂
Close minded? No.
Awake to the fact that marriage only benefits women? Absolutely
Okay.
I probably would if I were gay but I’m not so 🤷🏻♂️
And you seem like a bitch who likes to be raped to me
You’re the reason women have to put up with guys like me
Yes. If I met someone worth marrying then hopefully I will get invited to their wedding. That stuff is just not for me.
I'm open to it... I just haven't done it yet
I figure that if she and I truly trusted each other, then the only benefit of marriage would be to prevent rude people from calling our kids bastards.
I'm smart enough to not risk committing financial suicide. Not, that I have any assets to begin with, so that kind of defeats my reason for avoiding it.
Can't get robbed if I'm broke 🤷♀️
Been there
done that.
Have a wonderful son.
Don't need to do it again.
The amount of wedding bands I buy and go on to scrap put me off
I'm my first girlfriend rolled up and proposed today
well I'd get married tomorrow
lol you know where I’m at
Yep and you know what I got to say about it 😌😂
Yep lol
Married twice ❤️👍
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