My lover was also invited to the wedding I was invited to. I don't want my lover to meet my fiancee, what should I do?

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I will go to the wedding with my fiancée, but if my lover suddenly shows up, my life will be ruined. Because I don't want to lose my fiancée, I love him.

hahahmm · Accepted Answer

Right now you are not worthy of marriage. The fact you know you should not be doing this yet you do it anyways is a big hint. It's not like you've just been dating your fiance for a week, right? You had a lot of time to decide if you really want to be a wife or water bed at the furniture store that multiple dudes are jumping on.

You should put off marriage until you are really ready for it. You should stop lying to your fiance and wasting his time with your self-centered bs. Let him find a woman who can be loyal and appreciate all he has to offer.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

Have you heard the adage...

You make your bed... You sleep in it

You created this situation, now you must deal with it.

Your fiancé won't understand why you two don't go to the wedding.

Best you can do is break it off with your lover now, and tell your fiancé that it's over with the lover. But I'm not sure that's what you really want, is it? You want the fiancé and the lover, that' obvious.

FYI, fiancée (two e's) refers to a female, fiancé (one e) is male.

Alli112 · Accepted Answer

Maybe stop cheating on your partner? That seems like a good first step. You may love him and not want to loose him, but if you do love him, don't you want what's best for him? (Including not being cheated on/being in a relationship with someone who is actively cheating on him?)

EmmaMary · Accepted Answer

Congratulations on winning a  Troll  of the day award.

Keyboardkat · Answer

If you are engaged to a man, you are supposed to be 100% committed to him. If you have a lover on the side, and you're not even married yet, then why are you engaged? Trust is the most important thing in any relationship and I think you have proven by your actions that you are not worthy of your fiancee's trust! You need to clear your head and decide what you really want. You can't have your cake and eat it, too!

HighValue · Answer

Men, don't ever get married without a prenuptial agreement. Someone like this that cheats can steal what you have worked years for if you get divorced after they cheat.

Women, people like this are a big part of the reason many good men refuse to get married. Don't blame them when they want a prenuptial agreement and a paternity test. It is women like this fault.

Gent207-2 · Answer

Your side guy? I hope he finds out in the most emotional devastating ways ever, so that if ever you think to be unfaithful in the future If ex? Forget about him

MicahRaine · Answer

It would be AMAZING if your fiance already knows, and is collaborating with your "lover" to expose you publicly. I'd pay good money to see that video posted online

coxoabean · Answer

😩What in the world girl? That's so wrong. You should tell your fiancee poor guy

exitseven · Answer

I think that you are doing a pretty good job of ruining your life without going to the wedding. What happens after you get married to this poor guy?

Anonymous · Answer

Congratulations, you played yourself. I don’t feel sorry for people like you or in your position. I hope your fiancée finds out and leaves you.

Universaldance · Answer

Pray often and take your thoughts/feelings captive.  Otherwise call off the engagement with your fiancee.

Juxtapose · Answer

How do you have enough intelligence to have proper grammar but you don't realize how fucked up this is? Is this a troll?

Fireguy17 · Answer

That is the chance you take for your indiscretions.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

Wait, if you love your fiancee, why are you seeing the other guy?

Anonymous · Answer

but you don't love him enough because you also have a lover on the side lol

DrPepper12 · Answer

Shouldn't be a problem at all. Just pay complete and utter attention to your fiance that day.

nawtee_me · Answer

What about loosing your lover? Do you love him/her?

Staximus · Answer

What should you do? How about stop being the town bicycle.

Anonymous · Answer

Why will your life be ruined? Just tell your lover to be cool and not interact with you at all during the wedding.

noohair · Answer

You are engaged and having sex with him and another person? I guess you did not think this through.

Twalli · Answer

Maybe cut it off with your lover, if you really loved your fiancée, you shouldn't even have a lover.

Max_Space · Answer

Nişanlın varken neden erkek arkadaşın vardı? Çok mu azgınsın?

BonzoInBitburg · Answer

That's a wedding I would crash

RavVid · Answer

I think be honest and tell the truth.

OhLongJohnsoning · Answer

I hope he does. I hope it does get ruined

moneymagnet24 · Answer

Lol ignore your ex no one will noticed

SweetJoyGirl · Answer

Pardon me? 😭

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