In the USA, from a man's perspective, if a man want a family with children, it is more beneficial for the man to live with the women without marriage?

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If a women leaves, she is guaranteed child support. However, if she is not married she will not receive half of the assets the man earned prior to and during their time together. Therefore, she will have less incentive to leave.

UnicornLobotomy · Accepted Answer

It doesn’t matter, family court will work with the mom and actually encourage her to file for sole custody by using bogus restraining orders. In most states they are rabidly misandrist and all states are “no due process” as this is a civil matter. Some states outright ignore the criminal allegations made by the mother against the father/ex-husband to continue the case in a civil court venue because moving parts of or the entire case to a criminal court where evidence must be examined according to the guidelines of due process procedure. Meaning she’ll likely lose and lose the kids if she is lying.

HighValue · Accepted Answer

It is better to live together, be exclusive, and raise a family without marriage. They could even get married religiously (which is all that should matter), but not legally (don't file the paperwork). Marriage is a terrible thing for men in the USA and has no benefits for them, only severe and likely risks.

DJB72 · Answer

Not sure if it's still the case, but the father doesn't have as many rights to sue for custody etc if he's not married to the mother of his children.

Marriage secures the right as a father, even if it risks losing everything.

But then a father always risks losing everything for his kids. Every second of every day.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Marriage is like a hurricane there is a lot of blowing in the beginning & when it’s all said & done your house is gone. Marriage only benefits divorced lawyers & women nowadays & marriage is all about the three rings. Engagement ring, wedding ring & suffering.

missindiana93 · Answer

Fuck that. Woman don't want to fix marriages anymore just leave for stupid reasons put their children through hell and a be a bitch to the father for not doing enough or giving them money. Cause there more concerned about money than anything else.

LiamJHayden · Answer

She is generally not entitled to 1/2 of what he had prior to marriage unless he comingles it with marital assets. Otherwise, probably.

blueonblack22 · Answer

Depends on the state. Some states have “common law marriage” so if a man and woman are cohabiting for a certain amount of time they are technically “married” under family law. Someone can technically sue for alimony.

Surely · Answer

I believe that most states have “Common Law Marriages.” Once you live together and you especially have a child together. You are essentially married. The woman will have the same benefits as if the paperwork was signed on the marriage certificate.

ChiTown33 · Answer

I never thought about this... jeez do women really plot like this?

TheWombRaider · Answer

Put it this way just get in a relationship with nothing that way u always leave with a come up

Lynx122 · Answer

probably

eagle1951 · Answer

don't think it matters

In the USA, from a man's perspective, if a man want a family with children, it is more beneficial for the man to live with the women without marriage?

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