What is your opinion about marrying a divorced woman?

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Is it okey for you? In my country males do not want to marry divorced females.

V_Injector · Accepted Answer

Women get divorced for reasons... what was the reasons?

Chances are she was cheating, treating him like shit, already taking all his money or the purpose of the divorce was to take some money. What sane man would want to get with one of those?

Not every divorced woman is divorced because he was just an abusive prick that was stealing her money. The majority of divorced women are not that woman. The majority of divorced women did it themselves and they did it for malicious reasons that are backed by the government or they were just greedy and they wanted to split for more dick and take half of his shit. What sane man would want to get with one of those?

What is your opinion about marrying a divorced woman?

molonski2 · Accepted Answer

In your Country yes its a massive negative for religious reasons , in the West as marriage is taken far too lightly , and divorce is far too acceptable , so there is to some degree merit in both.

Because of my age , with me ( because of my age ) it wouldn't matter of course , In Australia , it would not matter too much ( circumstance dependent of course ) whether there are children or not would of course make a difference.

Certainly leaves the guy something to think about if starting a new relationship.

Radiate143 · Accepted Answer

Don't focus on ignorant men who say used goods. They are usually the most worthless men.

I've noticed that divorced women who left have a zero tolerance policy for BS and manipulation. This is whatvmen don't like. A woman who they can't pupeteer so they say she's used, disloyal balh blah blah.

This makes your future easier because you can filter out a lot of guys who are a waste of time.

Seinna · Accepted Answer

Would I, a woman consider a divorced man? Depends on the reason. I'm Christian so I only accept divorces in certain circumstances... otherwise I just don't see the person as divorced, so being with them would be considered fornication. Specifically, the divorce would have to be the other person's fault and related to infidelity. I think most people don't see it that way though.

AviatorTom · Answer

I'm divorced, and married a divorced woman... not an issue.

Anonymous · Answer

Today's men are avoiding marriage in general because the divorce rate is so high and women are almost always the ones who initiate divorce. Half of marriages end in divorce and women file 80% of them. That means a man who chooses to get married anyway stands a 40% chance his wife will divorce him. With that in mind, why would I choose to marry a woman who already has a proven track record of divorce.

Miristheiss · Answer

Well, when I was single I would have never dated or married a woman who has already had another husband. Now that I am married, let's say I become a widower and I am single again. Now I have already been married, I have kids. There is a chance the women I would be attempting to date are older now. There is a chance I'd be with a divorced woman. I have to know why they divorced. If she cheated then I'd break it off immediately. Anyone who has ever cheated if off limits for life.

Anonymous · Answer

Women divorce for many reasons. To lump the ones that are looking to improve their status with the ones that divorce because they're abused highlights the stupidity of the traditions in countries like yours.

Divorced people deserve to remarry and be happy. Even the ones that divorce for self gain. Who is hurt by it?

HighValue · Answer

What matters to me is if she will sign a prenuptial agreement, we are morally compatible and have compatible long term life goals, she doesn't have a past of promiscuity, no contact with any ex, no kids from past relationships, etc.

Berethor · Answer

I agree with turkish men on that, it mostly desperate men who are marrying used goods.

DextroShade · Answer

It wouldn't necessarily be a deal-breaker but it would be a red flag. I would have know the specifics of the divorce; if she has kids or she left her husband without a very good reason then I am not interested in anything serious.

exitseven · Answer

If they were divorced more than once it would give me pause

CB-Raido-Time · Answer

Adultery is not my opinion it's fact and it's forbidden.

genericname85 · Answer

if she divorced another guy, how do i know she's not gonna divorse me next? same as with cheaters or domestic violence perpetratords.

Ariesman81 · Answer

Depends... is she like the vast majority of women who blame her man? Or has she taken a look at her side of the failure?

Anonymous · Answer

She's got one strike on her already. It's just like being a single mom. She already proven she doesn't make very good choices or she'd still be married.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Depends upon why she is divorced. Husband cheated? Beat her? She cheated?

Cheerfull009 · Answer

Almost all men of all countries, marry divorced women , it is permissible in all religions, Can you tell me the reason , why Turkish men don't Marry divorced women

Anonymous · Answer

That backward thinking doesn't surprise me coming from your country.

clampfan101 · Answer

Her past does not define her. What’s important is what she’s like now.

Surely · Answer

Depends on why she is divorced and how civil the divorce went.

Staximus · Answer

That doesn't matter here once you're past your 20's

JohnK123 · Answer

Why not? What country are u from? For me it’s if the person is kind and supportive

Anonymous · Answer

It's common in my country.. And i think it is very good

dsrice071966 · Answer

It is definitely okay. I do not have issues with that.

DerekC321 · Answer

It makes no difference to me whatsoever.

CVNT5 · Answer

hell no! i want new not salvage!

ScratchNsnif · Answer

Don't mind it. What country are you in?

paledreams · Answer

Not my thing

Anonymous · Answer

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