Married people, how can you stand being with somebody 24/7 and not getting overwhelmed and annoyed?

[chocolatetwopointo]

[LiamS95]

Married couples sre never with each other 24/7 unless they work together in their own business. Most are only together a few hours per day if you don't count the time they're both asleep. When you're in a committed long term relationship and sre in love, you look forward to those few hours per day you can e joy each other talk, cuddle and make love.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i could never do that, seems terrible.

[IslaTheWitch]

we create our own schedules, and we have our jobs and interests :D

but the time we spend together is always great and can get very intense :D

[chocolatetwopointo]

isn't it annoying?

[IslaTheWitch]

sex? annoying? never!

[chocolatetwopointo]

so ur only with ur partner when ur having sex?

[IslaTheWitch]

"but the time we spend together is always great and can get very intense" what is hard to understand in this sentence?

[chocolatetwopointo]

u didn't answer my question lol.

[IslaTheWitch]

because you don't read what I write... so what is a reason to answer you? you have your own vision and try to put every answer to look as you want it to look

my answer stays the same:
"the time we spend together is always great and can get very intense"

[chocolatetwopointo]

i did tho lmao. thats still not an answer, its a yes or no question.

[IslaTheWitch]

I prefer open questions :D

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay u do u

[Kayleigh2005]

@islathewitch. - right she does that with all her questions

"you have your own vision and try to put every answer to look as you want it to look"

[alice55]

People sleep and go to work so most of the time they're not with their partner

[chocolatetwopointo]

weekends exist

[alice55]

Week end are so shorts though it's not nearly enough to get annoyed at your partner, also many people have different interest and don't stay together all second of the week end

[Apple1996]

This is one of the reasons I'm thankful for my husband being in the military cause I like being alone sometimes. Being together 24/7 would drive me nuts.

[LazerBean]

Because I know how to make good choices and pick a spouse that isn't annoying to me

[chocolatetwopointo]

anyone can get annoying over time.

[LazerBean]

Just because someone can do it be something does not mean they will

[chocolatetwopointo]

kinda does

[LazerBean]

Yikes

[chocolatetwopointo]

what now

[NathanDavis]

well... I do sleep for at least six hours

[chocolatetwopointo]

and do u sleep with ur partner?

[NathanDavis]

yes... but I am unconscious, so...

[chocolatetwopointo]

and ur still with ur partner soo….

[Adel50]

I'm not with my spouse 24/7.

[chocolatetwopointo]

u dont live together?

[Adel50]

We do, but we're not always together.

[chocolatetwopointo]

usually u are tho?

[Adel50]

Nope, I have a job, so I'm not with my wife when I go to work.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and when u get home? weekends?

[Adel50]

Then it doesn't become 24/7.

[chocolatetwopointo]

its still a long time.

[Adel50]

Not really. I spend more time at work than I do with my wife.

[chocolatetwopointo]

and on weekends?

[Adel50]

I work on the weekends too. Nonetheless, I don't get overwhelmed and annoyed by my spouse.

[chocolatetwopointo]

so u basically work 24/7?

[Adel50]

Nope. But I do work a lot.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay yeah, but dont u get annoyed being with them for a long time?

[Adel50]

No, I don't.

[chocolatetwopointo]

really? why not?

[Adel50]

Well, she's not annoying.

[chocolatetwopointo]

not even after being constantly together for hours?

[Adel50]

Nope.

[chocolatetwopointo]

surprising, i could never

[Adel50]

Are you married?

[chocolatetwopointo]

nope, but i get annoyed at people when im with them for a long time so i dont think i could be either

[Adel50]

You wouldn't know until you get married.

[chocolatetwopointo]

how?

[Adel50]

By getting married, and then assessing whether or not you'll get overwhelmed and annoyed.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i will get annoyed and overwhelmed anyway tho

[Adel50]

Well, too soon to say.

[chocolatetwopointo]

not really, i always do to anyone im with for over like an hour.

[Adel50]

But not a spouse.

[chocolatetwopointo]

why do u think that?

[Adel50]

You said you always do it to anyone, but you haven't to a spouse. So things may be different.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i really doubt that would change it, i do it to family and friends when im tired

[Adel50]

Okay.

[chocolatetwopointo]

but why do u think it would be any difference?

[Adel50]

Your interaction with your spouse could be different from others.

[chocolatetwopointo]

what makes u think that?

[Adel50]

Because you don't view your spouse as some other family member or friend. Quite different.

[chocolatetwopointo]

i would view them as a friend tho

[Adel50]

Not really, you wouldn't.

[chocolatetwopointo]

trust me, id get annoyed at anyone if im with somebody for more than an hour. i could never live with somebody let alone be married

[Adel50]

Well, if that's what you think.

[chocolatetwopointo]

trust me, i will.

[Adel50]

I said okay.

[chocolatetwopointo]

okay.

[jahaims]

They are awesome and I enjoy their company

[Anonymous]

Most of us leave the house on occasion!

[chocolatetwopointo]

and when u dont?