Is it ok to be in touch with ex after marriage?

[Anonymous]

There's this guy I know... he is married to a woman. She is very average looking. She has told him about her past relationships...

He has now observed that she is still in touch through text/WhatsApp/calls with one of her ex who was already married back then. She sends him romantic messages/ YouTube shorts etc... and texts him late night/very early morning.

He says he doesn't really like her anyway but still married her.. he doesn't like her looks and now he doesn't have sex with her anymore.

What can he do? Whose fault is it?

It's his fault since he isn't providing her with sex and emotional/ romantic support

It's her fault and he should clearly ask her about it and know what's going on

Other comments

[Clear_Skies10]

It kinda sounds like neither one of them care about their marriage at this point. It's probably just a matter of time until she starts having sex with her ex (If she isn't already). This marriage sounds like it's nearing the end.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Only if kids are involved, otherwise no.

[Asker]

Means?

[Nikki1989]

It's the fault of both of them, but especially this creepy friend you have. You are not much better by the sounds of this insecure dribble.

[Asker]

Why is he creepy?
What has he done?

[Anonymous]

It’s both their faults. They’re better off divorced and being with other people.

[Asker]

Why is it his fault too?

[Opinion Owner]

It’s obvious

[Asker]

Because he doesn't have sex with her?

[Opinion Owner]

And he doesn’t even like her

[Asker]

She isn't good looking anyway!
Is it still his fault?

[Opinion Owner]

Yes!

[avery58]

You do realized she's cheating right?

[Asker]

Yeah
Now what

[avery58]

So he accepts to be with a cheater?

[Asker]

She is cheating... not he...

[Asker]

Read question again.. you misread it

[avery58]

Yeah, I know. But if he can't stand her maybe he should formalize a divorce

[Asker]

How would you feel if your partner did this?

[avery58]

I would feel very disrespected, resentful, and leave the person

[Asker]

How to catch them red handed with proof?