What are the benefits of marriage for men?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I’m curious to know why y’all want to get married

[msmissydc]

As previous better tax class for both of you, so more money for both lf you.

There is likea ton of aspects that are not used as benefits by most men who would marry out of actual love. But for some men who just want a "traditional life" can use it to their advantage or at least to the womens disadvavtage. But a lot of patriarchal structures are weirdly more to a womens diadvavtage then a mans actual advantage surprisingly.

Including making a one way dependancy,. Especially without no fault divorces. Than there is the point of putting both of you under social pressure to conform to the average marriage model from some people.
If you go church wedding that is even worse with some people.
So in a long way while the choice who does what shouldlbe individual and fair, it comes with the stigma for the women to not be a good wife if she doesn't comform and for the husband to be seen as a failed husband if they dont conform. This in the first impression seems balanced but the problem lies deeoer with the fact that average marriage conforming is bassically a pure advantage for the mens carreer that makes the women deoend on him for life.
Yes you can do your own thing and you shouldn't care about outside pressure, but depending where you live that may be extremly hard to do. Secondly if you too late realise, thats what one of you wants the other part is always seen as the at fault part.

Than there are some special laws that only changed in the last years or decades that should have been always there. And some laws that didn't change yet that put men at a huge advantage within a marriage.

[Nate7741]

I want to have a regular life and a daughter 🥰

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Define “regular life” for me