Questions: Marriage & Weddings

I’m not talking about people who are maybe open to it one day. I’m talking about marriage is in your plans. It is how you always envisioned your future abs when you date people you consider if this is someone you would marry. I do not mean you want to marry anyone you date, I mean, it is always a possibility if things go well and you both feel the sane way after a king enough or rid of tine.

So, assuming marriage is a very important part of life to you, you are both very much interested in each otter otherwise-tho have a long way to go in getting to know each other,:

Would you date someone who has clearly says they do not intend to marry even that they see no point to it.

& Would their reason matter to you as far as making your revision?

Please do not answer in terms of gender. This question is not based on, nor a result if a Woman wanting to marry a guy & the guy just wanting to date.🙏🏼

I need advice from you to help me decide who is the right man for me. I grew up innocent without any knowledge and much experience with men because my parents are strict. I just got out of my parents' hands this year, now that I am 27. I met two guys in my life.

I know Daniel, a year ago, on a dating site. At first, he was very persistent towards me. I didn't like him at first because he is too old for me but he was serious by calling me every day, being there when I was depressed, and, giving food and gifts as a surprise. However, after 7 months, I'd noticed on his Facebook, that I was not the only foreign girl he added, and gave a flower to another girl who he met online with a letter saying "Smile, it is another day." I got mad and the girl stayed away from Daniel. After that event, he doesn't care about me anymore, no calls, no gifts. He always punishes me by not talking to me for one to three months. He even accused me of wanting him for money or a visa even if it was not even true.

Due to my anger that Daniel didn't talk to me for 2 months. I went back to the dating site and I met Kostas. He is very interested in me and even wants to meet me even just after 3 weeks. He flew to visit me because I rebelled against Daniel's abandonment. I did sleep with him. Kostas was really kind to me online, but when I met him, I realized he cannot really treat me right. He got fed off of my problems and, worse, he left me at the mall alone and threw my stuff because I didn't want to follow what he wants. But after a day, he apologised to me. If we ever have a disagreement or fight, he is willing to communicate through it. Unlike Daniel, he had to punish me first by not talking for one to two months. Or worse, more months.

Please advise me, who should I choose and marry? Or what should I do?

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