My husbands friends hate me? Urgent ?

[Idk1122367]

My husbands friends have been messaging him on and off for the last 8 months because they don’t like that he married me. They do a lot of drugs and sleep around. My husband refuses to respond to them but I feel he should tell them he is a married man and has other priorities. He has not been talking to them for the last 8 months through our marriage and engagement. They continue to harass him and call him names such as a “simp” and tell them they are upset that he betrayed them for my sake. This isn’t true. He decided they weren’t the best influence due to their lifestyle. I feel he should respond with some closure and create boundaries for self respect, considering most of these messages they send are disrespectful about me, our relationship and marriage. What do you think? Should he ignore and not respond? I’m not suggesting that he is rude to them, but create boundaries. I’m offended and hurt that he won’t stand up for us.

[nawtee_me]

He chose to not engage with them and leave them alone all together. You would have him tell them whatever so they could again respond and continue harassing him and you. Let it be and let him handle it his way. If it bothers you so much then you tell them and get in the middle of it so they will have even more to call him out on...

[Idk1122367]

But why didn’t he block them? He has let them message him for months saying ugly things about him, me, and our relationship. We’re married now - I feel like it’s disrespect he shouldn’t stand for it specially on my behalf. Like I see his point; but it they were really out of his life - while let this continue?

[Idk1122367]

Lol lots of typos! Especially * if * and * why*

[nawtee_me]

Maybe you are right in that he should just block them all together and let it be...

[Guy13]

He chose you over his friends snd former lifestyle. What more could you want?

[jshm2]

They are only messages, you nitwit.

If your man is treating you right, then the messages don't matter, and they are just wasting their time.