I used to have the same problem in my relationship, I felt like I was putting in all the effort, having to drive and pick her up and to work for 2 weeks at one point because her car, it seemed that whenver she was tired she didn't want to come to my house but I always went to hers.
Its possible that he's just feeling worn out, and perhaps stresed, how long has it been going like that? Have you and he reached the level of having sex yet? Talk to him, try and figure out what it is he feels your not doing for him and what you can do to fix that.
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You mean he's telling you that you aren't doing enough, but isn't giving you any specifics on what he would like to see done? You should be asking him what more you can do, then you need to decide if you want to do those things, IMO.
Do you praise him? men looooveee. praise? Other than that my boyfriend likes
- cooking
- take initiative to make date plans
- Ask him about his day
- Do more listening than talking
- Be encouraging, understanding without judgement
- a cute thoughtful gift every once in awhile
That's all I can think of in forms of what a lot of us forget to do in relationships
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