What would you do? My boyfriend is always extremely short on texts and gives off that he is self absorbed and is fine without me in his life. All he cares about is his family and himself. He swears he cares and loves me but does stuff like this. So I come from a dysfunctional family and we argue a lot. The other night my mom got angry at me and hit me, called me useless, and threatened to kill me. I told my boyfriend this and then said I couldn't talk cause I was upset. He didn't message me at all the entire day after and I had to be the one to message him first asking if he was okay other than that he probably would have not texted back. I always wonder how he can sleep at night knowing his girlfriend is in pain and he can't even text or call to see if I'm okay. He hasn't called me since Valentines anyways.
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Update: he still hasn't said anything. All he said was ok after that so I replied ok what? He just left me on read
Well 2016 I was in a relationship For basically the whole year we never ever once argued about anything but just through texts Could always tell when something was wrong or when he was upset towards the end of the year he started being really distant with me and wouldn’t really talk to me that much and he would give really short answers like most of he would just say “ok” Ans then after that not talk to me for a super long time I would have to be the first one to text him and he would just say “OK” and then not talk to me for days! and then I finally decided to break up with him Thursday June 8th 2017 it sounds like you should break up with your boyfriend he’s not caring and loving you the way he should. And what the heck!!! Your mom actually hit you and said that to you? Actually threatened to kill you? Her own kid
You don't seem to have a healthy relationship with anyone and it is NOT your fault. End the toxic relationships with those you can and distance yourself from the others. It's the only way you will get out of this situation with your sanity intact. You deserve better than this. He's an ass and you know it. Move on and good luck.
From your description and the lack of caring in the texts - you sure you want to be the girlfriend to this person? Everyone needs someone they can count on and if you haven't heard from him since Valentine's day and he hasn't bothered to check in on your, I'd find someone else who will.
His response seemed caring enoungh to me lol I mean YOU told him u couldn't talk lol. I'd be more worried that u live with an abuser.
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I would not be happy if my boyfriend was not there for me, if I am upset. He supposed to br there for you. Maybe he does not know how to deal or act in this situation. As he might not understand as you said he's closed to his family.
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Oh baby girl dumb him like it's hot and run run like a lion is following you and find at LEAST a normal human being (guy)
💓💓I'm sorry you are having troubles with your family
@ChronicThinker Why do people always assume you've been dumped? I must come to the U. S because I hear men over there dump women a lot, or not call them back after sex. I don't know what that's like, even when I used to be a stripper, your men called me when they got back to the U. S. So no I wasn't dumped.
1. I'm not American 2. When adult women are so dumb to assume that gender dictates someone's ability to know that your gender does not have any impact on your ability to exercise empathy and think it means you conform to a specific stereotype, it's usually because they've put themselves in shitty situations with the opposite gender and therefore assume they're all the same.
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