Is surprising my boyfriend by wearing a lingerie and giving him a special bday sex enough as a gift?

[Anonymous]

My bf’s birthday is coming up and he absolutely hates getting birthday gifts. I was just planning on taking him out to eat and surprise him with me wearing a lingerie later on. The thing is I LOVE buying people gifts so I have no idea if this would be enough for someone who hates gifts…

Yes

No

Something else

[D_Bone_Steak]

You sound awesome... I wish more girls would think of this instead of cringing me out with gifts.

I just got a PS5... and yeah that's awesome and all, but it feels like someone trying to buy me or expect me to owe them something. I would've been just as happy with a sandwich.

[Asker]

I’m usually also a massive gift giver but my current boyfriend just hates getting gifts. He’s pretty similar to you, he prefers a hand cooked meal over any gifts lol

[slatyb]

If he doesn't like gifts, don't get him one. I think your idea is excellent.

[Asker]

Is it enough tho? I feel weird not buying him anything (other than dinner) bc I’m a massive gift giver lol

[slatyb]

It's plenty.

[Asker]

I see, thanks for the input!

[Bethany22]

I wouldn't feel confident enough in myself thinking that that's enough.

[Asker]

Yeah same here, I still don’t think that this is enough 😣

[Con29]

Yes that is also you could give him something before sex. Depends what his favourite thing is could do that on top of the lingerie and sex.

[Asker]

I’m just gonna take him out for dinner, not sure what else I can do that won’t count as an actual “gift”. He’s super weird about getting gifts on his bday

[Con29]

Oh ok fair enough does he like anything weird in the bedroom what he asks you to do?

[Asker]

I’m probably gonna get him a bday card or something still, I feel weird not buying him anything lol

We have a really adventurous sex life so nothing’s really off the table, I’ll just give in and make him the star

[dreamstar72]

Be better than a real (money) gift

[Asker]

But is it enough tho? I don’t feel like it is…

[888theGreat]

Special sex , like?

[Asker]

I’ll do whatever he wants, the focus is just gonna be on him and his pleasures

[Degenerate]

no..

[Asker]

What else do you reckon I can do? Planning to treat him to dinner but not sure what else I can give, I don’t want to give him a physical gift bc he hates getting them on his bday. I bought him a gift for his bday last year and he flipped out lol

[strateguy632]

1st,