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I find it interesting the Bruce Jenner bloody killed someone while at the wheel, but Caitlin is a celebrated hero.
Lucky timing I suppose
i find the title and this article insulting. I already know you people don't care.
But that's all I'm saying.
Written by the GAG admin no less
Why are u offended by the title?
"transgender" is the new black. Just like they say "Gay" is the new black. Where can we draw the line?
I find it insulting that they are comparing anything that has some kind demeaning lifestyle to black people. There two different things with unparalleled history's.
It makes black people look bad and or is some kind of sexual orientation. When we didn't choose to be black.
Soon they're going to say pedophilia is the new black and etc. Comparing these lifesyles to Black people only makes us look bad.
on't be offended!
The phrase actually originates in the fashion world. The colour Black is always considered chic and popular in the fashion world, so "____ is the new black" means that it is now being considered the new 'in' thing.
i hope your right.
Likening someone's identity to a trend is insensitive and ignorant. But I don't expect much more from this site.
who is gagTake and who hired them lmao
Transgender is a trend in the sense that it's getting more accepted and more people go for it then ever before. What's so terrible about noticing that?
People are so oversensitive these days...
@remonster a trend is high waisted shorts.
Transgender people have always existed. Just now they're somewhat more accepted. That's it. So maybe the acceptance is a trend, but not trans itself
@lauranarx gag has a way of always putting its foot in its mouth
* @lauramarx
They're super brave. It'd be really hard to go from being a dude since you were born to suddenly being a woman.
Not brave. Foolish, yes. Bravery is standing trial for something you didn't do. Bravery is taking a bullet for a friend. Bravery is telling your significant other the news that could save their life, even if you fear they may hate you for it. Wishing away God and his design for purposes of insecurity and vanity, or out of self-loathing, is anything but bravery.
Let me get this straight. You think that when Bruce Jenner decided to stand up in front of the ENTIRE WORLD and say that he was going to undergo highly controversial gender reassignment surgery, that was not courageous? Look at all the criticism he/she has undergone in the last few days. Taking a bullet for a friend gets you awards and accolades; making the choice to transition from a body that feels like a cage to one that suits you gets you hate and scorn. The whole world is calling "Caitlyn" disgusting, for crying out loud. Just look at the comments on this take! And if Caitlyn is willing to stand in the face of the hatred of millions and millions of people for this, it must be everything to her. And that IS bravery.
i can't decide wether your comment or your reply makes me more disgusted... you took logic mind heart and everything out of prospective wth is this you also better call kim brave for earning milllllions from her sex tape.
I agree! I just want to give u some tips on being an ally;
1. use her preferred name (not bruce!)
2. use she pronouns
3. she always was a woman
Oh god please help us, where is humanity going for?
Exactly!
@Dipsy like damn man, what the fuck are these people doing with themselves?
They are coming out of their shell and not giving a fuck about what people like you have to say, that's what they're doing
@leelfc you think this way? It sucks to be you or them, plus I'm not waiting for them to give a fuck.
@LeeLFC
If some other person, who wants to kill hundreds or thousands of people, would come out of his shell, and wouldn't give a single fuck about others. Is that accepted? No!
Yes I'm an open minded and accepting. I'm not a homophobe like you so we clearly don't see eye to eye. And when I say they don't give a fuck that means they don't two flying shits about your negative comments.
Okay, let me put this in your eyes, if you felt like more of a womenand acted like one, would you become Transgender? Sure it "how god" created us and wanted us to be, but if you felt like more of a girl than a boy and wouldn't want to become one? Its not a bad ghing, whats it going to do to you? Yojr not them, why not let people be who theu wanna be (besides Murderes, rapists, abusesrs and that shit, they deserve to be locked up) but beimg LGBT is nothing to really be worrid about honestkh, i am bisexual, you may think of me as gross like 'ewww get the h e double hockey stick away from me you like girls" but there's nothing wrong with it besodes ggoing against the bible :/ do you realize how many peiple kill themselfs becaise so many people hate who they are a year? Its extreamly hurtful... so your not them so hinestly dont judge who they wanna be or who they are, you may not agree whith there choice in life, but why not just let it go and go one with your life and let them be who theyare
"Open minded and accepting person."
@leelfc I'm not a homophobic, I'm actually anti-homosexuality, there is a difference between the 2, and accepting those people doesn't make you open minded.
@moonlightwolke I don't care about them nor I care to prevent them from doing this, but I'm actually sharing my opinion about this phenomena just like anyone else.
"Where is humanity going for? "
-what are we leaving behind is the real question.
We are leaving behind hate and ignorance.
Throughout history people have been persecuted for being different. For their race, their gender, their religion, their physical ability, their ideas, etc.
people who think the way YOU do burned people at a stake for witch craft. They enslaved others and oppressed women. They burned down the homes of interracial couples and tormented gays. Simply bc its different, and deemed unnatural. But as time progresses we learn our lesson about persecuting/oppressing one group and move on to another. This is no different.
I know you're religious, so let's think about this. These trans people will be trans no matter what you say. Your god wants you to love thy neighbor. So why can't you choose to love them instead of speak hatefully about them? No one is asking you to fan girl over caitlyn, but being hateful towards trans people ruins and destroys life. Caitlyn, according beliefs,
*according to your beliefs, is gods creation. So why not treat her and all other people regardless of gender identity or sexual orientation, as such? Because this hate causes far more damage than love and acceptance ever could.
@LeeLFC
Im glad your not a person who hates LGBT's
Just ignore him ^ This guys Mindset is nothing but a load of Indoctrinated Muslim bulshit.
Yes it does. You're open to this new idea of accepting gay, lesbian, transgender etc that everyone else is against. There are other things that I'm not against either but I'm not going to make a list. And you being anti-homosexuality is no different from being homophobic you are still against. Why are you trying to put yourself in a different category when it all falls in one?
@been_waiting Hahahaha are you talking seriously? No one is gonna burn them, and I don't hate or love them because I don't know them but the thing is that I hate what they are doing, I'm against this BS, a man is a man and a woman is a woman, this is my opinion but I'm not gonna do anything about them. THIS IS JUST AN OPINION. And Why you always relate opinions like these to religion? I mean with or without religion, those people are fucking weird, my opinion wouldn't change even if I weren't religious.
@moonlightwolke thank you. I believe that the LGBTQ community deserves respect and equality because they are humans too. :) <3 I'm all for it and a supporter
lol those people are weird because they were not born heterosexual. Why do they have to be the same to be accepted and approved? We might as well all be the same colour and share the same genes just so we don't get called out and judged for being different.
Usually i don't engage myself in other people's argument but this one really seemed fascinating! So here is my opening statement:
Right on @YazanAA! Also ______ if you read the Bible and heed its word you might understand a thing or two about the family of Israel or all Abrahamic religions for a matter of fact. However because i have not read the Quran or the Torah i will stick with the knowledge i have gained from my reading of the Bible.
In the Bible it does say that we should love our neighbors as yourself but it also lists homosexuality and transgender-ism as a sin. Now when someone commits a sin they must repent and ask for forgiveness, these homosexuals or transgenders are not asking for forgiveness and thusly they are no longer part of Israel. It says so in the Bible, that when a sin like this they must be removed from Israel (usually by stoning). Now to clarify my point i will add some more information about how Israel plays the host to others. It says in the bible that
@leelfc so you are saying that gay people are born gay?
we should not treat sojourners unfairly when they travel in our land. However these homosexuals and transgenders are not travelling in our land. They are living here. Thusly they need to be removed from Israel so that we may be cleaned of sin. (not necessarily through stoning). Do you see how your theory is flawed? Tell me if you need me to explain it in more or less detail.
Ohh and i forgot to write @been_waiting in that _____.
Also, when i say 'Israel' I am referring to Christians not the country.
No they are born straight, they are just trolling all of us! :D :)
... smfh
@NedfromtheNed thank you for your explanation, actually I'm not Christian nor I believe in the bible but I got your point though since Abrahamic faiths have a lot of similarities. But actually religion isn't the reason behind my view of these people, the thing is that I really find it weird to change your gender just because "this is what you feel inside" know again that's just my opinion, I don't hate those people and I don't love them either, my feelings are neutral about them as individuals but I hate the concept of what they are doing with themselves and I really find it weird that's it.
@leelfc no, you are the one who is trolling all of us right now, you said "because they were not born heterosexual" and now I'm asking you so what?
Have you ever heard of sarcasm? and if you noticed at the bottom I clearly wrote... smfh
@leelfc yes I have heard of sarcasm, but actually this isn't the time for it because you claimed something and I'm still waiting for you to answer my question.
@leelfc and did you report one of my comments?
lool I'm never going to take someone like you seriously and you're not going to ever agree with me so what's the point in wasting more time? And what comment? Whatever it was you deserved it.
@leelfc oh yeah now I get it, you simply don't have an answer and use excuses like "I don't want to waste my time" and "you will never agree with me" because you can't back up you opinion...
What's with the name calling?
@leelfc I'm not talking about you, I always share my opinions respectfully but when someone like that asshole comes from nowhere and talks nonsense BS then they must handle what is coming next, otherwise they can just shut the fuck up.
I never said you were a religious man. @YazanAA
Ok just to squash the beef yes gay people are born gay and straight people are born straight. We're all born a different way whether you agree with it or not now can we end this argument or do you want to continue wasting time because I'm over it. And by the way whoever you're name calling you're stooping down to their level by saying such things js.
@leelfc so you are repeating your claim one more time without backing it up... *cool logic* ... And I hope you realize that I wasn't the one who started this argument.
Backing what up? You know what good night.
Looks like you have to be in someone else's shoe to really understand because you really don't get it.
You still stooped down to his level
@leelfc hahaha backing up your claim that gay people are born gay. And what are you talking about? I didn't stoop down to anyone's level, I'm just showing him what is his level. :)
What if I told you I was a lesbian and always liked girls and never had interest in men? You still wouldn't believe me?
@leelfc maybe? But I won't believe that you were born this way, I won't believe that it's your genetics.
I like them emotionally and physically like just how you like women. The only difference is that you're a man who was born to like females and I'm a female who was born to like the same sex.
@leelfc you weren't born this way, actually growing up in a society full of gays and lesbians is what made you a lesbian. You started to develop feelings for women because it's a common phenomena in your society, that's it.
No that's not it. There are kids who don't even know what being gay is but they still have crushes on the same sex. There are gay people all over the world and in my country where they hate homosexuals. There are gay people in Africa, Asia, America, South America all over this damn world and let's not leave out those who have a religion. There are people who are Christian, Hindu, Buddhist and believe it or not Muslims too who are gay. Search it up and you'll find it. I've met all sorts of gay people who were born and raised in different environments. Where you grew up and who has influenced you has nothing to do with your sexual orientation. If it did then I would have been a lesbian right now.
None of them even look like real women! Certain poses, makeup, photoshop "may" help but they all still look like men
It's not a trend it's a lifestyle. Wtf is wrong with this planet
are you joking? its disgusting.
I do not promote this shit, I just think the title and the entire post is fucked! would like to hear the reason so many women dislike my comment.
@eiffelgirl21 if I said it was gross, I would be disrespecting the life decisions of people who o do not know which would make me a douchebag. I don't like this at all, I think it's fucking messed up that people think this is a fashion trend. My comment also defends the people who actually chose to do it because that's who they are.
well thanks for clearing that up. I think it is gross though. our world needs help
Can the rest of you haters explain your logic? How can you dislike what I said unless you people think that being transgender is a fashion... yes the world is full of special people...
What the fuck is this? Cab someone explain? Men dressed as girls? Or some weird shit? 😕😐
men that change into women like chage hormones and shit have surgery and stuff
Freaky as fuck... like can someone tell me why and what the fuck is wrong with this world...
Its to sad to see what's happening... I feel like they are just doing this to get attention and to become popular... so sad... :(
How is this for attention when as Bruce Jenner she had a lot of attention and popularity
You do know that being trans isn't a choice, right? People don't just decide "hey I want to become a woman" they feel they have been the opposite gender in the wrong body their whole life.
Well that sucks even more... 😐
@BumbleDeev Uh, yeah, actually it IS a fucking choice. Bruce Jenner and every single fucking trans out there consciously made the decision to change into a "woman". They spent money on the surgeries and alterations to look like something they are not. Nobody is born into the wrong body. You are who you fucking are, and the sooner people accept that, the better. They are not women, they do not have ovaries. They cannot produce milk. They are men. End of the fucking story.
What exactly is the phrase 'transgender is the new black' supposed to mean?
GAG is the main place I have seen so many people against the notion of transgenders. Thank god social media is more liberal
What you mean with your last sentence?
I mainly saw a positive response to Caitlyn Jenner's transition on social media like twitter, but GAG is the most hate i've seen. Quite disheartening. @vekin
but understanding that not everyone is ready/approving transitions should be a good thing i think
Sorry little error "isn't ready/approving
no one is forced to support it, fine. but it doesn't affect anyone to just let transgenders get on with their lives instead of hating @vekin
well the comments who people get who are negative about it gives me the impression that everyone should approve
most people don't give an opinion. they make hateful comments like saying transgenders have a mental disorder or that they're freaks or whatever. you can disapprove without making hateful comments
@vekin
you are right it's possible to dissaprove but still respect eachother...
Gender dysphoria is classified as a disorder though. They're not wrong in that aspect.
@Remonster people are saying it in a hateful way though
@checkyesjulietx Yeah I agree. It's very insensitive...
Everybody wants to be black til you gotta be black...
I don't care about Bruce OR EXCUSE ME, "CAITLYN" at all. I don't see what the whole hoo-hah is all about. Just some dude that wants to be a girl. So what?
I DON'T GIVE A FLIP!
Its big deal for transgender people who are bullied and abused for who they are.
Okay, I can understand that. But why the heck is this being shoved down our throats? We don't need this.
Social progression requires some initial discomfort.
My most frightening nightmare in existence is to like hook up with a transgender girl cause she looks so much like a girl. I'd seriously freak the duck out.
They need like a label or some shit. Like how the USDA makes stores marks GMO. They need like a tattoo that's like CAUTION: Transgender.
Lmao!!!
Sorry if I upset people with my rational fear.
Indeed lol, a tattoo would be good to identify the fake woman.
Why does this question have so many downvotes? Its a good idea to be honest..
Yeah, except it'd bring us back to the concentration camps...
There are all men. Not transgender. Not pansexual. Not a blue unicorn. Not a mailbox. Not fucking space ship. These are men that are taking exgenous hormones that are now freakshows. Enabling mental illness.. wtf have we come to?
You couldn't have said it better. 🙌
@Yaaaboi5553 Someone who gets it lol
I don't really care. They can be whatever sexuality they want
Exactly. I don't see why so many people are so worked up, like someone being transgender somehow affects their personal lives! :-P
So I dont agree with this whole article or anything and I don't agree with this "caitlyn". But I mean but she's or he's whatever got the right idea be a female with no period. I'm jealous hahahahah. Sorry just a funny thought.
Society is so fucked up. These people didn't have a sex change. They cut their dicks and that's it. No matter what, they always going to be men.
Yep, true
They didn't cut their dicks off. Their dicks was inverted to make a make-shift vagina. So... they have neo-vaginas now if they're post op.
There's a quote:
Even if the monkey dresses in silk, it is still a monkey
Fuckibg ridiculous. Our world is going to shit. And were telling our children its ok to have no morals. Lord help us.
@HandsomeRaj *facepalm*
lol young lady @ConfusedGrocer :)
U know what is immoral? Someone being forced to live a false identity just because they were born in that body.
Isn't people living their lives in the identity they truly believe they are in their heart and soul... something that morals should protect and enforce?
Ya our world is going to shit bc of people like you.
@Prof_Don is right, its absolute hell being forced to live as someone you don't even wish to be! You can't get loose and let go and enjoy yourself, its like just surviving to be on the earth with no point, rather than actually living. The body your born in, the last name you take on, etc are labels, just because you're born in a male body doesn't mean you're male, by genetics it does, but otherwise of you feel feminine and think you were born in the wrng body, they are female for all i know.
Ahhhhhhh, I'm in love with Andreja, she's so beautiful <3
I don't know any of these people but that's great :) Good for them for feeling comfortable and happy in life. It reminds me of my argument with gay marriage. If you want to be eternally happy in life, why can't you let other people be too?
They aren't hurting anyone that's true, but they are being unnatural. Yes that is enough reason for people to hate on them, you should know man kind by now, it's in our nature to dissmiss the unnatural. Will that ever change? A big NOPE.
actually, it really will hurt people. when guys see a trans walking down the road and check what it thinks is a Her, and goes to talk to it, then finds out it is really a man... think of the psychological impacts that would have? what about trans going into bathrooms and making others uncomfortable? all this stuff will impact everyone. anyways I agree to a point. but they will and are hurting/effecting others
I don't really give a single f about trans, just because someone is doing something different doesn't make them special, like okay you want to be a woman go be a woman just shut up about it. What really annoys me aren't trans, it's the tree huggers who think it's their job to defend and justify everything unnatural out of open mindness. I appreciate an open minded person but I believe there is a limit to that too.