Everyone is in to something different. I agree it needs to stop but let's be honest here. Fat girls get shamed, nerds get shamed, everybody gets shamed😑. I'm just saying...
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No shit that everyone gets shamed for anything, but today I’m addressing this problem cleaarly: Just saying
I just had a quick flick through, and from what I could make of it was people shouldn't skinny shame and you have c cups. I shall make a mental note of this. Oh, by the way is that last pic you? (the sexy girl on the beach) hehe
It’s been done to fat people for years and the minute the tables turn and fat people are starting to be glorified, suddenly people are too sensitive and wanna talk about skinny shaming. Both are wrong but what’s worse is that this wouldn’t be a thing if fat people were the only ones being put down and never got that little bit of glorification...
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Lmao it’s a bit ridiculous that from the whole take you understood that but I guess some people have less brain than others, I feel sorry for you sweetheart.
@aes321 you and I are from two different generations. My generation was that “thick” girls are fat and fat shaming was a thing and nobody cared or little people cared. Yeah some people liked a fat ass, but what was mainstream was a tiny little body. Now, we see that the tables have turned and more and more girls wanna gain weight and have this “thick” body that is supposedly the most desired and optimum body type a girl can have. All of a sudden, skinny shaming is a thing that comes to light and a movement. If it were still the same where skinny was the glorified one, this whole shaming people discussion wouldn’t take place unless it’s done by a fat person that is being shamed. A lot of skinny people barely cared about others shaming fat people until they started getting shamed and put down as well. And now they wanna say that skinny shaming and shaming in general is bad when its been going on for decades.
Fat shaming - Making fun of someone for being fat Skinny shaming - Not wanting to be skinny or thin because you love your body as it is or simply just want to have some meat on your bones.
I've been glared at by other mums because of how skinny I am. I've been told that I shouldn't go to the gym because I'm already skinny enough, I'm not doing it for weight loss.
yep i was the petite girl too and now im going on to the fat girl.. eating is hard to manage... funny thing is im gaining weight and i only eat dinner, sometimes i dont
@aes321 I always hatred that when it comes to the morbidly obese people everyone rushes to their defense, but when it comes to those that look like puberty never came in "Crickets" hmm hypocrite much?
@aes321 I agree. I think "skinny" body with C cup is most likely in the definition of the beholders. I don't think a female weighing 100 lb would have a C cup, although there are extremely skinny girls who have B cup. I think that could be genetics. However, being slim and being skinny are 2 completely different things.
@StarsInTheEyes well in his comment he wants a petite girl with b or c cups and then thick legs and a big ass... and thats probably not going to happen cause its not proportionate... and yeah i agree
I hear you. I've seen too many guys asking if it's unattractive to be "short" (aka height less than 5'6" or however people define it, could be any height less than 5'8" as well)
@Anonymous Don't worry about what girls said. Whoever likes you will like you for who you are.
However, I don't feel that this post was about any other female but about the person writing this post...
I think that any type of body doesn't require criticism, but neither does it require exaggerated attention and praise, although I still like to be fit and work out a lot, but that's my opinion that it's better for myself to be fit and healthy, have toned body and perky ___ (fill in the blank)
The majority of thin women have not been ‘skinny shamed’ by the general public. Fat people on the other hand are pretty much constantly shamed and judged. Despite ‘thicc’ being ‘in’, skinny is still the ideal beauty standard for most women.
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That doesn’t mean that this should be ignored just because it is the minority.
@aes321 I’ve been skinny shamed in public, it might not be as talked about but it definitely does happen often and has affected me several times. body shaming of any sorts should not be tolerated
Everybody get's shit at some point about anything like you could be like a really hot cury model or hot skinny model and still get shit on by people
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Sadly in today's world, everyone gets shamed no matter what they do or don't do. All kinds of shaming needs to be stopped, honestly. It's ironic that it happens more and more the more equality is preached.
I feel like it's just men that do that but also women. Plus it happens to men as well bur we tend not to feel bad for them. It's is wrong to do it to anyone
It’s probably because you’re not a woman. It’s the way women talk to one another and subtly criticise one another. Try looking up all the Facebook groups called “real women have curves”, and many more.
Also, have a read of the comment I wrote in response to this post. I’ve listed many of the things that have been said to me over the years. 90% of the insults were from other females. Guys generally have no idea.
Like I said been searching 23 years nothing. All I see is on the news this celebrity was fat shamed etc. Yet never actually seeing the original fat shaming post.
@bethanyyy It probably is. I can relate to that only it’s not fat shaming it’s just popularity you’ll get sly remarks such as “wow guess everyone knows you”
@bethanyyy That's everyone not just guys. Loads of guys hate other guys because they're competition, I've had a guys hate me for "trying to steal his girlfriend"
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Everyone is in to something different. I agree it needs to stop but let's be honest here. Fat girls get shamed, nerds get shamed, everybody gets shamed😑. I'm just saying...
No shit that everyone gets shamed for anything, but today I’m addressing this problem cleaarly:
Just saying
I just had a quick flick through, and from what I could make of it was people shouldn't skinny shame and you have c cups. I shall make a mental note of this. Oh, by the way is that last pic you? (the sexy girl on the beach) hehe
No it’s Alexis Ren
Cool, do you have her number?
Psst, give it to me after?
@obi-wan_kenobi lmao she is on instagram if you want to see more of her
Gee, thanks
Does this mean you're not going to give us her phone number? 😔
It’s been done to fat people for years and the minute the tables turn and fat people are starting to be glorified, suddenly people are too sensitive and wanna talk about skinny shaming. Both are wrong but what’s worse is that this wouldn’t be a thing if fat people were the only ones being put down and never got that little bit of glorification...
Lmao it’s a bit ridiculous that from the whole take you understood that but I guess some people have less brain than others, I feel sorry for you sweetheart.
Oh I didn’t read your take. My bad. I was just sharing my opinion on skinny shaming
im confused by ur opinon.. could u explain again cause i really dont understand
@aes321 you and I are from two different generations. My generation was that “thick” girls are fat and fat shaming was a thing and nobody cared or little people cared. Yeah some people liked a fat ass, but what was mainstream was a tiny little body. Now, we see that the tables have turned and more and more girls wanna gain weight and have this “thick” body that is supposedly the most desired and optimum body type a girl can have. All of a sudden, skinny shaming is a thing that comes to light and a movement. If it were still the same where skinny was the glorified one, this whole shaming people discussion wouldn’t take place unless it’s done by a fat person that is being shamed. A lot of skinny people barely cared about others shaming fat people until they started getting shamed and put down as well. And now they wanna say that skinny shaming and shaming in general is bad when its been going on for decades.
ok i understand now... and honestly i hate people why can't they just be respectful i dont understand like i truly do not
Fat shaming - Making fun of someone for being fat
Skinny shaming - Not wanting to be skinny or thin because you love your body as it is or simply just want to have some meat on your bones.
Basically... skinny shaming is not a thing.
I've been glared at by other mums because of how skinny I am.
I've been told that I shouldn't go to the gym because I'm already skinny enough, I'm not doing it for weight loss.
Everyone should eat healthy and exercise, let the chips fall where they may.
Body shaming is just wrong
I have bee the petite girl in the white bikini and now am the 170# fat girl.
Neither one is fun all the time
yep i was the petite girl too and now im going on to the fat girl.. eating is hard to manage... funny thing is im gaining weight and i only eat dinner, sometimes i dont
@aes321 I always hatred that when it comes to the morbidly obese people everyone rushes to their defense, but when it comes to those that look like puberty never came in "Crickets" hmm hypocrite much?
I'd take a slim petite lady with b or c cups over thick thighs and a big ass.
ummm it doesn't work like that... bodies tend to grow proportionate
@aes321 I agree. I think "skinny" body with C cup is most likely in the definition of the beholders. I don't think a female weighing 100 lb would have a C cup, although there are extremely skinny girls who have B cup. I think that could be genetics. However, being slim and being skinny are 2 completely different things.
@StarsInTheEyes well in his comment he wants a petite girl with b or c cups and then thick legs and a big ass... and thats probably not going to happen cause its not proportionate... and yeah i agree
Great fucking take ma'am. I agree with everything here, and I commeberate you for pointing out the blatant hypocrisy of the movement.
Please, as if girls don't skinny shame or height shame guys.
I hear you. I've seen too many guys asking if it's unattractive to be "short" (aka height less than 5'6" or however people define it, could be any height less than 5'8" as well)
@Anonymous Don't worry about what girls said. Whoever likes you will like you for who you are.
However, I don't feel that this post was about any other female but about the person writing this post...
I think that any type of body doesn't require criticism, but neither does it require exaggerated attention and praise, although I still like to be fit and work out a lot, but that's my opinion that it's better for myself to be fit and healthy, have toned body and perky ___ (fill in the blank)
Yeah they do and I’m sorry that I didn’t made that clear on my Mytake,
The majority of thin women have not been ‘skinny shamed’ by the general public. Fat people on the other hand are pretty much constantly shamed and judged. Despite ‘thicc’ being ‘in’, skinny is still the ideal beauty standard for most women.
That doesn’t mean that this should be ignored just because it is the minority.
THANK YOU.. just cause something is a minority doesn't mean it should be ignored... say it louder for the people in the back!
@aes321 I’ve been skinny shamed in public, it might not be as talked about but it definitely does happen often and has affected me several times. body shaming of any sorts should not be tolerated
Nope, slim thick is the ideal beauty standard, and not skinny.
Everybody get's shit at some point about anything like you could be like a really hot cury model or hot skinny model and still get shit on by people
Sadly in today's world, everyone gets shamed no matter what they do or don't do. All kinds of shaming needs to be stopped, honestly. It's ironic that it happens more and more the more equality is preached.
I feel like it's just men that do that but also women. Plus it happens to men as well bur we tend not to feel bad for them. It's is wrong to do it to anyone
"I'm slim and proud of my body." And so you should be. next issue?
Tell me about it when I keep eating healthy my family tells me that I look like a skinny broom but when I stop caring they tell me to be careful lol
Skinny shaming. Fat shaming. Gay shaming. Race shaming. Belief shaming. There are just too many! We can't stop anyone from shaming somebody else.
That doesn’t mean we can’t try.
Be it fat or skinny, shaming is shaming and we need to get out of the habit of doing it
You say that and yet i’ve never seen or heard anything relating to skinny shaming? Never seen anyone say oh she’s too skinny.
Because you haven’t see it happening it doesn’t mean it isn’t real.
I’ve lived for 23 years and miraculously missed it everytime despit social media? That’s a real small probability i’ve just suceeded in.
Why don’t you search a little online?
I’m sure you’ll see many things
It’s probably because you’re not a woman. It’s the way women talk to one another and subtly criticise one another. Try looking up all the Facebook groups called “real women have curves”, and many more.
Also, have a read of the comment I wrote in response to this post. I’ve listed many of the things that have been said to me over the years. 90% of the insults were from other females. Guys generally have no idea.
Like I said been searching 23 years nothing. All I see is on the news this celebrity was fat shamed etc. Yet never actually seeing the original fat shaming post.
@bethanyyy It probably is. I can relate to that only it’s not fat shaming it’s just popularity you’ll get sly remarks such as “wow guess everyone knows you”
People CONSTANTLY say "this girl is too skinny, she needs some curves" to any woman with a BMI less than 21 -_-
I don't go searching stupid things that's why.
@bethanyyy That's everyone not just guys. Loads of guys hate other guys because they're competition, I've had a guys hate me for "trying to steal his girlfriend"