totally 100% correct. but what i do have a problem with is them trying to teach this in school, or them believe that if i dont agree with their lifestyle it should be some sort of crime. and I've met plenty of them.
Uh that's not true and doesn't make sense with what I said but ok. I'm a logical person that goes by the reality although I am somewhat creative and artistic. I don't "see" things I wish. I see real stuff. It's not like hallucinations or wishful thinking being seen or anything. You should get my point and what I'm saying. I shouldn't have to explain explain explain every single little thing
I'm not really for or against homosexuality, I guess more on the positive side of it though. I think if you really love someone you should be able to be with them no matter who they are as long as it's not a relative or something.
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i dont mind them , i actually really like them! i have a lot of gay and bisexual friends but I'm a devoted christian, i do thinl it's a sin and i should not encourage anyone to "stay" gay and not do anything about it, but i also have to love everyone and treat them all like i want to be treated. I don't mind them at all i just don't like their lifestyle that's all, plus it's not natural and a bit well... eww, they can't reproduce and the sex is different.
a lot of what you spoke about was materialistic and about sex/sexual attraction. If that what a relationship is about to you then it just worsens my opinion on gay people because it supports my view that all gay people are interested in is the gay sex and then the 'love' derives from that.
I actually didn't say anything about sex at all. And I don't understand where you're getting materialistic from?
All anyone is interested in is sex. It's just a thing. That natural drive to reproduce. No gay peeps can't reproduce if they follow their urges but eh. I'm interested in sex. The next person is interested in sex. You're probably interested in sex. I would never base my relationships around sex or the prospect of getting it, but I do think about it. A lot. Just as much as the next person. Just as much as you.
Just because I identify as something different to yourself doesn't mean I fit into a whole new identity or group. You can't sum gay people up in this whole 'only interested in sex' thing. You just can't. That'd be like summing all men up to only thinking about sex and all women to only thinking about babies and shit. It's not true. For some, yes. But for the majority? Eeh, no.
Love is love though. Regardless of how it came about or how it is realised.
It's totally NOT ok to be gay. It defies both nature and God's will. How would you procreate with your gay partner if you both have the same sexual organs? How are you not afraid to go to Hell for committing such a terrible sin? Also, it's abnormal and ridiculous.
It is okay to be gay. There will be a lot of people saying it is not, but you can't live your life trying to please other people. Just friend people who will accept you for who you are.
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Homosexuality is not a sin, even in the Christian Bible. G0d loves all his children. However, the practice of homosexual sex is an abomination and no amount of media hype, support groups and legislation will change that. Someone has to say it.
Sins are acts, not states of being. You may have the darkest pedo hungers possible but if you don't act on them, you do not sin. You can be the most flaming fag in the world but if you don't couple with a man, you do not sin.
I accept homos but that doesn't mean I believe homosexuality is right. Some gay supporters are ignorant in saying that they don't choose to be gay and that they can't change, but that's not true. And also the ones that think god hates them because god loves everyone and everyone is equal to god. And the ones that say "if you don't like homosexuality then don't be my friend " they are judging Christians by what they believe in. I'm not saying all ate like that but I have seen slot who are.
(Accidentally pushed the submit button but what I still wanted to say is that...) What I'm a bit concerned about is that I want to have kids in the future. I do have thousands of tons of experience both with men and women, both in sexual and relationship wise. Probably more than anyone should ever have. But from all the experience that I gained, what I can truly and surely say is that as a future and probably even as an ever lasting SO I can definitely enjoy a woman more. And I am just worried about the little kids because I am not sure how they would experience "two mothers" :( but if you have any thoughts then do not hesitate to share them with me! But it was a good take. Take my warm hugs @BaileyisDarcy :) take care and good luck. It is always nice to hear that I'm not alone:-)
I was never baptized and I have confused Jesus with Simpson and his donkey numerous times so... no. My parents aren't very religious at all. I think there is a total of one bible at my dads place, and that is only because in yr seven we got these mini bibles, and I went and lost mine within a week.
I do understand what you're saying though, and yeah, it does make it very tough. One of my friends is trans, and he has been on the outs with his parents since he came out as a guy, because, and I quote: 'God gave my mum a girl, so she thinks I can't be a boy because God gave her a girl.'
It's not the same thing, but there is just as much stigma.
Yea I'm sorry to hear that :( Hopefully, your friend's parents were just in shock when he came out and will come around :) It sounds like you are in a if not religious, very conservative area. I myself grew up in an area like that, I'm not gay, but I know how much it sucks for people who are in that environment.
Actually my area at the moment is pretty accepting. It's my old town that was conservative. (to the point where my little brother walked up to a guy and asked him why he was black)
His parents are just dicks. It's been going on for the least eight or nine months. He's been out for at least a year to all his friends.
Don't you just love Bill Maher? :) Great myTake, and I'd love to see in my lifetime that being gay will just be one more way people love each other rather than to be judged for or made fun of, or worse, ostracized.
Seeing as there are considerably more men than women in the world , especially in the younger age groups , then for the straight guys , more gay men = less competition for the girls.
This is a first. I have always heard that there were about 3 women to every man in this world. Why? Because male sperm doesn't last very long. Female sperm can last 2-3 times longer. In order for a woman to have increased odds of having a boy, the couple would have to have sex within so many hours of her egg releasing.
@crystalt70 actually it's pretty much 50/50, slightly more women but not loads more. And that had a lot to do with life expectancy, I've never heard of that thing about sperm, but I'm not sure how true it is
@crystalt70 I have one child of each gender ( & a single dad ) , but look at any kids class composition , always more boys , around 10 -20 % more on average , in my daughters class 2/3 boy - 1/3 girl. You only have an excess of women in old age , as men have shorter lives. Places like China , India & most Middle Eastern countries , are very male heavy , due to their killing & aborting girls... which disgusts me to my core !! I wanted a girl & was very lucky !!
To be honest, gay rights has come a long way, I don't think there's a lot to push start a movement because the movement is already happening and has been happening.
I think that some people are born to be gay while others become gay/ bisexual because of the surroundings. I mean most women have or want to have a sexual encounter with another women while most men dont want to have sex with another man. I think that its only because guys think girl on girl action is hot. And therefore it has become something thats not just accepted but appreciated. Or it is just because women are sexier than guys <3 naah jk
Frankly, I'm really happy to see when folks in EU/US think homosexuality is okay. At the end of a day it serves our (and our allies) geopolitical interests.
Obviously, I completely oppose this movement at home.
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totally 100% correct. but what i do have a problem with is them trying to teach this in school, or them believe that if i dont agree with their lifestyle it should be some sort of crime.
and I've met plenty of them.
I'm lesbian and I don't get why people are the way they are and now I'm starting to feel like there's more females that are into other females
Or maybe a higher percentage of women are willing to admit they like women because it is increasingly more socially accepted.
It's becoming more socially accepted?
you only see what you wish.
Uh that's not true and doesn't make sense with what I said but ok. I'm a logical person that goes by the reality although I am somewhat creative and artistic. I don't "see" things I wish. I see real stuff. It's not like hallucinations or wishful thinking being seen or anything. You should get my point and what I'm saying. I shouldn't have to explain explain explain every single little thing
I'm not really for or against homosexuality, I guess more on the positive side of it though. I think if you really love someone you should be able to be with them no matter who they are as long as it's not a relative or something.
i dont mind them , i actually really like them! i have a lot of gay and bisexual friends but I'm a devoted christian, i do thinl it's a sin and i should not encourage anyone to "stay" gay and not do anything about it, but i also have to love everyone and treat them all like i want to be treated. I don't mind them at all i just don't like their lifestyle that's all, plus it's not natural and a bit well... eww, they can't reproduce and the sex is different.
I JUST NEVER KNEW BEING GAY WASN'T OKAY LIKE EVER
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a lot of what you spoke about was materialistic and about sex/sexual attraction. If that what a relationship is about to you then it just worsens my opinion on gay people because it supports my view that all gay people are interested in is the gay sex and then the 'love' derives from that.
I actually didn't say anything about sex at all. And I don't understand where you're getting materialistic from?
All anyone is interested in is sex. It's just a thing. That natural drive to reproduce. No gay peeps can't reproduce if they follow their urges but eh. I'm interested in sex. The next person is interested in sex. You're probably interested in sex.
I would never base my relationships around sex or the prospect of getting it, but I do think about it. A lot. Just as much as the next person. Just as much as you.
Just because I identify as something different to yourself doesn't mean I fit into a whole new identity or group. You can't sum gay people up in this whole 'only interested in sex' thing. You just can't. That'd be like summing all men up to only thinking about sex and all women to only thinking about babies and shit. It's not true. For some, yes. But for the majority? Eeh, no.
Love is love though. Regardless of how it came about or how it is realised.
It's totally NOT ok to be gay. It defies both nature and God's will. How would you procreate with your gay partner if you both have the same sexual organs? How are you not afraid to go to Hell for committing such a terrible sin? Also, it's abnormal and ridiculous.
It is okay to be gay. There will be a lot of people saying it is not, but you can't live your life trying to please other people. Just friend people who will accept you for who you are.
Homosexuality is not a sin, even in the Christian Bible. G0d loves all his children. However, the practice of homosexual sex is an abomination and no amount of media hype, support groups and legislation will change that. Someone has to say it.
Yeah, thanks but, that's been said a few times already ^-^
Your contradicting yourself. an abomination is a sin.
Sins are acts, not states of being. You may have the darkest pedo hungers possible but if you don't act on them, you do not sin. You can be the most flaming fag in the world but if you don't couple with a man, you do not sin.
I accept homos but that doesn't mean I believe homosexuality is right. Some gay supporters are ignorant in saying that they don't choose to be gay and that they can't change, but that's not true. And also the ones that think god hates them because god loves everyone and everyone is equal to god. And the ones that say "if you don't like homosexuality then don't be my friend " they are judging Christians by what they believe in. I'm not saying all ate like that but I have seen slot who are.
I get bullied at school for being bisexual. But actually I think that girls are more lovable, there's something beautiful in their persona.
(Accidentally pushed the submit button but what I still wanted to say is that...)
What I'm a bit concerned about is that I want to have kids in the future. I do have thousands of tons of experience both with men and women, both in sexual and relationship wise. Probably more than anyone should ever have. But from all the experience that I gained, what I can truly and surely say is that as a future and probably even as an ever lasting SO I can definitely enjoy a woman more. And I am just worried about the little kids because I am not sure how they would experience "two mothers" :( but if you have any thoughts then do not hesitate to share them with me! But it was a good take. Take my warm hugs @BaileyisDarcy :) take care and good luck. It is always nice to hear that I'm not alone:-)
Actually studies have shown that kids growing up in same sex households have actually proved to be more resilient and accepting.
Bit of a happy fact there.
And thankyou heaps. Kisses and hugs to you too.
You attended a Catholic College are your parents very religious? I know that can make it tough on gay children in religious homes.
I was never baptized and I have confused Jesus with Simpson and his donkey numerous times so... no. My parents aren't very religious at all. I think there is a total of one bible at my dads place, and that is only because in yr seven we got these mini bibles, and I went and lost mine within a week.
I do understand what you're saying though, and yeah, it does make it very tough. One of my friends is trans, and he has been on the outs with his parents since he came out as a guy, because, and I quote: 'God gave my mum a girl, so she thinks I can't be a boy because God gave her a girl.'
It's not the same thing, but there is just as much stigma.
Yea I'm sorry to hear that :( Hopefully, your friend's parents were just in shock when he came out and will come around :) It sounds like you are in a if not religious, very conservative area. I myself grew up in an area like that, I'm not gay, but I know how much it sucks for people who are in that environment.
Actually my area at the moment is pretty accepting. It's my old town that was conservative. (to the point where my little brother walked up to a guy and asked him why he was black)
His parents are just dicks. It's been going on for the least eight or nine months. He's been out for at least a year to all his friends.
Thankyou heaps for the well wishes though.
Of course, and it is definitely ok to be gay. It means you are human, that's all :)
Don't you just love Bill Maher? :) Great myTake, and I'd love to see in my lifetime that being gay will just be one more way people love each other rather than to be judged for or made fun of, or worse, ostracized.
Seeing as there are considerably more men than women in the world , especially in the younger age groups , then for the straight guys , more gay men = less competition for the girls.
This is a first. I have always heard that there were about 3 women to every man in this world. Why? Because male sperm doesn't last very long. Female sperm can last 2-3 times longer. In order for a woman to have increased odds of having a boy, the couple would have to have sex within so many hours of her egg releasing.
@crystalt70 actually it's pretty much 50/50, slightly more women but not loads more. And that had a lot to do with life expectancy, I've never heard of that thing about sperm, but I'm not sure how true it is
@crystalt70 I have one child of each gender ( & a single dad ) , but look at any kids class composition , always more boys , around 10 -20 % more on average , in my daughters class 2/3 boy - 1/3 girl. You only have an excess of women in old age , as men have shorter lives. Places like China , India & most Middle Eastern countries , are very male heavy , due to their killing & aborting girls... which disgusts me to my core !! I wanted a girl & was very lucky !!
To be honest, gay rights has come a long way, I don't think there's a lot to push start a movement because the movement is already happening and has been happening.
I think that some people are born to be gay while others become gay/ bisexual because of the surroundings. I mean most women have or want to have a sexual encounter with another women while most men dont want to have sex with another man. I think that its only because guys think girl on girl action is hot. And therefore it has become something thats not just accepted but appreciated. Or it is just because women are sexier than guys <3 naah jk
Frankly, I'm really happy to see when folks in EU/US think homosexuality is okay.
At the end of a day it serves our (and our allies) geopolitical interests.
Obviously, I completely oppose this movement at home.
AND HERE I AM YET AGAIN AS NOW THE NEW MINORITY.
ON A POST WHERE PEOPLE ARE BRAGGING ABOUT BEING GAY...
THIS WILL NEVER STOP.
Get over yourself, you ridiculous idiot. Gay people encounter REAL problems. Your only problem is stubborn ignorance.
I won't accept such a hypocritical lifestyle... Your rude comment isn't going to change that.
thank you Nathand <3 #teamnormal!
I didn't read, because being gay is obviously fine (and natural) butt... I LOVE THE MEMES!
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