Do you wish your partner was hotter?

[peachykeen1515]

Be honest guys, do you ever wish you could turn your partner into a Victoria's Secret model overnight? Like if you had the choice to keep your lady the way she is right now or wake up tomorrow and she's the hottest woman ever, would you do it?

Yes, I would make her hotter

No, I want her to stay the way she is

[ManThatKnewTooMuch]

I don't really think about it. I'm with that person for a reason. Sometimes I end up with a girl I'm not AS physically attracted to but I stay with them because of who they are.

Unfortunately that's not always the best thing to do. My girl became extremely resentful because I wasn't giving her the attention that she needed. She broke up with me. So, all that talk about "looks don't matter" is simply hogwash. It does matter, especially to women.

[peachykeen1515]

Attraction is definitely important. Ignoring it can certainly cause problems.

[Anonymous]

Not really, no. I don't think of how she COULD look, I think of how she DOES look. And I'm with her because of that (not just that, but you get the idea). She has an adorable face that I wish I could eat right off of her sometimes :)

[princesswitch]

I know this question is for the guys, but I think my boyfriend is perfect. I would feel really wrong wishing for him to be physically different in anyway way. If I wanted something else, why date him?

[kairon156]

I love your comment. I hope there are more women that think the way you do. :)

[princesswitch]

Thanks:) I'm sure I'm not the only one!

[MaskofInsanity]

Honestly, I've never been so attracted to a man as I am my SO. It's fantastic lol.

[Katy16]

I REALLY hope my bf would say B and im pretty sure he would lol

[truthbeknown]

My wife has been on anxiety medication for many years and recently beat thyroid cancer and is also on thyroid medication. Both types cause weight gain. My wife is very beautiful and sexy, but I would love for her to lose some weight. She tries, but the medication makes it very very hard.

[peachykeen1515]

Well its awesome that she beat cancer! However, I think that's a pretty normal response. If she looks different than she used to, its natural to want her old look back. This is going to sound like a weird recommendation, but tell her to take omega-3 supplements. Buy some fish oil and have her take some every day. There is research that shows that women who don't have enough omega-3 accumulate body fat to compensate. Also I'm sure you aren't telling her you wish she could be thinner. She definitely hates her new weight as much as (probably more) than you.

[truthbeknown]

Thanks, I will try that!

[thewho1975]

The reason i say this is because its a really harsh thing to ask someone to change to suit you the idea is to find someone that suits you

[peachykeen1515]

Not like a asking her to change thing, I agree that's really harsh and cruel. I mean if you could magically (this is totally hypothetical) make her your ideal, would you?

[thewho1975]

Ideal is boring and doesn't give you any challenges at all so having to maybe work towards the ideal senario is much more rewarding

[BrianG123]

Honestly, no. I think my gf is about as hot as I can legitimately date. If she were any hotter, she would probably leave me. Sad but true.

[Hyped_up_on_coffee]

I'm single but everyone i sleep with is hot

[MyInternetUserName]

My hand is hot enough

[kairon156]

hahaha, ditto.