What makes "James Bond" so attractive to women?

[JustinX]

i know a couple of guys out there want to be him (including me) but i know i can dream about it freely lol

[MrOracle]

A supreme level of confidence.

While he is manly, he was never the BEST looking guy, and he wasn't actually rich (though he often appeared to be so), but he had the quiet confidence of a guy who had few if any doubts about himself, especially when it came to women. Note that he did NOT always get every woman, but he also didn't let that bother him, and the fact that he wasn't bothered was a big reason he got so many women.

You can be just like Bond (to a significant extent, anyway) with women, by learning NOT TO CARE about rejection, and thus have no fear of it. That will give you confidence, and confidence will greatly improve your success with women.

[CellLuddite]

Thank you Mr. Oracle. Was that too hard? James Bond is really confident. Its got nothing to do with the fact that he kills people for a living. It only matters that it doesn't bother him that he kills people for a living.

[JustinX]

i think i should get a thick face and throw away my shyness

[JustinX]

confidence is the key to be attractive yet many guys failed to have them including me

[MrOracle]

Confidence comes when you figure out that only a small number of things are worth worrying about, and all the rest you need to learn NOT to care about. And that includes the opinions of most people, including girls you either haven't asked out yet or girls you have who turn you down. The only ones that matter are the ones who say "yes."

[JustinX]

the problem with me is that i have this "self-fulfilling prophecy" when i approach a girl i sound defeated to her haha

[MrOracle]

You need to ASSUME and EXPECT rejection (in the beginning), so that you feel like it's already happened, and thus you have nothing more to fear. Approach/ask her as if you have absolutely nothing to lose (and, really, you don't), but also train yourself not to CARE much if she does say "no".

This is also why, especially at first, you need to get your numbers WAY up, which you do by going out a lot and approaching EVERY girl you find attractive. You'll get rejected a lot (even if it's just because she's already taken), and that's GOOD, because it will train you not to CARE, and that will boost your confidence.

The WORST thing a guy with no confidence can do is get attached to or invested in one specific girl FIRST, before he's asked her out, but this is exactly what most guys do. Instead, ask out EVERY girl, and get a DATE, and only after at least one date (if it goes well) should you invest any emotions in her.

This will change as you get confidence, but start there.

[JustinX]

yeah i assumed rejection from the beginning... but the only thing is that i'm a bit sensitive... i dont want to get hurt that is why i never approach a girl. i guess i have to practice not to give a damn. yeah it is bad to invest in one specific girl at the beginning without knowing if you have a chance with her or not.

[MrOracle]

Well, now you know the "secret", so it's just a matter of putting it to practice. I can't stress enough, that in the beginning, you need VOLUME - ask out EVERY girl who catches your eye. It's like getting lots of batting practice in baseball - the more batting practice you get, the more likely you'll do well in the real game. And the reverse is true: the less you practice, the more likely you are to strike out when it counts.

Don't get hung up on "the perfect girl", just be open-minded about the girls you DO meet, and who knows? You might meet a great girl who you only discover is great after a date with her.

[JustinX]

i dont want a perfect girl it is just i'm picky for the pretty ones... well having a relationship is not my priority as of now cause i'm just starting my career maybe after a few years... but for now i'm just enjoying my life being single

[MrOracle]

You don't need to want a relationship - you could likely find a friends with benefits following this method as well. The point is: don't focus on one particular girl up-front. Be open to whoever says "yes", and save the judgments until later.

[JustinX]

hmmm the friends with benefits is kinda impossible for me... lol what do you mean by "Be open to whoever says "yes"?

[MrOracle]

I mean, don't *not* ask out a girl because see doesn't seem to be 100% your "type" - if you find her attractive at all, ask her out. And if she says "yes", then take her on a date with an open mind. She might turn out to be a great match for you, or it might be a total mis-match, but don't judge that until AFTER you've been on at least one date. Try to do as little "narrowing down"/"eliminating" girls from your potential dating pool until you've asked them, unless you simply don't find them attractive at all.

[JustinX]

yeah my guy friends are really amazed that i can point out beautiful girls faster and even on great distance i'm like a chick detector... they ask me how did i do it... i only tell them that it seems natural for me to notice beautiful chicks... and they told me that if only i have "casanova moves" i can get a girl what i want... then i replied "too bad i'm too shy to approach girls plus most of them won't find me attractive anyway". then my friends said "we dont want you to be single in your entire life bro... you know having a gf you dream of is like a heavenly feeling... you will feel great always.. we dont want you to die a virgin"... then after that i just laugh at them but on the inside "i ask myself is it really great to have a gf". sometimes i think about that

[silvernblackattk]

@MrOracle loved your answer

[JustinX]

@silvernblackattk that is why i MH him

[Red_Dragon]

Yeah I've been wondering that too. I like this guy better:

https://www.huitreseven.com/en/img/casanova.jpg

Maybe Bond is just more modern, but the guy above is the standard.

[JustinX]

casanova?

[Red_Dragon]

Yes.

[JustinX]

womanizer haha but i think this guy can't fight

[Red_Dragon]

I doubt it, but then again do girls really want a fighter. I mean intially you could say that. I mean Bond is a secret agent. He's got the cars and the suits and the action.. but... do they reeeallly want a fighter?

[JustinX]

how can you protect someone if you are not battletested i mean are you just for looks can't beat guys who is in your way

[Red_Dragon]

Well I don't know if he could defend himself or not actually. He might could have. Not on the scale Bond can, but still can you defend yourself? I'd like to think I can and I'm just a regular person.

[JustinX]

if you are asking me... i had doubts also... i learned a few martial arts but i didn't master any of them... i'm an advanced student while back then and i can say that my skills are getting rusty

[yoshi_wanna_ask]

Well he's good looking (most of them anyway) he's resourceful, he's very confident and he can get out of any situation which makes him appear powerful. But more than that, he's not like any other regular guy and so being 'chased' by him (at least in my perspective) makes a girl feel special ^_^ There's not much more attractive than being chased by a guy who ticks all those boxes.

[JustinX]

yeah hehe its really hard for guys to be like him

[LastGirlScout]

Only Daniel Craig, the others aren't hot. Daniel Craig is one of those guys whose natural magnetism overcomes his less than conventional face to make something truly beautiful.

[JustinX]

hmm i like his accent... i wish i could be cool and attractive like him

[pr3ttybr0wn]

what makes u think he is? I've never heard anyone in real life talk about james bond

[JustinX]

i saw the movies of course

[Phoenix98]

I think he means what makes the James Bond type of guy attractive to women not the man himself because obviously he is not real.

[CourtJester]

He's a got the demeanor of a gentleman and is flirtatious at the same time. He knows he's charming and is confident with women. The suggestive seduction that he knows his way around a woman and how to take care of her in bed is tantalizing. He's got the looks and the attitude all together in one package. Who doesn't want that?

[JustinX]

damn that would be hard for me to be like him... i'm a bit flirtatious... haha not confident cuz i dont have the looks... not badass also

[Phoenix98]

Extremely confident, mystery, masculine, nice suit, dominant, gentleman, classy and has that accent and of course is a overall bad ass he is a man that knows what he wants and he goes after it. If you want to be like bond just be confident as confidence can really up how attractive you are in a women's eyes.

[abundantlyrich]

He is very masculine
suave and cool like nothing really swings him by to the deep.
good at titillating women, make them feel gorgeous and desired
good looks
deep voice

[JustinX]

yeah hehe

[Glitter_TE_ART]

His confidence & masculinity. Also he's mysterious in that he's a spy which can be appealing. He's well dressed, groomed, and is sophisticated without being totally arrogant.

[silvernblackattk]

Good point

[pineneedle]

He's witty, smart, athletic, adventurous, well traveled, dangerous and probably just saved your life.

[JustinX]

dangerous in a sense that he can protect you

[pineneedle]

Yes and dangerous as in uncertain, there's potential for a lot of drama and a lot of ass kicking adventure:)

[masterignacio]

1. Good looks
2. Low - pitched voice
3. Being desired by very attractive women - JB has a new hot girlifrend in every movie.

[JustinX]

yeah womanizer indeed

[silvernblackattk]

I wish i had his voice

[Izzy2102]

Well he is played by handsome actors usually, dresses well, talks sophisticated

[JustinX]

yeah

[findingdreamland]

He is bad boy and the good boy at the same time. Do you know how difficult to find it? :) LOL

[JustinX]

badass also

[findingdreamland]

Such a badassssss !

[JustinX]

yeah i wanna be like him

[PoisonPond]

He's extremely suave and self confident, and takes control in every situation and never loses his cool. Even when his life is in danger.

[JustinX]

i know right

[CellLuddite]

WTF? Dis my question! I guess great minds think alike?

[JustinX]

ohhh sorry dude i'm not claiming this is my question... i'm more concerned for people's answer or opinion

[yaddayaddayadda02]

He's good looking, powerful, and confident. Also has a good car.

[yellowmamba024]

I wonder if James Bond is a man women is looking for in a relationship.

[decemberxblue]

Well, he's dope at everything, never loses, conversation can be about Oatmeal Pies and he'll have a witty quip, and his cars are like Knight Rider. XD

[josesmaf]

Screenwriters make James Bond so attractive to women.

[Daniel121]

How about because he's British

[JustinX]

British spy

[05Jueey]

I actually dont get the appeal

[Phoenix98]

Really? classy government spy out to save the world that does not do anything for you?

[JustinX]

@Phoenix98 maybe she's into a spy guy... maybe she likes rambo or something

[Mark-Ego-Almencion]

CHARISMA...
(Warm, Precense and Power)

[JustinX]

true

[knotme]

I have no clue. He never did it for me

[Klaatu51]

this ----> $

[GamerGirl71618]

He's classy~

[JustinX]

yeah he got good taste in clothes