How do i give a good handjob? because i tried before and it didn't work all that good, it actually took a while for him and i was kind of shaky. lol but how do i get straight in it and give him a good one?
Give a good hand job?
these guys are right in saying that blowjobs are nicer than handjobs (in most cases), but what they don't realize is that blowjobs aren't for everyone haha. here are some tips:
hold it like a soda can (you want a somewhat firm grip, but not too tight) when starting out and literally just go up and down.
find some lubricant (i use vaseline its cheap and easy to get to and my boyfriend literally gets hard when he sees the little jar i keep it in lol). the slippier the better.
change the way you grip his penis every so often- this allows different parts to be stimulated and makes for a better experience for him.
use both hands- pump him with one and touch his balls with your other or use your other hand to rub his back (my bf likes a good back itch while being given a hj, i don't know why) or touch his neck.
act like you're enjoying it- the more into it you are, the better it will be for him. groan and moan along with him and even move your hips against his, he might like that.
i hope those help! if you have more questions, feel free to message me :)
speaking of balls DON"T forget them- cup them every once in awhile
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It's a hand, maybe some kind of lubricant or something. A hand would not be as pleasurable as say your mouth.
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lube helps, but watching him masturbate would help so you know what position your hand really needs to be in
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Oh I love that question. There are several suggestions.
1. Ask him to show you so you can practice on him. The idea of you asking to teach him makes for a very hot scenario.
2. Me, I love handjobs, especially if she decided to be dominate when she does it. For example, I once had a girlfriend who (when she decided she wanted to be dominate, that night) would order me to lay down, on my back, legs spread wide while she gave me a handjob, but there were rules I had to follow. 1. I was not allowed to move or make a sound until I began squirting cum. If I broke ANY of those two rules I would receive a punishment. The punishment would be one of two things. 1. I had to spend the next three nights performing oral sex on her as many times as she wanted and I wasn't allowed to have an orgasm, or 2: I had to eat my cum.
She would then proceed by running her fingertips (with a very light touch) all over and around my balls. As she did that, she would then run one of her fingertips slowly up my shaft, going very slow, with a very light touch. Once she reached the head, she would spend some time very lightly running her fingertip all over and around the tip. Then, she would stroke my cock with a very light touch, stroking me slowly. Sometimes stroking my entire shaft, sometimes just the tip.
All this would just drive me crazy! I wanted to tell her to stroke me harder and faster, but I knew what would happen if I said a word or moved an inch. I had to just lie there and take her torture. What made it worse was when I was about to cum. As my cock would begin to pulsate and throb, she would often times stop for a few seconds and then continue, sometimes she would continue to stroke me with that light touch knowing I was about to cum. The whole time I kept thinking to myself, "Well, performing oral sex on her for three nights in a row, any time she wanted, as often as she wanted wouldn't be so bad! But, then again, it means I wouldn't be allowed to have an orgasm on those nights." If (before starting to give me a handjob) she insisted that if I broke any of those two rules, I would be punished by having to eat my cum, then I would find myself thinking, "Fuck! I don't want to eat my cum! I'm not sure if I can keep still. Fuck!!!". What made that option even naughtier is, as I neared my orgasm, she would make comments like, "Mmmmm you're thinking about it, aren't ya? You're thinking about how hot it's going to be to eat your cum, aren't ya? I know, I can tell. You're cock is rock hard, and you're about to cum. Why else would you cock be rock hard and ready to cum if you weren't thinking about how hot it's going to be to eat your cum, while I watch!!!"
When I finally came, it was always SO intense!!! Lying still, not making a sound as she slowly brought me over the edge always made my orgasm so intense! Sometimes I couldn't keep still. I would then either spend the next three nights performing oral sex on her anytime she wanted, as often as she wanted, and I wasn't allowed to fuck her or have an orgasm, or I had to eat my cum, ALL of it.
I must admit, having to perform oral sex on her for three nights in a row was really hot! It meant the sex was all about her, and I could tell she REALLY enjoyed it. I can't begin to tell you how many times I almost had an orgasm while licking her as she was experiencing an orgasm. I loved how she would suddenly and unexpectedly tell me to stop what I was doing and lick her, right now!
Anyway, I hope my suggestions help. I would love to hear what you do now. If you're interested in telling me, or asking me any questions, feel free to write me at nothingtosee@yahoo. com
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Get some lube and put just a little squeeze of a few drops in your hand- or on his penis. Concentrate on the head of his penis and then lubricate the rest of his penis. Wrap your hand around his penis and move your hand up and down slowly sensually. By now his penis should be erect (mine would have been already) 😉. If his penis is long enough you could use two hands to stimulate his penis more. by the way have an old shirt or tissues for him to ejaculate into.
How do I know the specifics of all this? It’s the way I used to masturbate 👍🙂
Have fun you two 😉
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Lube it up grip tight and choke that MF as fast as u can... don't forget to play with his balls I love getting hand jobs so I know if he cums a lot u did it right
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Best way to give a hand job. Is with your mouth
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Gotta use lube.
Hand lotion works fine. -
I don't think girls under 18, should be doing anything sexual
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