What is the point of being loyal if nobody is loyal now days?

[Anonymous]

I'm the type of female who's against infidelity my whole life but after being cheated on or witnessing others being played countless times, I think to myself what's the point of being loyal to someone if that person is being unfaithful... I became very resentful with men and I feel that if I end up with a man who has a side chick I'll make sure she's my side chick as well or I'll just find my own side lover, what's the point of being loyal to the person you love when that person cheats on you? There is no point in ever being faithful it really gets tiring waiting on a right person... I don't think the "right guy" even exists nobody disloyal deserves loyalty

[Creole_Flavor]

I understand why you feel that way but there are loyal men in this world. Surely you don't believe that you are the only faithful person on the planet and that there is nobody out there that is able to be faithful to you just because you have had run ins with unfaithful guys. I have had the same experience. I was faithful when my exes were not to me. They did not deserve my loyalty but two wrongs don't make a right so instead of getting back at them I still had my dignity and left. Thinking that you should get someone before they get you or play their game is not the way to go about it. Your question is what is the point of being loyal, my question is what is the point of being in a relationship with a cheater and cheating on him as well just because he is doing it. Nobody wins in that situation. The thing about loyalty is that you must be loyal to yourself before you be loyal to anyone else. You are selling yourself short by accepting this behavior and participating in it. By the time you actually find someone good, your views on relationship will be so screwed up that you might cheat on a good guy that is actually faithful all because you think all of them are the same. Take some time to yourself and regroup. Being alone is not so bad, it sure beats being uncertain in relationships and playing the field

[Anonymous]

There a lot of loyal people out there. You just have to wait and find them. You can't not be loyal just because others are. That'd be like bullying someone just because your friends do. Or smoking because your friends do. Etc... We don't need to act like the problem. Two wrongs don't make a right.

[Sigma88]

Please, don't generalize. I don't cheat; never have, never will. And I was cheated on, but I didn't hold all women accountable for the actions of one, or dozens of others I know have cheated on prior partners.

Perhaps you should simply look at the people you associate with, disassociate where needed, & raise your standards.

[TadCurious]

But why be disloyal to yourself and your own values? Why would you want to just do what "everybody" supposedly is doing, when that isn't what you believe in? Maybe the world is going to hell, that doesn't mean you have to follow everyone over the cliff. Stand strong for your own personal truth, for what your values are.

[bDizzie]

The "if you can't beat them join them" mentality is not the right answer here. Quit going for players and jerks and you will find someone more faithful.

[Asker]

It's so hard to tell who's a player or not a lot of guys were trained to act like good guys and they use those tactics to play games

[Bandit74]

Girls cheat too
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1277521-how-to-tell-my-boyfriend-i-cheated-on-new-years

People just suck

[WhoTheHellKnows]

The right guy for you exists. Maybe your searching for the wrong type of people o in the wrong places

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My day is ruined

[WhoTheHellKnows]

Epic!

[autumnmor]

I know exactly what you mean, but there are loyal people out there trust me. To say there isn't, would be ludacris.

[Anonymous]

It's one reason I stopped dating. Women are incapable of loyalty. So at this point, it's Fuck'em and forget'em.

[Opinion Owner]

Ha at the downvote. Not what you wanted to hear? You wanted men to say there are still good men out there don't give up?

I treat women how they should be treated based upon their behavior. Like cum dumpsters.