Is my mom a pedophile? or at least a master manipulator?-I grew up on a commune/cult created by ex hippies everyone was second & third generation there was this troubled kid who's dad didn't want him around anymore ( his dad was a piece of shit)& he didn't have a mom, so the leader of the cult sent him to live with various family's until finally he endedup with mine, my dad instantly took him under his wing.. during this point my mom was depressed & very overweight.. she was put in charge of tutoring him & so it began... the late night phonecalls, her sneaking around to see & talk to him, sending me away so she could tutor him for hours alone (he was 13 at this point) my dad started getting suspicious & put a stop to them hanging out & then one day I woke up & mom had left & signed away custody of me to the cult leader,2 months later the kid ran away magically ended up living with my mom. his dad after hearing about the whole situation disowned him & gave custody to my mom, i left the cult 3 years later & moved to the same state as my mom but had to live with estranged family till my dad joined me, now for some reason my mom wouldn't allow me near this kid ( but he'd sneak & call me because well its hard adjusting to a whole new reality)& she was obsessed with him, called him her best friend, wouldn't allow him to date, never ever took care of me but got him anything he wanted example of creep factor - she would buy bottles of jack & they'd go off into the woods alone to drink, they lived in a 1bedroom apartment, she was always going on about how he looked like Leo DiCaprio, one day when I was 19 I finally found proof she had written him a letter calling him her husband & using his last name as her own when I asked her about it she admitted they were together but claimed they didn't hookup till he was legal & suddenly she decided he could meet me? when me & him started hanging out he would bully & beat the fuck out of me
She didn't care about that at all & was madly in love with him while making me call him my brother at the same time... till one day he dumped her for someone young girl.. then the spin began she says- I know people think I was wrong but he's a manipulator even as a kid he was way ahead of me mentally I got sucked in he's a piece of shit etc.. etc.. & my dad hated this kid? Saying he brokeup our family? WHEN MY MOM WAS AN ADULT WHO TOOK ADVANTAGE OF A TROUBLED 13 YR OLD KID? She was supposed to
Be a maternal figure but instead isolated & obsessed over this kid...& I feel like he did whatever he could to survive but till this day no one sees it the same way..