Can a woman truly be labeled as a pedophile?

[Anonymous]

Even if some women are attracted to little boys I don't think they can be labeled as pedophiles, mainly because women are very trusting around children and can do no harm to them, and even if they get caught doing things with boys then they're treated very leniently in the court house and receive lesser sentences compared to men.

If a boy ever gets taken advantage of by a woman he wouldn't be a victim, he would most certainly be a man after that experience and one lucky boy, so since boys would actually enjoy having sex with a woman the boy can't be a victim and the woman can't be a pedophile and go to jail since the boy wouldn't call the police on her, if you don't believe me then watch the video.

[elaphe]

Anyone, male or female, who is sexually attracted to prepubescent children, is a pedophile. That is the psychiatric definition. A person doesn't need to act on these feelings to be a pedophile. Many such individuals do not commit child sexual abuse. Likewise, a person can molest a child and not be diagnosed with pedophilia because their attraction is not exclusive to prepubescent children. It may be a crime of opportunity, or perhaps they want the child to suffer for being innocent. Also, an adult having a sexual experience with a postpubescent minor would not be considered a pedophile by clinical standards, but they most certainly would be considered a child sexual offender by the law. The idea that a woman can't hurt a boy be making a sexual advance on him is absolutely false. The idea that a boy is somehow "a man" if he has sex with an adult woman, but a girl is "damaged" if she has sex with an adult man (and the man is a creep, while the woman is not) smacks of a huge double standard. Plenty of research shows that boys who are in such a situation have real troubles with trust in future relationships. Both scenarios are wrong and both men and women should be prosecuted if they sexually abuse minors.

[Bricealan]

The most bizarre thing I ever read, was a story in the Register or maybe the LA Times of a female teacher being - honest to god- prosecuted for having sex with a high school student ! MOST INSANE THING I EVER SAW !

First - Why would any high school boy - REPORT HAVING SEX WITH A TEACHER?

Second - How would anyone find out if the idiot was not bragging about it around school?

Third - In high school we had an English teacher was the hottest, most beautiful woman you might imagine... and there was not a single guy in that school that would not give his left testicle to have sex with her - much less tell anyone about it!

[Asker]

If that was me I wouldn't tell anybody.

[Cheerguy]

Not ALL boys want sex with older women. And some can feel regret after.

It's also very unethical from the teacher and she used the kid sexually. That's why parents reported it.

I feel sorry if you have a wife because you are extremely toxic.

[Bricealan]

@Cheerguy Oh please for gods sake..."extremely toxic" why would you make such a stupid, comment about someone you know noting about? You just demonstrated just how ignorant and arrogant you are, Sir !

[TeraGER]

That video is staged, and yes they are and in fact common just like men, but they don't get caught or reported nearly as often.

But the opinion with boys enjoying sex with older women is BS because some girls would enjoy it with older men too but still be manipulated. Lot of boys don't like much older women too. This is a very toxic stereotype.

Just because they are bragging or saying they haven't been harmed, doesn't mean they are not being taken advantage of or used.

[Asker]

So your saying all those people walking by are just paid actors? That is complete BS, those are real people that are not batting an eye to that boy and older woman, that is proof that relationships involving women and little boys is not a big deal, and little boys would be lucky to be with and lose their virginity to a woman.

[TeraGER]

Lol I doubt it. These youtubers make up shit. But you can believe what you want.

Most boys don't want old women though. Maybe 20s.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Yes, they can be. If you're an adult and are attracted to minors or children, you are a pedophile, hebephile, etc. by definition alone. I hate that people think that an erection means consent and that a boy can't possibly be traumatized by a woman. Of course, it isn't consensual and of course he can be, he's a little boy. Even a man could become traumatized from a woman who does that crap.

[Asker]

Men and boys can't be traumatized by women, if a boy gets hard down there after seeing a beautiful woman it means he finds her attractive and wants to do stuff with her, usually the only thing boys and men think about is sex and it wouldn't make sense if they were traumatized by a woman, it wouldn't make sense because they would usually like it.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

Yes, they can be. And you seem to have no clue how a child's mind works. What would you say about the man who was threatened with a gun to his head by a woman if he didn't have sex with her? Don't you think that'd traumatized him and make him see women differently?

[MGTK7]

That is so toxic. Of course boys/ men can be abused or raped by women.

[Asker]

no it wouldn't, and if the man accepted her offer to have sex with her the man wouldn't be traumatized anymore after that, most if not all men would of accepted that offer and feel great afterwards.

[Asker]

@MGTK7 boys/men can't be raped by women because the boys and men would like it, so it wouldn't be considered rape, and if they didn't like it they were probably gay, most guys would enjoy it.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

He doesn't really have much of a choice though. He either has to die by a gunshot or have sex with her if he wants to continue to live. He's only doing it as survival mode, not because he wants to do it with her.

[DrPepper12]

Hetero men can't be raped by women? Are you nuts? It's not about the sex at all!! It's about the power dynamic. Ofc they can be raped and NOT ENJOY IT!

[Asker]

@DrPepper12 Why would they not enjoy it? It's not everyday that men get an opportunity to have sex with a woman, and if he didn't enjoy it then he is gay.

[PBandJ_Nerd]

@DrPepper12 We know what kind of person this guy is. He has a messed-up view of what is and isn't consent.

[Honest-Matt]

I firmly hold that women can and have been pedophiles; they can prey on young boys who are vulnerable physically and mentally. We can all look back at our younger selves and understand we were very innocent of the world and how easily we could be influenced and manipulated. Choice and decision is entirely what victimization is based upon. Just because a boy/girl is made to think it is okay by indoctrination or manipulation, does not negate the wrong doing. Marrying or having intercourse with a child is abuse.

[ManInChains]

Women can do no harm to children? Pretty sure women have killed their own children. Drowned them in the bathtub? Had them killed before they're even born? You seem to hold women at too high a standard and really need to learn to bring them down quite a few pegs.

[Asker]

Well if you have no evidence of women doing such acts then people won't believe you.

[ManInChains]

No one would believe me anyway even if I did 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Chazmatazz269]

By that logic, if a girl enjoyed sexual stimulation with a man, he’s not a pedophile either, right? Ell oh ell!
Even a cursory examination of sexual dysfunction would help you to better understand what you clearly know little to nothing about. Either that, or you’re trolling. You know, anon and all.

[Asker]

no he is a pedophile, but it's different if it's a woman and boy.

[TheorionMage]

As an abused firstborn male gratuitously molested by an in-residence, superficially hype-religious maternal senior-citizen grandmother, while in my early pre-teen years... WHAT WOULD YOU DEEM HER?
Upon 'telling my Mommy' (HER mother) ... I was not believed.
Being 'bath time' hands-ie... genitals got MUCH more thoroughly washed!

[jshm2]

The question is innocuous as only a court of law can decide if someone is a paedophile.

Sure, people can talk shit and scream about "freedom of speech". But by the letter of the law they claim their "free speech" from , they should be hauled before court for slander and libel. If their claim of "paedophile" doesn't stand up in court.

[DishLady]

Yes of course. Unfortunately, of the millions of child abuse cases that make it to court (ped. cases), many are women. It's not gender-specific.

[Asker]

If it's not gender specific then how come 99% of the time ped. cases are men?

[MGTK7]

Stigma? The type that you are reinforcing here. It's difficult enough fir z victim to speak up (for various reasons) then you and that any man should basically enjoy it. Anyway. Next question

[Kelley1]

It is rare but can happen. However, if the boy is over 13, she is not a pedophile. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pedophilia

[Anonymous]

Pedophiles just like kids. They don't have to act on it and hurt kids, they're still a pedophile.

As for everything else besides that little semantics error... yikes. Let me start with a question, if I may: at what age do you think boys start to always want to do every kind of sexual activity with every woman? I assume you don't think we're born that way, so it must start somewere.

[Apple1996]

Hasn't it been a common thing now in the news with those female pedophile teachers going after their male students?

[Asker]

It's not that common, it's more rare than you think, and when it does happen it's not a big deal compared to the other way around.

[Apple1996]

I just never see news stories about male teachers even tho that happens too

[Goahead76]

I have seen countless stories like that over the last few years.

[Razp_Sorbet]

That is a fucked up mindset. Of course women can be pedophiles. Having an attraction to children is not normal and acting on those urges is illegal AND immoral.

[nawtee_me]

Yes they can. I am sure it happens more than we all know because boys won’t tell on the women like girls will on the men. The female teachers you hear about is not because the boys told on them but because of other reasons they get caught.

[Asker]

Even if they did get caught the male cops would be like. "Nice"

[Twalli]

Pedophilia is exual attraction to children. You honestly think a 5 year old boy would want to have sex with a woman? How about 8, 10? I thought girls had cooties then.

[Asker]

Of course he would, why would any guy reject an offer to have sex with a woman? That's a once in a lifetime offer to lose your virginity at a young age, and you'd be a fool not to.

[Twalli]

You're seriously disturbed if you think a prepubescent boy would enjoy sex with an older woman.

[exitseven]

Plenty of women teachers have been arrested for having sex with students.

[Asker]

Plenty? I'm sure there's only been few that ever appeared on the news bud.

[exitseven]

it is a lot and those are just the ones that make the news.

[DrPepper12]

PLENTY!!!

[exitseven]

@DrPepper12 yes for a while there was a new one Avery couple of days. Ant those are just the o es we know about. How many kids get it on with a teacher and never say a word

[DrPepper12]

In HS, More than anyone realizes and sometimes with moms blessings and support. Among coaches It's bad too. In college it's epidemic.

[leahzrc]

You will find that the elite society is full of them

[Anonymous]

Women Can Be A Pedophile, There Are Lots Of Women Who Are Pedophiles, Lots Of Them Of Them Are Teachers Who Sexually Abuse Their Male And Female Students… Others Are Trusted Family Friends… The Label Pedophile Is Not Reserved For Men Only…

[Asker]

If there are lots of them then how come there's only few of them that ever appeared on the news?

[ProbablyClueless]

They certainly have the ability to be pedos. They rarely get labelled that though.

[Anonymous]

None of this is true. It’s all based on outdated gender roles.

[Asker]

It is true, have you ever watched videos or googled about female pedophiles? There's always videos and posts of guys saying "I wish that was me" or "where was she when I was a kid?" and other things, women can literally get away with stuff like this.

[Opinion Owner]

Those were guys who never had it happen to them. The guys who actually were molested by women were traumatized.

[Asker]

A guy can't be traumatized by a woman, sex with a woman is a great feeling so feeling traumatized by it makes no sense, if it did happen to them they would feel lucky and happy, not traumatized.

[Opinion Owner]

Never mind. You just don’t get it.

[DrPepper12]

You need help. You really do.

[DrPepper12]

Ofc women can be pedophiles!! Rapists too!!

[handsomelad70]

Yes, if she's having s*x with underage children.

[Cheerguy]

Obviously, your post is either a troll post or you have serious issues, bias.