"God" didn't make you anything, your parents DNA made you a boy.
Your refusal to listen to anything non-christian is not a good stance to have, it causes people to feel like you do right now. You feel shame for something natural and you shouldn't. I know it will be hard for you because the people who surround you are the same people who fed you these compartmentalized views. It's what pushes many normal children to commit suicide and it is wrong.
If you have desires to be a female, you are NOT "sinning" or evil.
If you desire the same sex, you are not sinning or evil.
It is a hard thing to deal with when your brain is genetically female but your body is genetically male... but it is even harder when you are forced to suppress it.
I hope you are able to accept yourself even if you currently are unable to outwardly show it and maybe someday you will be able to break free of the crooked ideology you have been programmed to believe.
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sometimes our sex and our gender just dont add up. and thats OKAY. contrary to what most believe, we are not defined by our sex. you can have the body of a male and know that in you're heart and soul, you're a girl. our gender is determined by us, not by our bodies. you are spiritual, and im sure it must be overwhelmingly difficult living in a males body when you know your true gender is female. please just know that your God wouldn't have made your sex male for you to suffer. just like he doesn't create gays to suffer. he created you in this body because he knows that you're strong enough to handle being in control of your gender. not many people are like that.
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A lot of people are unhappy with things they have or things about themselves. Why does God make people who have mental disorders, cancer, diseases, etc? Unfortunately I don't know the answer. But many people are unhappy with themselves and I think if you want to be a girl then you should be a girl. People change things about themselves all the time and it's ok. That's why we have the ability to do that. :)
Because he's got a plan for u but u may not be able to do it if u were a girl Nd he gave it to u because only u the way that you are can fulfill this plan but u jus dont know what the plan is yet... but honestly nobody will ever truly know y untill the day u ask him yourself but your pefect in his eyes just the way u are😊😊😊😊
It is because of your karms of your previous lives, because of bad karms human beings even get birth as animals in his/her next life. Everything good and everything bad is because of good karms and bad karms. Human beings must stay away from moh maya and strive to attain Moksha. Moksha is the purpose of life as human being. May God bless you brother and fulfill your wishes :)
Maybe you should be who you want to be, and be a woman. Don't be ashamed of who you are, you can't go your life wondering these things. Its better to bite the bullet when you're young and transition than to be like Bruce Jenner and wait about 60 years to do so.
God is a spectator, in my eyes. Think of life as an experiment. We are not pawns. Whatever happens, happens. He only watches, but does not interfere. I'm sorry that you feel that way. I hope that you are either able to accept your biological gender or to pursue transformation, and make peace with yourself.
I think God gave each of us certain struggles in life, and yours is hard to bear, but I believe that God doesn't make mistakes. Seek help from someone you trust and accept who you are. I'm sorry I'm not more helpful.
Do you want to be a girl? If you do, you can and I don't think God will mind, maybe it's your path in life. The world is made up of all different types of people and you are here for a reason.
I am not christian but i think that if you want to be a female you should go for it!
Why? Because your parents had sex and the male sperm was the stronger and made it to the egg first and you were created.
Dress however you want in the end you are going to be the one that does something to make yourself happy. Fuck what others think be yourself. Do what you want its your life not theirs. Don't forget to stay amazing. βΊοΈ
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