Girls, Every day since kindergarten I believed that being a girl really was made to be all better than being a boy?

[Louis-Deger]

Girls are more attractive and only boys ask girls out but girls always say no. I have a list of reasons why being a girl is all better than being a boy but there’s a limit in this description on how many words I can put in. I’ve been ungrateful for being a boy every day since kindergarten and every day since kindergarten, my ungratefulness grows I’m more ungrateful than I was yesterday and I’ll be more ungrateful tomorrow than today, it grows everyday. I wish girls didn’t think so easily that boys are creepy. I like having friends who are girls but I’m just suppose to have different social skills with them than I would with boys, meaning that friendships with the opposite gender isn’t easy. One of my worst fears is girls whom I have a crush on will end a friendship just because I made a mistake. I’m not really perfect with social skills, I try to be a nice person, I wish girls would realize if I made a mistake like an imperfect social skill that I didn’t mean it. Who would you rather be friends with? Someone who is nice and tries their best? Or someone who is absolutely mean and says insults? Parents seem to be fine with their sons being around girls but not their daughters being around boys, and when I came into contact with girls parents in person, I ran away from them. I don’t even want them to hear me speak, I want them to think that I’m mute and not able to speak. I’m sure there would be more to say but I’m all out of ideas aside from the list of reasons why being a girl is better than being a boy which may be too big to fit in this description. Please share what you have to say, thanks!

[DishLady]

Looks are a double-edged sword, my friend. Boys and girls start out playing with the same toys and using the same things to complete their little school assignments and suddenly… one day out of the blue… POOF! their fancy bits pop up and everything goes to h*ll. Suddenly "men are from mars and women are from venus"…


For a woman, the "creepy" factor partially comes from the fact that guys will seem to be perfectly fine and suddenly either say something really odd or just stare like you're the last glass of water on earth. It's just weird. Nobody is that high up in the looks department that you need to be giving them that thirsy glance.


Other signs of a "creepy" guy are: Some are more obvious than others. The complete list is (1) unwanted written, verbal or physical contact, (2) inappropriate comments, (3) controlling behavior (or refusal to accept that "no" means "no"), (4) pressuring the other person for attention, sex, etc., (5) being clingy, (6) stalking.


If you're still lost about what makes a guy seem creepy, watch:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=buMbgQYI6JM

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[Louis-Deger]

Thank you! Some girls I really have a crush on, and want to become a close friend to them, and I thought I could do that by texting them frequently, but that’s not the way to go? I don’t want them to be just my friends. I want them to be my best friends.

[SueShe]

I fear that you have a communications issue with girls. True it is easier for girls to initiate contact with guys because they are less rejected than boys.

I blame society, the internet, social media and a number of other causes to create a gap between genders and the perception people have about what should be and what not.

I understand that you have your doubts but don't let those doubts rule your life. If you have the opportunity, join a club or take a hobby where you can meet people that share the same interests. It is always easier to talk to others, including girls, when you have common interests. Who knows, you may even find the person you were looking for your entire life. Good luck.

[Nikki1989]

Obviously something went wrong with your upbringing, but it is never too late to mature and change your thought processes.