Why am I a black girl and not white, hispanic or Asian?
Why did he create me into a life full of hate and obstacles?
Why can‘t I be as normal as other people (white people)?
Why am I undesired by others and even within my own community?
Why am I deprived of true love because of my appearance?
If you really love your children and have a reason for everything you do then tell me what is the reason why I‘m suffering more for my skin color than all other races and ethnicities?
Why do I even exist when I’m of low value and have nothing to offer to the world since I‘m a minority?
Why are you letting all this happening?
Why God, why? Couldn’t you just leave me be or create me in a way that would be easier for me? For everyone?
I am so sorry that you feel this way and I am so tired that there are people in this world that allow you to feel this way and that's so fucked up I fucking hate people like that you are a very beautiful girl I can feel just by the passion that you write in your words let me tell you something God created Five races he created us all equal we all every human being in this planet has 97% of the same DNA are common sense loving God added with the last 3% of the DNA our parents genes did we get our loving God also knowing that wherever we went on this planet wherever we decided to go this planet has harsh conditions extreme conditions in the last three percent of the DNA that he gave us he gave us the ability to adapt to adjust to our extreme conditions on this planet it's where our ancestors have come from their skin their bodies had to adapt for the harsh environments our living God gave it to us knowing and making it easier for us there's nothing wrong with black except for the fucking people in this world you cannot see the truth you are right there are people that hate I hate people that hate sometimes I have to catch myself because I feel just as evil because sometimes I pray to God that all Races all people that hate each other all have to go to hell because they're assholes because they've never been Loved Before They don't know how to love and they're all followers none of them know have to leave I prayed sometimes that anybody that does not help take away racism or anybody that keeps the bullshit going they all have to pay a price I hope our loving God has a plan I don't know but I know that he did not make us all to be haters are to be this way. I want you to listen to this right here this is the most important thing we were all given a gift in life and that is the word choice is more powerful than the word love each and every breath we take every step we make we make a choice and with that choice we get to choose who we want to be who we become is our choice. We choose who we want to be in this life by the things we say and do everybody has that same choice to be assholes are to be good people don't let anybody ever tell you you're a bad person you're not color does not make you bad the only thing that can make you bad is your choice and I want you to choose the right choice don't let anybody make you feel this way it's bullshit if you ever need to talk please send me a message please I feel bad for you you are a beautiful girl that's my choice my choice is it you get all that garbage out of your head and become the beautiful woman that you are supposed to be keep doing the right thing to make this planet better and yourself better field leader do not be a follower please if you need anything or if you need to talk just send me a message please
Why did he create me into a life full of hate and obstacles?
Some people are put into a place to be light in darkness, love in the face of hate. A guide for others through the difficult places.
Why can‘t I be as normal as other people (white people)?
Why would you want to throw away a part of who you are?
Why am I undesired by others and even within my own community?
Everyone asks that question at some point - often many points in our lives.
Why am I deprived of true love because of my appearance?
You aren't. You're depriving yourself of that love as you focus on your appearance, not your real self. The body you walk around in is nothing more than the "suit" you need to be able to function in this world.
If you really love your children and have a reason for everything you do then tell me what is the reason why I‘m suffering more for my skin color than all other races and ethnicities?
God can use terrible pain and tragedy to create real strength and beauty in us. It doesn't mean He orchestrates or creates those things, it just means He uses them.
Why do I even exist when I’m of low value and have nothing to offer to the world since I‘m a minority?
Jesus was a member of a minority race as an outpost occupied by the mightiest empire of the ancient world. As were the 12 disciples and St Paul. Their "minority" status still didn't stop them changing the whole world for the last 2100 years. It's a lie being whispered to you that you have nothing to offer. In fact, you probably have far more than many others precisely because of your starting place.
Why are you letting all this happening?
Why are you? You have a choice of what you want to do with your life. You can choose to become better or bitter. You have a choice to make regarding what you want to do. Life will pass. What you do with it is up to you.
Obstacles are like training wheels that make you stronger because it forces you to be extra good so that you can overcome the stigma people attach to you - know that while people try to diminish you, they are not able to steal your legacy because your legacy is spiritual and lasts forever. I’m Chinese and faced racism by black people at work, one black woman was extremely nice to everybody but talked about me like I was trash and I know all races that have faced discrimination, my uncle is Chinese and faced open and transparent discrimination at an American university when he tried to become a doctor and even my pastor would mock Muslims to their face during bible study. You are not alone on this and God will help you through it, regardless of what your religion is, focus on looking up and not down.
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People always say "be grateful" but I don't tell you to be grateful bc I also try to be grateful but I can't. I'm an Asian and I also had thought "why am I born to be an Asian not white?". I don't like to be an Asian bc sometimes others always mock our eyes cuz we have slanted eyes and they always make fun of us, called us Jackie Chan. But after that, I understand something that made us think something like this is society. If all human beings in this world have a kind attitude, we'll never gonna be insecure about ourselves. If human beings never discriminate by gender, religion, race, nothing is bad gonna happen, like bullying, humiliate, and war. God, Himself, tell all of us not to discriminate but still there's some people did that.
As a black guy, I have felt similar to that before. But, I was under somewhat false beliefs at the time. And I had impractical values. So, once I managed to form the beliefs I thought best-fit reality, I didn't feel this anymore. Now, I truly believe that life is unfair and regardless of what I think I deserve, life doesn't pay it's debts. So I am entitled to nothing. So long as I'm here, the best I can do is accept what I am and try to make the best of it. Otherwise, what's the point of being here?
You mean to say that you know better than the Father? That you suffer far more than others in this world? Why not put into perspective that there are homeless and mutilated children in India's slums who drag their legless bodies down the streets every day covered in filth and excrement, and even they, even they find some joy in their condition. There are Christian Chinese who suffer persecution and exclusion from society for their faith, they are forced to dwell underground to attend church and many are abducted to be tortured by the government for information. But they too find joy in their existence.
Or the Arab Christians who are imprisoned, tortured, whose family members are hunted down and murdered for their faith.
Or why not even the "rat catcher people" of Tibet and east Asia who are considered lower than dirt in the Caste system of Hinduism, who are reviled and live in tiny huts in the unforgiving wilderness and suffer oppression from multitudes of evil spirits. They have less than nothing. Yet when they hear of Christ and His message of salvation and how all are equally loved and cherished in His kingdom, they rejoice.
You speak of unfairness and almost as if God has cursed you, you have no idea whatsoever how blessed you are. You're taking out an insecurity on the Lord that He hasn't even meant for you to have, it's a lie you've accepted from Satan.
Gad had nothing to do with it, hun. That was your parents. There's no such thing as god. Most of what you wrote here is completely imagined!! You are no more worthless than anybody else!! The ONLY person stopping you is YOU!! STOP drinking the Kool-Aid!! It's REALLY screwing with your head!! And, to throw one of your own questions back at you, "Why are YOU letting all this happening?" Did you know that a BLACK man is in the process of inventing a time machine? Well, not inventing, we've already got one at Montauk, partly thanks to Tesla, but, he's creating one of his own design!! Do some research! Look around you! There's LOTS of stuff that was created by blacks!! Besides, skin colour doesn't make a diddly damn bit of difference!!! It's YOU that matters!!! STOP listening to CNN and those psychotic snowflake SJW's telling you all this BULLSHIT and do what YOU want to do with your life!!! In the words of Spock, someone else who was DIFFERENT, "Live long and prosper!".
I think people of color have many opportunities than white people do not have, especially in the USA. I might even go as far to say they have privilege. My ex girlfriend got a College scholarship just for being a person of color. Nice.
Still there seems to be a certain party that says you are slaves and such. Well, the truth is. Those people saying that are actually the ones holding you down. White Liberals. We went to war over them not being able to keep you as physical slaves. Now, since Civil Rights they’re doing their best to make you think Racism is still there, but from people like me, who support your freedom.
But it’s them that control the cities you live in, teacher unions in the public schools. I donate to the local community to send young kids of color to private schools. I think the state should too, but they always turn that down. I wonder why?
Charles Barkley sums it up quite well. We have politicians that are separating us on purpose to make money off everything and move forward with their own sinister agendas.
Many white people fought for people of color to be recognized as citizens. To be able to vote. I find them in fact to be some of the prettiest women on earth. I know the males generally on average kick our asses in sports and I’m ok with that.
Things could be worse. You could be Muslim in China and be a Slave in Concentration camps, so there’s that.
Be proud of who you are. Many people see you as equals.
oh for fucks sake, you americans are utter morons, I swear. I wish i could punch every single man using the term "people of color", so fucking idiotic beyond comprehension... Like skin color has anything at all with injustices in the world or with human psychology. To even assume that would require for you to be completely ignorant of entire human history outside of the tiny fraction called the USA in the last 400 years
I call them humans. Different groups of humans have different opportunities based on the culture the're in. It has absolutely nothing to do with a fucking skin colour. The fact that you accepted the term "person of colour" to separate them from "whites" makes me wish to drop a nuke on your entire continent.
Ich werde im September in Berlin sein für einen Marathon, in dem mein bester Freund läuft. Ich wette, Sie sind einer dieser Rassisten, die Schwarze hassen? Ich bin 6'7" 270 felon mit meist zwielichtigen Freunden. Seien Sie vorsichtig, was Sie Punk sagen. Seien Sie vorsichtig, weil einige Leute zurückschlagen.
I can see your where you’re coming from. How everyone is the same color because in Gods eye, we’re all the same. Yeah, well our politicians have done this to all of us. Divide & Conquer. We both have the same end goal. Equality. I just don’t like all the extra crap you’re bringing with your comments.
Firstly, I am not God, but I will try to answer your Qs. I did not create you. What do you mean like this?
Why do you want to be anyone but a black girl? Many find black girls attractive, including me.
Life is full of love, hate and obstacles. Why should yours be any different from anyone else's?
What da F is 'normal as other people (white people)'? 'White people' are some of The Most Fed up people I know!
Why are you 'undesired by others, even within your own community? I can't answer, because I am not omniscient.
Why are you deprived of true love because of my appearance'? I can't say. Are you disfigured or ugly?
I am not convinced that there is a God, nevermind him really loving his children! Your suffering more for your skin color is a fact that you must deal with like many others. Just as I deal with my suffering for my race and ethnicity.
Who says you're of 'low value and have nothing to offer to the world'? YOU make that decision; NO ONE else!
NO ONE promised you Life would be a rose garden, least of all God!
We are the summation of our genes and experiences. ALL of them: Good, Bad or Difficult!
You are not anymore special or deprived than anyone else. Stop feeling sorry for yourself! Take control and responsibility for yourself! There will ALWAYS be Greater and Lesser persons than YOU. OWN IT. BE YOURSELF! BE GREAT!
Oh so sry 4 all that. The only thing I've got to say is for u to: 1. Move on 2. Know that not everyone likes u n not everyone hates u 3. Know that U're special. If u weren't, u wouldn't have been created by God in the first place n he didn't make a mistake by doing so. HE DID THAT FOR A REASON. But u may not understand cos U're not God. 4. Be happy always no matter the circumstances. 5. Always remember to appreciate God for who he is. If u have any problem, don't forget to tell him.
Your race does not effect your value as a human being.
We all have hate and obstacles in our lives. What’s important is learning how to get past them.
There is no such thing as a “normal” person.
No one can fully understand God’s perfect plan, but I still believe. I do know that the kindest people are the ones that overcome more/harder obstacles life throws at them, and that we all have what it takes to get through them despite the difficulty and all people being imperfect.
I personally see our life hardships as tests of our faith used to strengthen us with success, and know God never gives us anything impossible for us to move through with faith.
Why are you feeling like this? Who told you that your low and who told you that you are hated and why do you think that no one loves you?
Personally i see you as any other human being, your not low at all and you can be loved and married at anytime and if we met, i'll treat you the same way i treat others!
All you have to be is a good girl cause what defines you is what you have inside and not because of how you look or what skin color you have!
God loves you but it's the people who are evil!
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Anonymous
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hey I feel like I can’t help you much since I’m depressed myself but I can say that God didn’t create us so we could be oppressed as black women but he did give humans free will and I feel like humanity has taken the construct that is race as well as so many other things and made it determine someone’s value/place in society and we can see that throughout history.. sorry if my writing isn’t coherent, but anyways all I can hope is that you will feel better and know your worth and know you are precious and I hope the same for myself since im not even there yet.
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God didn't create you imperfect, undesirable and a lowly person. Unfortunatley , he created a society, worldwide over, of imperfect people with freewill. In which a lot are full of hatred , prejudice , judgmental, and shallow minded. A society of people who won't accept those who aren't either beautiful, intelligent, wealthy or have some status in life. Society will never really change.
In order to thrive in life and be content and happy about who you are and what you look like, you have to have a certain mindset. But it needs to be instilled in a person from a young age.
One, white people aren't "normal people". Second, everyone's life is full of obstacles to varying degrees. Third, without hardship there's nothing.
Imagine being a sex slave in china and then think about "why not Asian, god?"
You are one of the most complex machines in creation, a human, you have quite a brain, think of something of value to offer, that's literally what we evolved for as social creatures.
Babbage and ada lovelace spent their whole life writing code and designing a machine they never really finished, but they made themselves useful through their pursuit because they did a lot with that they learned in the process. Even though turing had to pretty much go trough the same process because of their excessive ambition that rendered that aspect of their lives basically unknown and abandoned by society, their efforts were valuable in other areas.
Hold your head up, and put one foot in front of the other towards your goals. You are who you are. You are the only person who can change how you feel about yourself. My sister once told me, "Imagine who you want to be. Now go be that person." I wish you the best.
God loves you very much. Everyone else fails God's commandments, so they harm people, often black people.
But you need to realize real world crime statistics show black people in the U. S. hurt one another about 5 or 6 times more often than whites hurt blacks. Black on Black crime is the leading cause of murder in the U. S.
Nothing wrong with being black. I’m sorry you feel that way. As a white person, some of the most screwed up people I know are other white people. Every culture and ethnic group has it’s beauty in my opinion. I’m sorry if I don’t have the answers to all your questions, but I hope this helps at least a little bit.
Hey that sounds sad. It might be that helpful but everybody has a time where they feel useless. What makes you so sure that people of other ethnities have it so much better than you? Because there are prejudices about any other ethnicy, too. You´re not of low value to God you just don´t see your value because you look at what you don´t have while neglecting what you do have. Life is hard but it can have its good side´s too.
Sometimes the greatest weapon against intolerance, hatred, the culture of ignorance, is to allow yourself to be vulnerable. I think you have great courage young lady. i wish you nothing but happiness and peace.
If you feel challenged it is not just God it is Satan. God will never give you anything you can not handle. Plus if you look through put the Bible God chooses the outcasts. They are the people he works and helps grow throuigh tough times, because you will appreciate it more.
If you believe your soul has been placed exactly where it needs to be in order to learn the most it can, then there's your answer. Questioning the motives of the Almighty, presuming you believe in one, is a daunting task at best. Trust that you are never given more than you can handle.
God created you as a beautiful black woman. God did not create the racists or their messed up ideas of beauty or of whatever else their warped minds come up with; racism is a man made problem. Knowing the difference between what He created and what man made also is a gift from God.
First, stop relying on a non existent being to change your life. Second, you’re uttering labels that shouldn’t matter in life. Sorry they do. I wish being black wasn’t an automatic set back. And you’ll have to work harder than white people to prove yourself.
I truly feel sorry for you. There's a reason why black women are the most emulated women on earth. There's a reason why uplifting black women gets you hate. There's a reason why black features are considered attractive. If black women really were the scum of the earth, there would be no need to try and convince the world to hate them. Simple as that.
God created you perfectly. You have obstacles so you will be stronger once you get over them. You are undesired so you'll understand that you first need to love yourself. Then everyone will love you too. You need to understand that you can overcome everything.. and be anything you want to be.
And on a personal note black women are very attractive.
God has created everyone beautiful. but people are bad. God has given people intelligence and will. but people misuse it. The last speech of the Islamic prophet Muhammad is as follows. "The Arab has no superiority over the non-Arab. The black has no superiority over the white. The superiority is in piety
Color is just a color, it's all about people being sick about it and putting some upon others and making it seem something so special. It's not God who made you less value than the others, it's the society, it's people.
You shouldn't be struggling for such things because your a human being like anyone else... Leave the people who makes it hard on you and be with the people who makes you smile and loves you for the way you are...
Some people are just animals, instead of judging you for what you have inside, they'll judge you over such stupid things like skin color...
Sorry to hear about your struggles. I'm sure though they are mere coincidences. GOD doesn't hate you in any way and he is not responsible for your misfortune. Hope life gets better for you soon
No one is perfect everyone has issues I have tons of them and I'm Mexican I've seen lots of pretty black girls. At least your not missing parts, or have disabilities hopefully. cheer your self up when you're down
If you want real answers, look within yourself. Don't waste time on religious dogma that will never answer in the first place. Only you can make yourself better, no one else. But you have to have the desire and the will to change.
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Anonymous
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The problem isn't you being black, it is your self-esteem issue. I am a very white-passing girl and as soon as people understand I am originally from the middle east they act turned off. So other races aren't always desired either tbh.
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Anonymous
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God doesn't exist and if he does he's Odin, God of white people!!!
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