Am I being blocked on Kik or just ignored?

[Anonymous]

I sent a friend a message on Kik. It first showed S for about 20 mins and then finally D. It still shows D.
If you're blocked does it go straight to D or does it show S for a bit too? I just want to know what is going on?

[dogbert777]

Happens a lot when girls get tired of you or just don't want to know. I have several now that just disappeared on me. I give it a couple of months, then shrug my shoulders and delete the conversation and her username. keels my phone tidy, too!!

[Asker]

Nah, we are not dating. She's just a mate but we had a fall out on Friday and she's ignored my messages since then. I don't know if I am blocked or she's just ignoring me. I only wanted to talk to someone about my granddad being ill but she's not responded.

[dogbert777]

Might be she's just having a busy weekend. I sometimes go away with my family and forget my phone charger. Done that twice this year already.

[Asker]

I think it's probably a mixture of business plus her being annoyed with me. Oh well, at least I'm not blocked I think.

[Asker]

family* business

[dogbert777]

Give it a few more days at least. Any other way of contacting her? I guess the answer will be no.

[Asker]

Well there's Skype and I can text her but on the latter she may have sent me onto spam. In the past when she's had a strop she's only blocked me for a day or two so hopefully it won't last too long. If it continues though then fuck her, not worth it as I'm sick of her tantrums over nothing at all.

[dogbert777]

There is a bit of advice someone told my parents years ago. When you are courting, never part company without making up after you've had a row. If you are married, then never go to bed without making up. Things will only be worse by the morning if you don't!!

Hope it all works out!!

[Asker]

But I am not courting, just to clarify. We are just mates. This thing happened Friday , tried making things up today but was completely ignored. I do not understand her, I didn't even do anything wrong at all!

[dogbert777]

Should have tried Friday night!! Doesn't matter if you are just ships passing in the night, never part on a sour note. If it doesn't work, then as you say, fuck her and move on.

[Asker]

I would have done but I was too mad and she didn't come out in the end so I had no chance to speak to her. I think I will, I can't be dealing with her drama. Despite the fun times we have had she also makes me feel like shit and my friends shouldn't be dragging me down.

[dogbert777]

Thanks for MHO!! I hope this has been sorted one way or another!!

[Asker]

Unfortunately we're still not talking :( Some days I really miss her, others I just feel angry and I don't want to talk to her again.

[dogbert777]

It will take time, but it will get better. I promise!

[Asker]

Thanks :) I hope so too

[AmandaLynn1930]

the S means it's sending that it hasn't been delivered yet. i dont think you're blocked..

[Asker]

Ah, well it has delivered now but hasn't been opened in 6 hours which is unusual for her. I hope I am not blocked.

[AmandaLynn1930]

maybe she's just not using it right now :)

[Lissy967]

If it turned to D it means "delivered" which means that he has an internet connection

[KDA20]

Could be a internet connection problem

[I_am_repulsive]

You're not being blocked dude

[Asker]

Christ, she must just be really cold then as I was only wanting to talk to someone about my granddad being ill. Oh well...

[Blue_Brady]

She's ignoring you or she hasn't seen it.