My uncle makes me uncomfortable?

[Candy12345]

I don't know why but he just does.

He keeps telling me that I've gotten very skinny and very pretty. Every time he sees me he says something like I've gotten really nice looking. He keeps saying other stuff too. He says I look just like my grandma and my aunts. He keeps saying stuff like that everyday!

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He also told me he thinks I look like some celeberity. WTF!!! And he stares at me all the time.

[thetundrawolf]

When I was working with 240 pound wolves who could kill me before I knew what was happening, I learned to trust my instincts.

YOUR instincts, as a woman, are razor sharp, and they ARE alerting you to something.

IF you confront him, in a serious, in your face sort of way, he will back down and be ashamed.

He is probably entertaining something in his heart and soul, even if in passing, that is not appropriate.

And you know it.

Never stop listening to your instincts- even with strangers. Especially with people you may potentially love.

As dousing as those feelings are, they are never wrong. That guy who only likes you for your body, but man is he HOT, well guess what... he does only like your body. He couldn't care less about your heart.

So stay in tune with your gut instincts.

And don't be alone with this guy.

[Candy12345]

He's also married and has three kids. Yeah, I'm never alone with him

[thetundrawolf]

"You are making me uncomfortable right now. Stop it." Do not mess around. Be strong. Be firm. If there is any weakness, any less disgust in your voice, he will sense it.

He will back off.

[Candy12345]

Okay... I'll try to say that... Or something similar.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

just relax, tell your parents and let them sort it out. This is the reason we have parents... for support.. they will know what to do and talk to your uncle and let him know it is not ok. then you can feel safe.

[Eliora1]

Ugh I hate it when old guys say stuff like that. Doesn't matter if they're family or not. It just bugs me...

[Candy12345]

I know, it makes me want to slap them in the face

[Eliora1]

Yeah. I also hate it when male teachers get too close to me lol

[Candy12345]

Yeah... That is really creepy

[Anonymous]

It doesn't sound creepy. I have family member who do worse things. Just tell him how you feel.

[Candy12345]

I don't want to talk to him though. If your family members do worse things then maybe you need to be careful.

[Opinion Owner]

You're over reacting.

[Candy12345]

No I am not

[Opinion Owner]

I understand being uncomfortable. I've been uncomfortable around my family members and they did the same as you. But I never over react. I'd hate to see how you'd act if you were in my position. Just calm down. You probably don't like going around him , I understand that as well.

[Netflix]

O. O Always carry some pepper spray. NEVER be alone with him. That is beyond creepy

[Candy12345]

I know that it is beyond creepy

[Anonymous]

That's really creepy and you should tell a family member you trust about this. He needs to stop.

[Candy12345]

I know it's creepy

[YazanAA]

Considering that you are the one who asks this question and considering that you always imagine things and finally considering that you are always overthinking into things in your questions, I would assume that your uncle's Intention is not creepy.

[Candy12345]

You don't know my life! And Since when do I imagine things?

[YazanAA]

Always.

[Candy12345]

No? Explain

[YazanAA]

I already explained before, didn't I?

[Candy12345]

No you didnt! Stop being so rude to everyone all the time. I'm not in the mood

And I'm not going to tolerate this any longer

[YazanAA]

Rude to everyone all the time? LOL that's wrong.

Anyway why so mad? You asked a question and I told you what I think, based on your previous questions, I have noticed that you overthink into things, so I just told you what I really think about that so I'm not sure why you are mad, do you want me to lie to you? Ok you are not overthinking and your uncle is a creep. Peace.

[Candy12345]

No. I'm right because I've seen the way you act towards people on some questions of mine. I don't want you to lie to me obviously. I'm mad because you're so rude. Usually I just take it as a joke but you're not going to get far in your life acting towards people like that.

[Candy12345]

You could've worded what you said in a nicer way. Like I could tell you that you're annoying. Or i could tell you that you're annoying occasionally.

Which would you prefer to hear? Exactly.

[YazanAA]

Well actually, in this particular question, I'm not sure where I'm rude with you, if you consider someone telling you that you overthink into things rude, then oh well there's no hope here.

And about your previous question, well actually that girl @leelfc was insulting me out of the blue for no reason in a question of her that she asked anonymously about a haircut, she doesn't like me because I don't support homosexuality so she took the chance that she is anonymous and started to insult me, of course I will respond, being rude wasn't my first purpose but she went too far in a question that has nothing to do with homosexuality.

And finally, I'm sorry but you are not in a position to tell me where/how I'm gonna get in my life. :)

[Candy12345]

Are you stupid? Telling people they imagine things is rude. I don't imagine things at all to be honest. And you did it again, you said "there's no hope there." Hope for what? Hope for me? I know that's exactly what you're implying. I'm
Not stupid okay.

I'm not telling you where you're getting I'm just telling you that if you keep this up not many people will like you. Don't ever talk to me again. Fxck off.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

Just be a man and understand the situation already. I've already seen you mouth off on one of my posts, so I can't take what you are saying seriously. @YazanAA
She's 15 and she has the right to feel threatened and protect herself. Even if you feel like she is making stuff up in all her other posts you have to take it with a grain of salt. Most rapes and sexual misconduct happen from close members who know the child. Forrest for the tree's dude.

[zack6x]

dont let him do something bad to you...