Girls, how weirded out do you feel about pectus excavatum?

[JustSdb]

I have a deformity called pectus excavatum, if you met a guy that has this how much of a turn off would this be for you? I've always been rather skinny even though I eat twice the amount of what others eat, so it's already very easy to see my ribs. other than that I am fairly muscular ( I have a slightly less indented version of it compared to the picture). how would you react if a guy you liked reveals that he has this?

Stay away from me !

I don't mind.

[Anonymous]

I wouldn't let it deter me from getting to know a guy at all, and if we dig each other, then proceed further.

In a relationship, I'd probably want to know ALL the facts about it, like special needs you have, medical problems, what I need to know if you have an emergency. That would be about it.

Of course, I would probably talk you into letting me make it look like a giant axe wound on Halloween. Or like, a construction site with little construction trucks. Alien head popping out?

I'm sick that way.

Sorry.

I hope that made you laugh.

[JustSdb]

a lot of people have said "omg you are iron man, you can put the thing in his chest there !" and yeh I can laugh about it 😂

[JustSdb]

never thought about an alien head there though.

[Goldberry12]

That wouldn't make any difference to me, especially if I already knew that I liked him as a person!

[JustSdb]

great to hear that :)

[BrittBratt2416]

If we click and I really like him then it wouldn't bother me

[JustSdb]

thanks for the comment I appreciate it :)

[GeorgeT6]

Add another vote to the poll that says "Maybe"

[JustSdb]

well, people can comment ;)

[Carley99]

No problem as long as it can't kill you leaving me heart broken I'm ohk with it as long as you have a nice face

[JustSdb]

thanks for the honest response :p

[Carley99]

Your welcome

[_lauren_]

I went to high school with a guy that had that. I don't think it's a big deal, in fact, I find it very interesting. I'd ask to touch it, all the time.

[JustSdb]

It seems that there are a surprisingly large number of girls that dont mind it or want to mess with it... I like it :p

[_lauren_]

that's good to hear, something like this is no big deal.

[iguesskaitlan]

You'd have to deal with me messing with it all the time lol

[JustSdb]

haha , appreciate the comment :). and I wouldn't mind if my girlfriend would be messing with it.

[iguesskaitlan]

It would be from running my hand over it while cuddling to seeing what can fit in there. I'm sorry I'm immature lol

[JustSdb]

thats not immature in my opinion, that would be making the best out of the situation = joking and being playfull about it. as long as people dont continuesly make fun of it i'd be ok with that kinda stuff.

[iguesskaitlan]

Thank you! Some people see it as immaturity, where it's actually making light of a bad situation-- not that it's bad, that's just the saying. lol

[Melina1982]

If that is you in the picture, I find you very handsome.

[JustSdb]

Well.. that escalated quickly, but in all seriousness I appreciate it a lot.

[LittleSally]

It's fine...
As long as you're okay and it doesn't effect your health - it doesn't matter.

[JustSdb]

well, it does affect health depending on the indentation.

[LittleSally]

Then it's not good for YOU...

[Monva]

I wouldn't mind it at all, but I would want to know about it before I see him shirtless for the first time.

[JustSdb]

makes sense, it kind makes my abs look bigger though so thats a plus at least.

[Luana83]

It wouldn't weird me out. attitude and personality is far more important than physically.

[JustSdb]

thanks for the mature comment :) I appreciate it !

[Whaaaaa]

No I don't care. My attitude would be a bigger problem.

[JustSdb]

Ok, appreciate the comment :)

[deraz24]

If I liked him enough it wouldn't matter

[JustSdb]

surprised by the amount of people who aren't bothered by it. thanks for letting me know.

[deraz24]

Your welcome, like I said if a girl has all those feelings there for you that won't hinder it she might have questions but you know

[JustSdb]

I told the girl I am dating ( first girl I might get into a relationship with ) about it thanks to everyones positive response. and she said she thinks im a great guy, she likes me a lot and that she is not bothered by it. 😃😃

[deraz24]

Aww yay thats good

[HappyBby]

So long as you're healthy there's no problem.

[JustSdb]

I appreciate the comment :D

[HappyBby]

😊🌸🦄

[BaileyisDarcy]

Looks like the perfect pillow to me...

[JustSdb]

you have a strange taste in pillows, but I guess that could work.

[sangwoo]

I've seen pictures. honestly looks pretty cool.

[JustSdb]

lol, I've learned to live with it and think its cool that im different because of it.. but the physical implications suck though.. you can see how my organs are feeling on that picture

[sangwoo]

oh yeah, that must suck. if the organ part bothers you, i do believe you can get surgery to fix it. my brothers friend ended up getting a metal bar in his chest to fix it.

[JustSdb]

well, I'm dealing with it by just exercising a lot. it was suggested by a couple of doctors I visited. it helps but its a slower solution and it doesn't really get rid of the problem entirely it just makes it easier to live with. I don't mind how it looks so I'm just gonna live with it. it's been a great motivation to keep myself in good shape.

[jpick00]

To be honest It would be a turn off.

[JustSdb]

I appreciate your honest opinion :).

[Anonymous]

not that bad

[JustSdb]

but not that great either :p? I understand what you mean. thanks for taking the time to comment.

[valrealdeal]

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