+1 yAs you wrote to another user
"How come on every poll i see on here asking people if they're dominant or submissive most women choose submissive?"
^^ Because those women are using boy definitions. Esp when it comes to SEXUAL "submission".
"Dominance" that is EXPLICIT and PHYSICAL — like giving orders, physically shoving/restraining/controlling the person, etc — is an inherently male thing, because of obvious imbalances (on average) between men and women.
Note the quotes around "dominance" — because a reasonable amount of this sort of physical force ISN'T actually dominance. It's just... a boy being a a boy, because a boy isn't a fucking girl.
Of course, it actually helps BOTH sides — by feeding/fueling fantasies on both sides — to **pretend** that it's actual "dominance". But, yh nh.
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ANALOGY:
Say you're a foot taller than yr woman.
• If you insisted that you each use 50% of EVERY shelf in yr apartment — even the ones she can't reach without a step stool — well, that would get fucking old really fast, wouldn't it.
• You'd take all the highest shelves for yrself, right?
... Right.
Would this be an act of "dominance"?
Uh... hardly. It'd just be **reasonable conduct**, in line with the physical reality of yr height difference.
The physical dimorphism that's so often wrongly credited as "dominance" — hairpulling smacking shoving holdingdown slamming bla bla bla bla — is just a boy **realizing that he's a fucking boy**, and deciding to actually fuck like one.
It's NORMAL.
It's... the absence of self-castration, basically. There's nothing particularly "dominant" AT ALL about the USUAL degree of physical compulsion that both men and women typically fantasize about. It's just like the tall guy taking the top shelves.
But... As I said... this is one of those times when pervasive self-delusion is A Good Thing™ — at least if BOTH people are giving the SAME kind of credit-where-credit-ain't-due.
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As for "female dominance" —
TRUE female dominance is NOT explicit, and it's NOT primarily (or even significantly) physical.
Nope.
True female dominance subverts. It percolates. It **replaces**. It transforms a proudly independent, keep-his-options-open boy into one who **WANTS** COMMITMENT.
Real female dominance makes boys fall in sweet, hard, desperate, addictive, senseless LOVE. Over and over and fucking over again. Makes them put themselves second. Or even third, after both "her" and "we".
THAT, friend, is a Dominant Woman.
None of this12 Reply- +1 y
latex-wearing, whip-wielding, command-barking, utterly fucking ridiculous "femdom" bullshit.
"Femdom" is just a convenient disguise for "the woman does all the work — including knowing/anticipating the boy's impossibly specific kinks — while the boy just kicks back and gets pleasured".
... and thanks to porn, [some version of] THAT is the image that women tend to have in mind when they're asked about being [sexually] "dominant".
Let's all be Shocked! together, that the response is less than overwhelmingly enthusiastic.
REAL female dominance and REAL male dominance aren't even on opposing sides, dude. They're hand and glove.
A truly dominant man is exceptional enough to make his woman WANT to submit TO HIM, while she'd shit on the idea of "submitting" to any OTHER man. (The submission of a woman who's "generally submissive to men" is worth nothing at all — basically, it just means you're the dude who happens to be in front of her at the time... and good luck with.) - +1 y
her tendency to "be generally submissive to [OTHER] men" when you're not around ahah.)
And in exchange, a truly dominant woman causes all of that man's energy to be focused on HER. And **only** on her.
Tbh, listening to most people talk about "dominance" and "submission" is a LOT like watching my 6-year-old and his classmates playing in a sandbox. It's the Dunning-Kruger effect at its finest, dude.
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+1 ySexually, maybe, but in this day in age less women are the "follow his lead" type of girls primarily due to social changes. I might be more on the submissive side sexually, but my man doesn't lead everything in our relationship. I don't do well being told what to do or how to behave, so people don't try that stuff with me anymore. He knows when to take over, and I do too.
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+1 ySexually yes, because they want to feel pretty and wanted..
In everyday life, not exactly because that will give her nothing..41 Reply- +1 y
Me..
+1 yOh please I refuse to push myself down to that level we at all
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Anonymous(25-29)+1 ySpank her. If you pander to her by treating her like a queen she will think you are weak. Submission is a woman's natural state and woman are happiest when submitting to the will of their husband or father. But often you must enforce your will upon her to submit. The rise in feminism has left a lot of women unhappy in life and 1 out of 4 women are on anti depressants.
Sometimes it's necessary when my wife isn't acting right, refusing to keep the house cleaning and have a meal prepared for when I come home from work. I tried to discuss her disrespectful behavior but she flew into a rage and attacked me so I grabbed her and put her across my knee hitched up her skirt pulled down her panties and with the palm of my hand spanked her bottom as hard as I could for 10 minutes. Her ass was red raw and she couldn’t sit down for a week. She ran home to her parents who were discusted by her behaviour and her father threatened to take his belt to her. After a week she realised how wrong she had been andrawn apologised, we had amazing make up sex. Ever since she's been as good as gold putting maximum effort into our marriage and is now pregnant. It was all just a classic shit test to test my limits and of course if I hadn't disciplined her she would not respect me. She is happier now sumitting to my will and being the good helper the lord intended20 Reply
rawr xd
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+1 yto all you women who disagree with the statment that women naturally are submissive... think about the last date you went on. or the last time a guy you liked had to make the first move. chances are you want the guy to take charge and be the leader lol... that is literally what it means to be submissive lol. a lot of women want the man to be in control, you women are not meant to be submissive but you sure like putting yourself in the position... remember that the next time you answer you boy friends question about where you want to eat tonight? with " I don't care you decide"
50 Reply707 opinions shared on Other topic. Actually most women tend to avoid direct confrontation. We sometimes mistaken that avoidance as submission. Until we get stabbed in the back and die like idiots or somehow make it out alive and oblivious.
The ones who made it out alive would rave about his conquests and dominance. The ones who didn't... well they can't talk about it away ways.10 Reply- 16.2K opinions shared on Other topic.
+1 y No way, at least where I come from and the women I know. This question is making an assumption, it's answering the question in the affirmative the way it's being presented. Give women more credit than that Christ.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 ydont know but i think some play submissive but can actually end up taking the lead and be pretty demanding ie they have this view of how they want things and things seem nice till that gets chalanged
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Opinion Owner+1 ywait what happened
can i have MOH please?
Opinion Owner+1 ydam next time mabey
+1 yNah. Not even close. We never like being what to do lol
20 ReplyNaturally, yes. But humans are also naturally murderes. So there's no point on grasping to our nature.
10 ReplyWhere I'm from woman will threaten to kill men, beat them and scream at them
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Sounds like a good place to avoid.
Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yNo, there are lots of dominant and switch women too.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yYes. She isn't a woman if she doesn't submit to her man.
20 Replywho knows? I just know I'm not.
30 Replysexually, sure some are. everyday life? Get out.
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+1 yFalse, but you wish.
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Maybe they like you... Lol.
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"How come on every poll i see on here asking people if they're dominant or submissive most women choose submissive?"
^^ This inspired me to write an opinion (of typical length and wordiness ahah)
Anonymous(30-35)+1 yTotally false, I'm always dominant.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yGenerally speaking yes we are.
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+1 yThen feminists aren't women.
LOL.10 Reply - 5.6K opinions shared on Other topic.
+1 yFalse, all women are naturally submissive to men
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Maybe in the Middle East
10 ReplyALL women are naturally submissive to men.
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+1 yFALSE.
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+1 yNot always every 1 is diffrent
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yTrue 😉
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+1 yTrue af fam
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+1 yMajority of them yes
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yExcept for feminist
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