Why do some girls not understand that being loud mouth, confrontational, argumentative, rude, violent or hood, does NOT equal being a strong woman?

It always seems like the meanest girls always use the "you just can handle a strong woman" First of all no guy should or feel like he has to HANDLE you. So going up to your boyfriend, putting your hand in his face, getting in his face, cursing him out and or trying to fight him. Does not make you strong. It makes you stupid, cause when he decides to slap your ass than you won't be acting strong no more. You gone be playing victim. Than go about asking "where are all the good men?" you cursed them all out of existence.
Why do some girls not understand that being loud mouth, confrontational, argumentative, rude, violent or hood, does NOT equal being a strong woman?
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