Girls, if you sunbathe topless or nude at a nude beach, have you ever experienced the typical guy that catches peeks? To what extent do you tolerate?

[Anythingforher]

I was on the beach with some friends. Both girls and guys. Only two guys though. Anyway, the point with this is that even if it was a beach where it's allowed to be nude and/or topless, I have experienced the typical unwanted "extra" attention for the first time. Me and my girlfriends were just talking, sitting down in a circle on the beach. And we could notice this guy looking towards us once in a while. At first we were like: oh well, okay, fair. He got to see our boobs, ok. After what was like a half an hour we see how he keeps looking at our chests, each time with less subtlety. In the end my friends and I put our top on again. Have you experienced this? How do you deal with it?

I didn't know what category this would fit in. So I put it in "other"

[sanguinnia]

Think guys have to stare its in their nature lol , if it gets creepy its another story

[Anythingforher]

Yeah it was a little creepy... Like frightening almost

[sanguinnia]

Thats way out of line , some guys are just that thirsty i guess

[Anythingforher]

I thought so too... Can we pm maybe?

[QueenofCups]

Yes!! This is why I don't go to nude beaches anymore.

[Anythingforher]

Anymore? You used to get a lot of looks?

[QueenofCups]

Only twice, and only once all the way nude. And more than looks. Whistles, catcalls, you name it.

[Anythingforher]

That is absolutely terrible! Jesus Christ...

[laurieluvsit]

I have been going to clothing optional beaches and resorts all my life. Girls will look just as quickly as the boys, but it's the boys that tend to stare. Actually, it's built into their DNA and has to do with the build in instinct to procreate. I asked a similar question a while back. Great question Ms AFH! Girls, how does it make you feel when guys stare at your boobs? Guys, why do you stare at girls boobs? ↗

[jessica14454]

that's a great anwser

[Anonymous]

Par for the course. Happens on just about every public naturist beach I have been on. Spot the really long telephoto lens! LOL! I am sure there must be photos of me, and my family, in someone's collection!

Want privacy? Join a naturist club. All like minded people!

[Anythingforher]

Lol! That sounds so scary, put in the way you did! :O you're probably right. But I guess that I in this case would have to have very attractive assets, attractive enough to be camera worthy 😂

I've considered that. There are a few in Spain. However I don't know, it a whole culture, which is fine, but I don't know to what extent I'm willing to integrate into that culture, if that makes sense... Have you joined one?

[Opinion Owner]

Our naturism started with my maternal grandparents in Australia. My mum was one from birth. Back in UK, my dad became one when he married my mum. So my brother and I were also born into it. We have family membership of two clubs, in different parts of UK, well away from home!

We missed out, a couple of weeks ago, on visiting the naturist beach in Brighton, Sussex, as it was just too darned cold! :-(

[Anythingforher]

That sounds so cool! I wish my parents had the courage to do that too. My parents are like hippies almost and my family, nuclear family at least, are very liberal when it comes to sex and nudity. But my parents never joined one even if they have like 5 just in the same region of Spain 😂
It's cold in July? :O

[Opinion Owner]

It was a rotten holiday. At home, it was in the high 20's Celsius. Where we were, it was about 18-19, cloudy and with a howling onshore gale. LOL!

[Anythingforher]

Damn! I'm so sorry to hear that girl! You seem really nice, I've been wondering for some time if you wanted to pm but it's okay if it's not your thing :)

[Opinion Owner]

Sure. Give me a follow request!

[NicolaJ35]

It's just one of those things you're going to get if you're topless/nude.

I've experienced this too and as you say, some stares are less than subtle. It can get too much when some guys keep doing it too.

[Anythingforher]

Exactly! I mean if I get a look and it's just like "passing by" I don't really mind because hey, it's only normal. But it's when the look lingers. Do you sunbathe nude or topless often?

[NicolaJ35]

When people glance over it's kind of nice to get the attention but when the lingering starts it's a call to cover up.

Yes I sunbathe topless whenever I can because I like the freedom and also there are no strap marks! :)

[Anythingforher]

Exactly! Also, the weird thing is that he seemed to look more at my tits than my other two friends'...

[NicolaJ35]

He will have been looking at the other girls but you must have grabbed his attention a bit more.

Guess it could be kind of a compliment.

[NicolaJ35]

But of course, these guys as usual seem to have an obsession with bare tits!

[Anythingforher]

I get their fascination with tits though, don't get me wrong. I'm bi myself lol

[NicolaJ35]

I definitely get the fascination with tits too, i'm gay lol :)

[Anythingforher]

Yay! Something in common! Lol. I personally like tits more than booty but booty can also be insane!

[NicolaJ35]

More boobs than booty tbh. Yay, we have something in common hehe :)

[Anythingforher]

We could pm if you wanted :)

[NicolaJ35]

Yeah sure :)

[EmmaMary]

If you're daring enough to go for this, then you will have to expect and accept the attention you generate.

[Anythingforher]

Yeah I did consider that. You have a very good, important point. But I think that on the guys' behalf there's also something to be said. I don't know exactly what, if it's manners, self-control, or what but I just thought the possibility could be considered too. Thank you for your opinion by the way. :)

[Paige90]

I go to nude beaches and resorts every weekend and I think guys stare a lot more at clothed beaches and swimming pools than at nude. Bikinis are made to enhance a girl's body (push up bras, thongs, very small bottoms) so that people look and wonder what a girl looks like under her bikini or clothes. When everyone is nude everyone looks the same and there's no wondering.

[Arctic_Fox]

Yeah, the guy should have been more respectful - you weren’t there to be gawked at. But alternately, you’re topless so it’s expected that you’ll get looked at.

[Anythingforher]

Oh yeah as @EmmaMary mentioned, I completely agree that I'm bound to get some attention, and I completely understand that. However, I think there's a golden middle. Thank you for the opinion

[Anonymous]

I have never done this. I don’t think I’d like the attention. But if you go nude or topless you will probably attract male leers or worse.

[Anythingforher]

Yes. I understand that I will always get attention but I think there's a balance too.

[Kelly6]

No one looks at others as strange at nude beach.
I go there.

[JessicaEarl]

This is the big blind spot in the free the nipple argument. Unwanted consequences

[Anonymous]

hahaha The sun ages and wrinkles you. I can do better than that.