My brother is wearing my old prom dresses?

[Anonymous]

I came home from work yesterday to find my brother wearing an old prom dress of mine. I don’t know what to do

[ZambieMouse]

I mean as long as he didn't rip them up, who cares? Don't do anything. It's not a big deal.

[Asker]

He ruined it by doing something else In it

[ZambieMouse]

What did he do?

[Asker]

He jerked off in it

[ZambieMouse]

Do you have proof? Did you see him doing it, or is there residue on the dresses?

[Asker]

There is a lot of residue and I looked through my other clothes and there is residue on other things

[ZambieMouse]

Then wash your clothes and ask him nicely not to get his cum on your things. End of conversation. Maybe offer to take him shopping for some things of his own that he can come all over and not worry about it.

[Asker]

I’m giving those things to him I don’t ever want to touch them again

[ZambieMouse]

That's up to you. I mean a little vinager in the washing mahine would sterilize them, but whatever. It's really not that big of a deal, but if it makes you uncomfortable that's your choice.

[Asker]

I suppose that’s true but he can wear those dresses in his room

[EmmaMary]

And how old is your brother?

[Asker]

He’s 15. I have a lot of prom dresses and dresses like that. I’m a very girly girl.

[EmmaMary]

Hmmm, might be an idea to keep an eye on your underwear as well, but let's hope it's just a fad he is going through.

[Asker]

That’s what I am hoping for. Our parents are almost always gone on business so I’m left in charge. I don't know if he’s wearing my panties I caught him the dress and told him to take it off and he wasn’t wearing any with the dress ( he took it off without me watching obviously)

[EmmaMary]

What was his reaction and reasons when you caught him wearing your dress?

[Asker]

He said that he was sorry and he put his head down and begged me not to tell our parents and I agreed as long as he took the dress off. I also couldn’t help but notice a bump in the front of my dress.

[EmmaMary]

"A Bump"? Would that have been caused by what I think it was?

[Asker]

I would have to say so. I had no desire for him to tale of the dress in front of me as I don’t want to see his you know what. It was a short ruffled style prom dress so maybe I’m wrong but I think it was an erection

[EmmaMary]

Obviously it was in the right position in the dress for it to be one.

[Asker]

Yes he fit the dress quite well. He’s very petite for a boy. I’m worried that he is sexually attracted to dresses

[EmmaMary]

Or worse still an early crossdresser.

[Asker]

He’s at school right now and I don’t want to betray his privacy but part of me wants to go through his computer

[EmmaMary]

I certainly wouldn't do that, all I would try and do is perhaps talk to him about this, and just keep an eye on your clothing in general.

[Asker]

Okay when he gets home I’ll talk to him about it. I’ve been scanning through my clothes and a lot are in disarray

[EmmaMary]

What about underwear, bras, panties etc?

[Asker]

Leggings, and my satin and silky underwear are not where they should be. I’m a freshman in college and have been busy so I haven’t really noticed until you suggested I look at my clothes

[EmmaMary]

Talk to him is all you can really do at the moment, obviously listen to what he has to say, but make it very clear indeed exactly where the boundaries are.

[Asker]

You are absolutely right. If he wants to wear legging panties and prom dresses he will have to buy his own

[EmmaMary]

Should that be the case and just forward thinking, would you be prepared to help him with the shopping?

[Asker]

If he told me wants to wear prom dresses I will take him to get fitted for some. If he wants to wear panties I will take him to Victoria’s Secret. He’s my brother and I love him but he also shouldn’t be wearing my panties.

[EmmaMary]

Well let's hope, pray and keep fingers crossed that it doesn't come to this.
Good luck with the talk though.

[Asker]

Thank you so much Emma but I think it will I’ve been researching this now.

[EmmaMary]

Sorry, researching what?

[Asker]

Well after this happened I started to google what my brother was doing. I decided to post on here to talk to others about it I just don’t want to talk to anyone I know about it

[EmmaMary]

Well I think that's very brave and thoughtful of you, I just hope that perhaps in some small way I might have been of some minor help to you.

[Asker]

Yeah have been and I can’t thank you enough. I just found more evidence that we were right a different prom dress has a stain

[EmmaMary]

A "stain" same place as the "bump"?
Is it only prom dresses that he's wearing, have you checked any of your other dresses, even skirts perhaps?

[Asker]

I’m a really girly girl I have so many prom dresses I don't know I just like to wear them from time time. Yeah there on a lot of them! I’m going to check my other skirts and dresses!

[Asker]

I’m going to feel bad afterward but I’m going to check his computer. He went overboard

[EmmaMary]

And not forgetting your underwear. We all know sadly just how easy it is hide a bra and panties.

[Asker]

My prom dresses and multiple pairs of leggings are stained and OMG his computer

[Asker]

Oh Emma...

[EmmaMary]

Then you need to leave all this out on your bed, and in a controlled and gentle manner talk this through with your brother.
If all else fails then you really do have no option other than to at least get your mother involved.

[Asker]

Your right I’m taking all the stained clothes and putting them on the kitchen table for when he gets home and we will have a talk. On his computer he has tons of pictures of prom dresses, wedding dresses and pictures of women wearing various outfits

[EmmaMary]

OMG. I do wish you all the luck in the world in dealing with this.
Perhaps you would like to follow me, and maybe just keep me posted with the outcome.

[Asker]

OMG Yes Emma! I really need someone.

[EmmaMary]

In that case I'm waiting. x

[Asker]

I’m following you now!

[Asker]

I’ll keep you posted and tell you everything!

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHG.

[PondyPand]

Well, i'd worry more for the fact that your question indicates you've had more than one prom and more than one prom dress?
You ignore it and get on with life. You don't exactly wear your prom dress now do you? XD

[Asker]

I’m a fan of fashion and have many and sometimes I wear them in my room

[Asker]

I know most girls don’t wear prom dresses in there room but I like too sometimes

[TrixiePooch]

Donate them to one of those clothes closets for girls who can't afford a prom dress so they sit at home. I think that would be commendable. Donate your brother too as a model for them.

[ragequeen]

He just tried on your dress. It`s not a big deal. Maybe he is curious.

[Alexa_smitt_]

Ask him why, was he just messing around or does he actually like wearing female clothes. Then work from there

[Asker]

I found out that he loves it apparently

[douride2]

Sounds like your brother is a cross dresser.

[Asker]

After talking to Emma and researching the topic I think he is too

[Pink2000]

How old is he

[Asker]

He is 15.

[Anonymous]

Trans-trender, much?

[snuffles]

Cross dresser?