How long would you wait for a virgin?

[emmily2396]

I mean from the time you both confessed your feelings for each other/decide you would want to be together, because any relationship develops at it's own pace. Some people may fall in love after a month, others know each other for months or even years if there are factors that prevent the relationship from developing.

Less than 1 month

1-3 months

4-6 months

7-9 months

10 months - 1 year

More than a year

Until she or he is ready

[btbc92]

Marriage. I highly suggest that people wait and get married. Sex is a marriage and marriage is all about having sex. You do not want to bond with a person you're never going to keep forever. Talk about this if sex is important to the both of you BEFORE DATING them. Premarital sex is a complete disaster and today's relationships and marriage failures prove it more! When are people going to seriously wake up? Sex is not a toy nor a game! Keep your legs closed ladies and gentlemen! Your more precious than you know your worth. 1 night of pleasure before marriage isn't worth a lifetime of emotional damage, and sexual misery. If you even get to live that long.

[Q-tipBoy]

Agreed. Marriage is all about responsibilities.

We have certain responsibilities towards our SO. When we start performing those activities (responsibilities) then and then only we become worthy of the sexual pleasures.

You should start performing sexual acts only when you start being responsible towards your SO.

[Q-tipBoy]

Sex= marriage

[btbc92]

@Q-tipBoy Exactly. And if it's not for you, stay out of it.

[mihailmihailov]

marriage sucks , you're religious lunatic , don't tell people what to do , if they wait for marriage will be unhappy and then divorced.

[laurieluvsit]

Most who want to wait is because they want to be married fist.

That desire should be honored and if not acceptable, you should move on to others that have your same, or differing, values.

[OnitheWanderer]

Being virgin is someone personal choice. So until, the person feels ready to experience intense feelings of emotions like he/she have never before felt. It's always better to give them space and time, it's not something he/she needs to rush.
(Plus, when they will feel ready to open themselves to that level they will love it)

[genericname85]

honestly i think most picked the bs answer. nobody will wait for more than a year or even more than that.

[emmily2396]

Especially when we are talking about waiting from the point you are together not from the moment you met. As a virgin myself if there was mutual love between me an a guy and we decided to be together i would be ready in less than 3 months from that point.

[genericname85]

i guess there's a disproportionate amount of virgins waiting till marriage on this site xD

[emmily2396]

I don't see the point, marriage is just a contract in my opinion. It has nothing to do with love.

[genericname85]

Yeah plus you sign up to stay with someone and spend a fortune without even knowing if you're sexually compatible xD

[AlienParasite]

Would be nice to say I could wait until he is ready doesn't matter if that's years... But I'm sure I would be get nervous and frustrated and that would affect the relationship and my interest. I don't think my patience could stand more than 6 months.

[frontyer]

If she makes youw ait for sex, the sex is never worth it.

When I am dating a girl I give her 1-3 dates depenging on her personality. A virgin I would give 1 or 2 dates more. I would never get into a relationship with someone without having sex with them first.

[Anonymous]

I guess it depends on what you mean by "waiting." I'd be happy to continue seeing a girl who wants to remain a virgin, BUT I woudn't enter into an exclusive relationship with her. So if she wants to date, that's cool--I'm happy to wait as long as she'd like to have sex. But I would not go exclusive with her until after we'd gotten through that waiting phase. And of course, there would be the risk that in the interim, I'd decide that I was happy to go exclusive with another girl I'm seeing at which point we'd come to an end.

[CandacePerry]

Still waiting for a right person. Since hasn't been very lucky with past ex bfs. Not sure what will happen with my new boyfriend

[0112358]

Most guys will wait a long time for intercourse if other stuff is happening and she’s a virgin.

The more significant timeline with a virgin is to getting each other off, not sex.

[JudgmentDay]

Instead of waiting for somebody I just don't date at all.

[thebigc]

Since virginity doesn't matter to me, I'm not particularly interested in waiting a certain amount of time. However, I'm certainly not gonna wait forever.

[Muhammad1999]

i will wait until i marry her because i won't have sex outside marriage

[psychosam]

It might be frustrating but if I genuinely really like someone I'm not going to break up with them over that

[somerandomguy197]

2 minutes.. I'd just buy a prostitute.. I fuckin hate getting rejwctws

[front2back]

My past 2 girlfriends didn't want sex before marriage, I still stuck around.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Sex is important to me, so either we get married pretty quick or I'm not going to be happy waiting around wasting time.

[Dog19]

What If she doesn't want to get married but after 3 months she wants to have sex with you

[CuriousMufuxka]

I believe you answered this with the at their own pace thing..

[emmily2396]

But someone people may be ready in 3 years, others in 2 months

[CuriousMufuxka]

Indeed, but who's going to wait around that long or give in that early?

[emmily2396]

2 months is not early if you read what i meant. It's not 2 months after you met them, but 2 months after you have decided you want to be together/ confessed your feelings. If you know someone for a year and you both finally decide to be together i woyldn't say 2 months is too early. I would say 1 year is too much.

[CuriousMufuxka]

I've made up my mind after a 2nd date.. Another time I held off on having sex even after she was ready. I didn't think just because it was her birthday that was supposed to be the contributing factor. Agreed on a year.

[emmily2396]

This was abouy virgins, not people who already did it

[emmily2396]

About*

[CuriousMufuxka]

And so was my reply!

[CuriousMufuxka]

Both virgins?

[Cage4]

Whenever she's ready if we both confessed of having feelings to each other

[Anonymous]

As long as possible. Sex isn't at all important to me.

[Lance1965]

2 to 3 dates. Life is too short to wait and no woman is worth waiting for.

[YHL6965]

I would want some sex at some point (I put 4-6 months) because otherwise I would be in a friendship.

[WhoDatGuy]

I wanted to choose 1 day but there was no option. Your sexual disability isn't my problem

[Slim57]

1-3 months, I don't really know honestly, maybe longer, just not until marriage

[dantetheexplorer]

Richard Branson would be proud.

[aa180]

Until she dies so I can fuck her corpse.

[SpunkNugget]

Munting is the future

[coolbreeze]

Until he or she is ready.

[daydreammarie]

Always go to wait till the person is ready

[lucas262]

Till the ring is on her finger

[Dog19]

I'll wait as long as I can for my man/woman

[Piteka5]

I would let her decide, why would I force it?

[MikeTheGreek79]

When she ready I wouldn’t force myself on a woman.

[Anonymous]

Till marriage

[JamesRandiDebates]

Actual virgin? Maybe third date.

[Nadim171]

Until marriage

[Eleni91]

Um she she ready.

[Aiko_E_Lara]

I can wait forever.

[19irish76]

Until she is ready.

[Anonymous]

Until marriage