Is it okay if my boyfriend shames my bodyhair for joking?

[Anonymous]

I'm not insecure about my body but it offended me when he said I got more hair than him, that i am the boy and he's the girl

[curiousrobert]

I wouldn't really call that shaming, you are kind of being sensitive and a tad insecure, so if it bothers you that much shave weekly :). Good luck

[Asker]

I do not want to shave just to make him satisfied it's my body.

[Gavyn]

Then don't get upset by his comment. If you refuse to do something to please him, he doesn't have to be pleased with that decision.

[curiousrobert]

@Gavyn I agree with you brother. She is in denial, what girl won't shave for her man if he asks for it or shows concern for that preference? Besides she should be shaving for her own sake so that she herself feels better and more comfortable in her own skin.

[djmzes]

Simple

[Anonymous]

Let him know it hurt you and that it wasn't ok. He should apologize

[boggboss]

If u want to see it that way then sure but why u are turning a joke into a insult is on you you will just end up bei g upset over somthing that you know was not meant to be taken that way

[KillerFreddie]

Tell him how you feel. The best relationships are founded upon honesty as psychologists point out.

[genericname85]

in private, yeah. in public that would be quite offensive. i mean if you do have more hair than him, it's not really an "offense" in private, is it?

[cootjuh]

Mm girl im curious about your body now. Do u have hair on your lower back?

[curiousrobert]

y'all niggas trippin

[Asker]

Nope. Just arms
Still love my body though

[cootjuh]

Hmm i would like to stroke your arms

[curiousrobert]

Yo if Asker is really about it I will join in too brother ;)

[Muhammad1999]

Do you have beard and moustache ?

[AJ1988]

joke about his lol

[CT_CD]

Shave