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Are you an assertive person?

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  • hellacray
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    Sometimes... If I'm familiar and comfortable I have no problem leading.

    However if it's a topic I'm not familiar with or I have no idea what's going on then I'd prefer to follow.

    It's good to know when to be assertive and when to follow. Cause let's be honest you can't be an expert at everything.

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  • FatherJack
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    Yes , former British Army NCO , so it come naturally , although I am generally quiet and keep self to self , more introvert by nature. There is a difference between assertive and aggressive , obnoxious behaviour , the " Strong Independent Womyn TM " types should take note !!

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  • dancing_in_nebulas
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    Extremely.

    Its to the point where coworkers, friends, bosses and family will ask me to go "control" an argument, person, or enforce policies and such.

    I talk softly and keep to myself in nature, but Im like a tiger honestly. When the teeth, claws, and power need to come out...

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  • Cynicaldreamer
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    Only when I have to be. Most of the time I'm laid back and just go with things because it's easier and less stress on me.

    But if it's something or someone I really want or need? I'm going to get what I want, or try my best to get it, so my assertive side comes out.

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  • StingRayxoxo
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    When something really matters, yes.
    Little things, eh.

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  • 15Nightingale51
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    Not really. It takes a lot for me to assert myself. I prefer to just sit back. Even if someone irritates me, I won't say anything until the second or third time, because I wonder if it was a mistake. I need to analyze the situation and think of my response. I am not good at thinking on my feet. When things actually matter to me, and I am already emotionally charged or just come from a workout, yes, I am assertive. I am not as good at watching my tongue when my blood is rushing

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  • MORPHEUS_12
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    Yes, I am. I have been told that I can be quite intimidating and I have seen the hands of a people I was talking to shake. I have to manage my inlaws person affairs in addition to mine and my husband's. I also have a chronic medical condition that is complicated so I have to be on rapid fire in order to get the care that I need.

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  • fonduegirl
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    if I'm comfortable being myself around that person. I don't come off as harsh tho, I just really slow down my gears before blowing ugly truth considering how people feel about the whole deal. imma pretty chill mostly.

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  • elizabeth-jen
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    no; that is why i find so much joy in sharing my opinions online. im not a recluse but im certainly shy.

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  • jennifer_bloom
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    I would say yes. I am usually very comfortable in crowds, around strangers and while speaking in public.

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  • DeviloftheValleys
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    Yes, highly. It's part of my religion.

    We Satanists worship the idea of Satan, the accuser; the adversary. Being assertive, accusatory and adversarial is literally the foundation of my world view.

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    • No_Archons
      No_Archons
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      Loool r u trolling?

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    • DeviloftheValleys
      DeviloftheValleys
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      No. I am 100% serious.

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    • No_Archons
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      Enjoy :) enjoy where that ideology gets you! Just remember it was your choice, your stupid, stupid choice.

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    • DeviloftheValleys
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      It has done nothing but improve my life so far. Have a nice day.

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    • No_Archons
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      I totally believe you man, because this world is run by Satan. When you hold a belief system that makes life difficult for you, that ostracizes and hurts you in society, then you will know you are on the right path. This is why nobody walks this path... but yeah I know what it's like to figure out the dominant ideology of the world, play into it, and start succeeding. It feels too good to stop, but I fking found a way and so should you.

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    • DeviloftheValleys
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      1. Satan isn't real. Stop believing faerie tales.
      2. Satanism is not the prevailing ideology yet, but I hope someday it will be.

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    • No_Archons
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      I never said that Satan was real you dumb fuck, I am well researched into Satanism, much more than a little kid like you. I know exactly what your ideology is and better yet, I know the forces which propagate it in our society, and it IS the dominant ideology. It's funny how kids like you think they are edgy for being satanism when in fact almost everyone is a satanist, they just don't know it. If you did more research, you'd realize this as well.

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    • DeviloftheValleys
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      "Satan runs the world"
      "Satan isn't real"

      These statements are contradictory. Unless you were trying to be edgy and poetic.

      I am being constantly scrutinized by everyone for being a Satanist. It is simply impossible for it to be the leading religion when most people think I am weird and evil for it. And let me remind you - IT IS A RELIGION. Not an ideology. Most people running western society are either atheists or christians, neither of which are compatible with satanism.

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    • No_Archons
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      You're too young and stupid for me to waste my time on this. I will respond one last time to try and clear up some of your misunderstandings.

      1. It's not edgy and poetic to use personification to get a point across. Saying satan runs the world means that satanic ideology runs the world, and I know you understand that, so fuck off with your pretended ignorance.

      2. People scrutinizing you for being satanist are mostly retarded, as they are mostly satanists. To be awake to the idea that everyone is a satanist is rare. They don't understand that they are themselves satanists.

      3. The distinction between a religion and an ideology is NOT IMPORTANT!! All religions are ideologies, and many ideologies are religious in nature. Read a dictionary.

      4. Athiests and christians are FULLY COMPATIBLE WITH SATANISM and I won't waste my breath explaining why seeing as you just purposefully play dumb with me. You are wasting my time.

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    • DeviloftheValleys
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      Your definitions are so far apart from mine that having a discussion is useless, as we're not talking about the same things. Have a lovely day. Shemhamforash.

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  • JSmuve
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    God no. I kind of just stand on the sidelines and watch things happen naturally. It takes a lot for me to assert myself, especially in unfamiliar situations.

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  • markscott
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    I'm assertive when I need to be, otherwise not so much so.

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  • Mr1987Joe
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    When it's called for. Professionally, I am, at all times.

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  • lforman007
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    I'm an introvert, but I force myself to be assertive, so yes.

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  • Quidthonian
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    No. I came out as "Turbulent Architect" in the www.16personalites.com test.

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    • LtJackass
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      That is the most inaccurate test I've ever taken.

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  • ChiTown33
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    Occasionally but not usually. I'd rather not get vocal but i ain't going to just let some one roll over me either.

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  • Furuok
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    +1 y
    339 opinions shared on Other topic.

    I am bold and if temped will assert. Is this question on mating season ? Spring is in the air! What's the wonderful thing bout Tigger? Cause Tigger is a wonderful thing!

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  • DiegoO
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    In most cases yes, on the regular, that's why I hate when someone says one thing and do another thing, or when someone is unable to be direct.

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  • tartaarsaus
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    Only when I care about something. Otherwise, I don't really care and can't be bothered.

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    • NovissimumVirorum
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      You should be more assertive about the Temple Mount

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    • tartaarsaus
      tartaarsaus
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      Yeah, that the Third Temple shouldn't be built.

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    • NovissimumVirorum
      NovissimumVirorum
      +1 y

      It should be

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    • tartaarsaus
      tartaarsaus
      +1 y

      It right now shouldn't be or in any comparable situation.

      It took over 25 years to build a bus terminal in Tel Aviv, how do you think a third temple would ever work on the temple mount?

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    • NovissimumVirorum
      NovissimumVirorum
      +1 y

      It needs to happen so we can bring about the final days

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  • winterfox10
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    Yes, but I also know that there is a time and place for me to be assertive.

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    • bigbang101
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      Fitness fanatic he's just trying to impress you with that second line

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    • winterfox10
      winterfox10
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      @Fitness-Fanatic already knows that I have the keys to her heart.

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    • bigbang101
      bigbang101
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      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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  • Therisinghero12
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    494 opinions shared on Other topic.

    Yeah, i'm not passive or aggressive, just assertive

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  • bklynbadboy1
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    I very assertive something too assertive. I'm a New Yorker I'm bold and brash lol

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  • MiAmora
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    Sometimes. Depends on a situation

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  • Secret6620
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    Master Age: 28 , mho 39%
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    Heck yeah. Assertive is my middle name lol

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  • GraveDoll
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    Yes. Sometimes too much. Im working on it.

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  • Mickey9999
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    Yes. Probably too much so

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  • markanthonypeace
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    Only when I have a Cause

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  • TheHillsRAlive
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    Overly... Aggressive even

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  • Izzy_Rose
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    In certain situations.

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  • lilah-lilacs
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    not at all, I'm way too shy :(

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  • Q-tipBoy
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    Sometimes , mostly at home

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  • TaureanBull81
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    I am yeah when the occasion calls for it!

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  • Rawkstar26
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    Sometimes, Depending on the situation.

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  • Liam_Hayden
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    When it matters to me, yes.

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  • asianfreak
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    I am only when I need to be.

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  • moonpie89
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    No.. I wish I was though

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  • cheer4life_xo
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    For the most part yes.

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  • Eleni91
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    Yes I know what I want and I go after it

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  • Hurdleez-Swampede
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    If there is a need to be, yes but if not, then no.

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  • GreenGold1992
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    sometimes when I feel I need to be

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  • Hispanic-Cool-Guy
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    It's important to me, yes. If not, nope.

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  • Kas19
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    Sorta. Sometimes.

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  • sapphire3506
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    Not at all

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  • DeeDeeDeVour
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    Yes, I am.

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  • cth96190
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    When I have to be.

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  • belle_kai
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    I can be

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  • dwiller943
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    Nope.

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  • 1828avaava1828
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    I can be!!

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  • Rangers
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    No, I'm very passive

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  • Jiuytessss
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    Yes.

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  • MannMitAntworten
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    Yes. Very much so...

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  • bill_towers
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    Ass what?

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  • llorando
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    Can't say that I am.

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  • AnimeThot
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    If I have to be

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  • inmensus
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    Not at all lmao

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  • brittslitt
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    Very

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  • BronzedAdonis
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    generally no

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  • CoffeeWC
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    Hell naw

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  • GayHowellMeme
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    No, I’m not

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  • NovissimumVirorum
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    I wish I was

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  • bravee
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    No i am not

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    Sometimes

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