How to deal with creepy neighbor?

[Anonymous]

I have a neighbor that would constantly complain about every little noise I make. I already talked to my house manager who already talked to him and he stopped complained.

However, recently, the house manager left and was replaced with a new one. Now my neighbor is being creepy again. One time I was coming home and he was just watching me as I was entering my place. I tried to be friendly by saying good evening but he didn't say anything and kept watching me. I was completely creeped out and ever since then, I feel completely uncomfortable around him. Like my body literally shakes in fear around him.

I think he knocked on my door because the shakes were coming back but I refused to answer it. However, I don't know how to address this problem since the old house manager is gone and the new one would never understand or be able to do anything.

Help? Advice?

[FakeNIK]

If you have a friend or someone whom you trust, tell him to go and talk with your neighbor or you can go by yourself.. but Don't go alone or simply ignore them, same happened with me too..😅

[rockrewls]

Tell him if he stalks you again you will call the police. Hopefully it keeps him away.

[bangyourhead]

Stop being intimidated.

[Asker]

Okay. Sure. I'll just tell my nerves to just stop. Lol.

[bangyourhead]

Ok, then continue to give in to your fears. No skin off my teeth.

[Asker]

Do you tell people with mental illnesses to also stop having a mental illness because I feel like you're not grasping the actual situation. I don't get easily spooked unless I feel like there is something super wrong with them.

[bangyourhead]

Who is control of your emotions and reactions if you are not? If you are in control of your emotions and reactions, it seems logical that you could re-train your brain. People with mental illnesses can seek help and change their way of thinking oftentimes.

So learn some self defense, carry a gun. Do things proactively to not feel like a victim. There's no law against being "creepy". Call the police if he's harassing you.