Do You Think Being Charismatic Is Something People Are Born With Or Can It Be Learned? (Page 2)
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I never knew a shy individual to become a charismatic individual. Same goes with the gregarious. They are born with it.
I agree!!
I think it is both, more natural but a person can learn to project it more if they wish to.
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Definitely learned.
Some children may tend towards being naturally charismatic, but charisma is very teachable as well.
It's all about knowing how to appeal to your audience.
Jim Carrey as a child was unpopular and alone all of the time, as a result he would practice making faces in a mirror and talk to himself all of the time... I'm pretty sure no one today would say he doesn't have any charisma. If he had been born with it I doubt he would have ever been alone growing up.
pretty sure he has a spilt personality too
Definitely learned. Even if you are a natural - good looking, outgoing and personable with high self-esteem - you still need good examples to model. And even if you aren't a natural, good role models and practice can make you a star. Children grow up emulating adults.
Anything and everything could be faked just needs the will and effort charisma can also be developed as a trait
I think it's more you have it or you don't. Faking it is more like fake charm but eventually people will see through that, whereas charisma is something that's just naturally in their cosmetic make up, least that's the way I see it
Charm and charisma can be faked to such a level that it could be used as tool consider for fuck boys or gold digger girls they use their charm they practiced it through no. Of tricks and terms, also the Con artist they can spell bound you but it's still fake they truly can be different as in how they appear
Charismatic can be simple if you understand the requirement and pscyhe of your audience
It is both. While it is something people generally learn, some have genetics which are better suited for this behaviour
Well said
Literally everything we do is learned so... I do wonder what this. Not to say people cannot learn it easier so it comes to them easier but like everything it's learned.
I think it's one of those things that either runs through your veins or it doesn't...
That's what I think, you can learn to be more outgoing, I think people are mistaking that with charisma, cuz that just happen without trying in my opinion
👍 I agree
Both. Some people just ooze charisma naturally. Others are able to figure out how it feels like to be charismatic, and put themself in that mental state. And finally some can dissect it and figure out what the core fundamentals are. Then they work on those in practice those till they become charismatic
I think it’s part born, part something that emerges based on early life and partly developed. The last is rarely the most significant.
I don't know for myself, but my father said some people are just born with it, but it can be learned.
I believe some of us have it naturally (like with some children). and some of us can develop it later in life.
Can be learned but looks and self confidence have a huge impact. Confidence especially is a skill in itself. Also for men humor is super important and that is yet another skill in itself.
You can't teach charisma. That's a talent, like sharpening your knife.
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Obviously there is some genetic component as charismatic people have charismatic kids like myself but there is definitely a learned component and for guys its almost impossible to do unless they have a sister
Both but to learn it is very difficult. Appearance is big key to this
Really I think it's more personality and the way one carries themselves than appearance.
What I kinda ment by that, appearance how people stand out
Supposedly Jeffery Epstein had it, but I think it was learned behavior
It's a skill, not so much a trait for me. It can be learned however some might have more talent for it than others
I'm not sure, I lean more to born with it. I do wish I had way more charisma in my life.
Good character, personality can be just as appealing
True, but some might not get to see it.