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Do You Think Being Charismatic Is Something People Are Born With Or Can It Be Learned? (Page 2)
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it depends on how much testosterone the guy has in his body
This is about Charismatic people not just guys... Women can be Charismatic too, so 🤷🏼♀️
again it depends on how much testosterone the person has running through their body
Okay 🙂
I think it can be learned
I think it's more a natural thing
The dark side of the force is the pathway to many abilities that some would consider to be... unnatural.. 😈
Bit born with, bit learned, a bit dependent on the receiving person.
It's mostly innate but can be cultivated.
I agree there
100% Learned behaviour
I lean more towards thinking it's more natural, either you have it or you don't you're a thing
you dont see the whole iceberg you just see the top of it this is how i see it
Charisma is something that you can learn. But some are born with a little talent so It's a little more easy for them to learn how to be charismatic. Train anything you wanna be great at for at least 10000 hours and you will be.
It can be learned. I think though.
I think people can learn to be more outgoing, less shy but I think there's people that are just naturally Charismatic without trying and then you get them people that try that fake charm which I can usually see through... I knew this chick like that, but it wasn't just her it was her brothers too.. They all thought they were slick and charming but they're a stole the shirt off their own mother's back🤷🏼♀️
Totally agree...
It’s both. Some people are more innately social and have better self control than others. But your environment can have an impact too
I learnt it.
Really can't put yourself out there successfully without it.
it just came natural to me ;)
👍👍🙂
i think its more likely that we are all born with a certain charm just as we are all born with a certain level of humanity but society can certainly try to kick both of those aspects out of you as we develope
That can be true
I would say is natural.
I would agree
If psychology can be learned, then so can being charismatic.
No one is born with any trait. We all start on a blank slate. Traits are developed through one's experiences. So to answer your question. Most certainly.
Then how do you explain people that are more talented than others... Not everything can be learned... You either have some things or you don't,...
People are more talented because they have more experience. I'm a rapper, writer, digital artist, entrepreneur programmer and game developer. Learning is an experience. I rest my case.
No amount of training or experience is gonna make me a good singer/rapper, or elite runner.
It’s your genes that you have/are born with that give you your physical and personality traits (and predispositions/susceptibility for things like addictions) and control a person’s “top limits“ of their developable skills.
*physical abilities
Wow, no. You are so far off base! You would be amazed at how much is inherited. My children had the same lesson. One inherited his father's inability to carry a tune, but he could do math before he could even really speak English! He learned from being in the same room while I tried to teach his sister who could not learn it. My daughter on the other hand learned how to do a full tap dance routine simply by watching a kids show. She got her first pair of tap shoes immediately after and was allowed into dance classes while only 2 years old. Even handwriting is inherited! It's an artistic ability and major predictor of long term academic success. All of the people in my family have similar handwriting, though my children were taught by tracing books and teachers. My son even turned his I's into the same swirly lollypops that I was yelled at for in kindergarten! I've worked with thousands of children, and they inherit crazy things that you cannot even imagine. They are no more blank slates than a newborn turtle or snake. We are very much programmed creatures.
Ugh. Ignorance. Fine. Hold on to ur preconceptions.
@xXHosaeXx, that’s your opinion. My opinion is that your wisdom (and maybe even your “learned charisma” & “people skills”) might increase with time as you age and “have more experience“ in life
How about you get an education and/or ask people who are much more experienced in things like human development and genetics? Your stance is exactly what you are scoffing at... Ignorance and preconceived ideas based on a severely limited education and experiences that go against what people who have studied these things and become experts for decades and even thousands of years before you were even born.
Funny cause all three points on the first quote seem wrong, like wot?
For the most part in my opinion your born with it.
That's what I think as well
I think it can be formulaic and learned. Method actors prove that.
Q - Q i think it can be learned
I think it's more natural
I agree.. I think people can try to be fake charming but that's easy to see through after know them, whereas charisma you don't have to try to be that way, it just naturally comes out
better question do i need to be Charismatic
No just a question
@Brainsbeforebeauty thanks so much for the advice before
Natural. I think it is about eyes and looks.
I agree with the natural, charisma is more a personality trait than looks
I was born with it. 😎
Yeah you were 😁🙂
Absolutely can be learned. No question about it. But it's a different type of learning than most are used to. It's internal learning.
some have it as a natural charm
That can be true. people can be fake "charming" but that's easily seen through after a while, but charisma is less easy to fake in my opinion
@Brainsbeforebeauty people can fake a lot of shit, like most I know in rl
Yeah but you came only fake for so long for someone catches on to it
@Brainsbeforebeauty not with these assholes. They dont get it, especially with this forrest gump type douche
I've known quite a few people that could fill people into thinking they're charming, but if you know them awhile you can see through it. Or at least I always did. Nother reason people should take more time before just jumping into a relationship with someone
It can be learned and be something your born with.
Natural trait
As much as it annoys and bothers me, learned.
Not the same as people who are naturally Charismatic... Anyone can learn sports, but not everyone can be talented... Anyone can sing it learn an instrument but that's not the same as those that are just naturally talented
Learnt as a youngster.
I think it can definitely be learned 🙂
Both. I def learned how.
I learned charisma, I actually was born really shy
I hope it can be learned. I need it.
I think you can learn how to push people's buttons
I'm a natural
I that's good. I think people have that fake charm, but that's easily seen through... Think charisma isn't something as easily faked... You either have it or you don't
Have you ever met a charismatic baby?
It's modified behavior
Actually yeah there are babies that are more lively, or show more oomph then other babies
Totally believable. Although, those traits doesn't describe charisma. How would an infant display a charming personality?
It's learned. Just like everything else in life.
This is learned behavior.
I think it's same as bitch or pussy
Both
It can be learned
It's both.
Learned behaviour.
Born with it
Both honestly