
What things do you wish were normalized about your gender?


Guys having emotions - I virtually never crying and almost never do it in front of other, it's not something that makes me uncomfortable, but the expectation that someone shouldn't due to being a guy is pathetic, we're human too. This more than likely links into mental health.
Guys wearing brighter colours, when it comes to clothing - TBH, these are harder to find, but I'm tired of black, grey and dark blues, especially when it comes to men's pants, like I want some nice coloured chinos and joggers too. Women have these coloured options, so why shouldn't the clothing industry cater to men in that aspect too.
Guys wearing tights/leggings - I only wear them to the gym and no one will say much if you wear them with shorts, but I wear them just like that. There's no bulge either, I think that's too much to show, but I like the idea of wearing something like that for casual use around the house and if women can wear clothes that are generally made for guys, why can't the clothing industry make more stuff like that for guys. Comfort matters to us too.
Mens beach shirts are generally colorful.
True. It's not as hard to find for short sleeve t-shirts and swim shorts, but for like joggers, compared to women, it's hard.
Ugh. That image makes me want to barf. I won't address all of it, but men DO show emotions. Just not in the same way women do; nor should they.
As for the question, I think men should be allowed to be parents and be around children in the same way women are, without thinking they're a creep or p3do automatically. I'm a teacher, so I know the stigma.
As for women, I think we just need to get rid of modern feminism, entirely. It literally helps NOBODY who isn't part of the cult. It makes insecure women feel more insecure (plus turns them into entitled, talentless c*nts) and obviously, attacks men and blames them for literally everything wrong with the world; hence its core tenet, Patriarchy. We need to normalize women not "needing feminism" and just being confident and secure in their own skin without a hate movement manipulating and brainwashing them.
Innie and outtie Vaginas, (A lot of ‘men’ still believe an outtie is due to sex. When it’s not.)
Not orgasming from penetration (More women don’t then do, it’s normal. You aren’t underperforming, it’s not because you aren’t big enough. It’s just very hard, and all in the clit!)
Not wearing a padded bra
Going to the ladies to do the second
Being outspoken and opinionated
Being both feminine and masculine. Sometimes I want jeans and boots, sometimes I want a plaid skirt and a crop top.
Being able to confidently poop in girls bathroom
Not wearing a bra
Not shaving everything all the time
Being respected for physical accompliments and not underhanded comments or getting compared to someone else (a guy)
Women sports, like wrestling and football, being more favored by girls, so we could get our own teams
I dont care, we all do it. As long as she flushes idc
Because a lot are immature about the idea of doing so
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Improved work ethic, not seeing God or commitment in and of themselves as "the enemy," improved self-control, and greater determination to depose tyrants by force, instead of constantly tolerate or excuse their every abuse. If family courts are rackets, why do we not depose the judges and legislators responsible? If the feminist theorists they cited are quacks, why are these officials not punished severely for betraying our justice system to quackery, and destroying lives and families that way? Why cannot men be real men anymore? Maybe then, women wouldn't have to feel ashamed of being women either. Let's end our adherences to the doctrines of demons. Let the Dark Powers and Thrones piss and moan.
I don't really care about anything being "normalised". If I want to do something, I'll do it. If I don't want to do something, I won't do it. We are not "oppressed" these days, we are entitled in so many damn ways. For whatever reason, people always need to whine, I guess in order to feel like they are "doing something". I'll just continue living my life the way I see fit.
I wish it was normalized that fathers can be better parents then mothers. It's always shown in movies that stereotype of a single mother raising the kids on her own. But the fact is that sometimes the father would be the better choice in a custody case then the mother. But it's been normalized that the mother would be the better care giver or that mothers just automatically love their kids more then a father ever could.
NOT 👏 WEARING 👏 A 👏 BRA👏 like it shouldn't be THAT big of a deal but everyone seems to think so. I haven't worn one in over 6 or 7 years since I finished high school and it was the best first decision I made as an adult 😅
Defiantly not wearing a bra I absolutely hate bras and I hate wearing them : (
And of course you gotta kiss the homies gn
Ok bet
Don’t worry they hella small
Proud member of the itty bitty titty committee
- periods
- braless
- eduction about female bodies
- not orgasming
- orgasming
- being horny
- dressing for yourself
- dressing modestly
- dressing immodestly
- asking guys out
- proposing
- and more
You can't actually understand as your a guy. They're still taboo. At school they teach you that you will get a period and that you can use either a pad or a tampon, and they explain what those both are. Any other information on them you have to find out yourself. Ask any girl if periods are normalized in society. Their answer will most likely be no. You don't just talk about a period the way you talk about a bloody nose. The topic of pretty much off limits. Sure, periods are "normal" but they're not normalized.
What does that have to do with anything? I will tell you they I'm from North America.
Beautification 💁🏻♂️ I’m tired of certain skincare routines being associated with homosexuality or femininity. Let a regular man just take care of his appearance without making assumptions (even if he wore avocado face masks in the bath, for example)!
@StephenCF do you wear avocado masks in the bath?😯🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣it's funny! i don't even wear maks😂 i never wear a mask since masks so expensive in here😂😂😂
@StephenCF you don't look like a girl, you're so manly😈😼mmmmhhhh😈
We need average dicks in porn, and we need to ban porn that plays on race. I'm not white or black but I see a lot of white and black comparison in porn, it's racist. We need slim men in porn as well, like that El Nino guy.
We need to normalize not blaming men for everything, and while I'm not American, American divorce laws are designed to hurt men, that needs to be changed.
That's all for now.
We need average boobs in porn
Average vaginas that haven’t had labiaplasty
Real women moaning, not fake.
Stopping schoolgirl porn
Average bootys
Real porn, I’m sick of how porn portrays women cumming from penetration when the majority of us statistically don’t.
More focus on the clit.
Just wanted to list the same as you but female version
Most porn stars have a 33-34C bra size, even the popular ones, I'd say that's quite average.
What makes you think most women in porn have had labiaplasty? Also, labiaplasty isn't a bad thing, unless there are serious health problems associated with it.
What do you mean by real women moaning, not fake? Do you want real women, or real moaning?
What's the problem with schoolgirl porn? As long as the girl is legal.
Most porn stars do not have big booties, besides you can gain booty size through exercise, you can't gain dick size like that. If you could increase dick size through exercise, then I'd no problems with porn having big dicks.
You are over relying on statistics, most studies only really use a couple thousand people to conduct any study. You cannot understand the sex lives of billions of people on earth by studying a few thousand.
Sure, I don't mind porn having more focus on the clit.
I mean real moaning, it’s incredibly fake and damaging.
I don’t agree with labiplasty it gives the wrong idea to a lot of girls.
Guys cannot change their penis size, however that is no excuse to ignore the problems women have with the porn industry.
Hormones can start as early as 10, meaning naturally and it’s not wrong either some of us start watching it at a young age.
Porn teaches Men and Women that you should be moaning and orgasming from penetration, when really a lot of us don’t. The amount of grown men I’ve had to explain this to is crazy.
I don’t agree with schoolgirl porn, you’re literally imitating an underage relationship.
Also if you knew anything about women, 32-34C means nothing. My cup size is a B, however I can be a D if I change my band size to a 28.
That I understand.
I think we shouldn't control things so much, if porn stars want to have a labiaplasty, then they should be able to have it.
I think some women take things too far, blaming the porn and beauty industry for things that are not the industries fault. You are balming others for your own insecurities. It's not their fault.
If you want big dicks, it's okay. I just don't think they are necessary in porn. As for labiaplasty, it shouldn't be necessary as well, but if porn stars choose to have one themselves, that's their choice.
You are just being bitter now. This man vs. woman debate leads to nowhere.
Porn industry cannot be blamed for every little thing, that's all. As for women's issues, you all in western countries have enough rights, let's focus on eastern countries.
Girls wearing dresses and skirts on regular days, not only for special occasions.
That woman could obtain positions of leadership or have physical preferences in who they choose to date - a lot of men hate woman who discriminate based on looks cause they think girls should only judge by personality
Every woman I've seen obtain a position of power has generally ruined everything. Recent example is Lucasfilm and star wars.
@ranger3456 your theory is bullshit. You give one example and because of that no women can be leaders? There are prefty shity male leaders as well but do you see anybody complaining about it?
@Miley19new yep haven't seen a woman leader who hasn't fucked everything up. Most women abandon logic over emotional bullshit and make policies over petty spiteful reasons. If a woman leads then i can guarantee that she will fucking ruin everything.
@ranger3456 there’s some degree of truth in what you say, that women are wired to be more emotional and that screw’s things up, but there are examples of female leaders who manage properly. Burberry has been resurrected by a woman, for example. Some exceptional women aren’t emotional wrecks.
@ranger3465 world is changing so better adapt
@AsDaGask i can also count so many failed business managed by men. I for example am an emotionless person or at least i use logic before my emotions. Don’t stab your own gender from the back
@ranget3465 you dont know me and im not hostile to men, at least not for no reason.
Im not an US citizen so you dont have to worry about me “ruining” your amazing (!) system.
In fact, you are ruining things by sticking to nonsense traditions and acting like everybody should play along in your stupid, sexist game.
@Miley19new I'm all for women being free to lead their own companies and such, and i have no problem buying from said companies if their products are good, which some women are better at having amindest men don't.
That being said, I'd never want to work for a woman, on the basis it's been my experience that women are useless at leadership, at least when it comes to leading men. Even the strongest of the strong women like Thatcher, there is something missing. Some element of personal responsibility that is required for successful leadership.
In short i've never seen a woman who's both headstrong and humble at the same time, it just doesn't happen. That means when they rule over you, they either won't say or do what needs to be done, or they will make everything about themselves.
So yeah, i'd never want to work for a woman, and i don't actually care if it makes me a sexist to say it.
I'll just dip in to say one of my best managers has been a woman. I also employ one now as a department director and she is the best director our organization has.
How good or bad you are as a leader has nothing to do with your sex. It depends entirely on your temperament, your ability to make sound decisions, and your people skills.
Neither sex has the above qualities by default. They are 100% learned and earned.
Not wanting to marry desperately, not wanting to have kids and not liking cooking
Wouldn't it be preferable if, instead, men wanted to marry, have kids, and provide just as much as women want that now? Making women more deviant from nature will not solve the problem of deviant men.
You said it, Miley
Body diversity and talking about isecurites. I dislike how women seem to get a lot more support for insecurities and promotion of different body types when men arguably have just as much if not more reason to feel insecure.
Exactly right.
Insecurities exist in men and society has unhealthy and unrealistic body goals.
I don't think individual traits can be normalised across an entire gender, we're all different and thus have different priorities, and therefore different conceptions of what "normal" means to us as individuals.
-Not smiling
-Not shaving
-Not getting married (without all these "cat lady" or ageist jokes)
That men’s mental health would be taken more seriously.
That not having a girlfriend all the way into the 20s doesn't mean he's gay. Girls just don't want love 🤷♀️
Not being expected to produce babies after a marriage. Not getting pregnant at all.
It should be normal. Our body our choice.
That being a man is ok and actually something good for society.
@AsDaGask Not as far as the mainstream is concerned.
Some schools now outright ban play fighting and keeping score in sports, because everyone is a winner, and such behaviour only encourages male violence. I've tried to remember, yet i can't remember one single positive thing my teachers ever told me about men just being the way they are.
None of these silly things matters to me honestly with all the respect to all of course
Being able to express yourself.
Being able to crossdress.
Being able to break the traditional masculine role and do whatever you want (as long as you don’t hurt other people).
Emotionless women, bruh
That's why I put you there, duh
You're not emotionless.
.. I wouldn't think so..
People keep telling me that
*winkytiwink*
Normalize being white male Christian conservative who likes guns and votes for Trump and doesn't cry like a bitch. 😂
that’s already normalized unfortunately
@kawaiiguineapig sadly
I dont think so. I get a lot of shit for it.
That women are not meant for rape
Having hairs on body is beautiful
No bra is cool
No person in his or her right mind believes that women are for rape. It's not normal to rape people.
Exactly! Thats the point. But there are some people who think like that. Maybe not in your city or country but somewhere else in world
Nobody is forcing you to shave or wear bras. If you don't want to do it, don't. You don't have to be like a sheep in a herd, same as everybody else. The rape comment I'll leave out, that was an idiotic statement in my opinion.
@Marilynjuana okay then you might not have idea that there some place in world rape news are sooo common, sexual harrassment (both online and offline) has become a habit, its like dude it happens with everyone.
I hope it sinks your heart that some 1-2 year old babies get raped and end up dying coz they are babies
A woman gets raped so brutally that injuries reaches their intestines.
And you know what.. these kind of news comes almost everday on news! People protest but nothing happens rather its increasing.
Thanks for the support mam
I know rape happens. Everybody knows rape happens. This questions isn’t about that. It’s not something that’s normalised in our society in no way. Make sense before you get cocky and sarcastic, ma’am.
Men are not always at fault or guilty just because women say so.
when i say normalized, i know that me and tons of other guys, not so much about our sex but the other sex, that women made the first move and asked guys out more often.
That we aren't disposable piggy banks for gold digging whores.
Wearing skirts.
Sooooo comfortable.
that im man with long hair and still not being gay
From my side of things I'm fine with the way it is
I'm not sure what you are asking!
Lol, kiss a dude if that’s your thing.
SUS AF
Gaaay.
Being incel
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