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777 opinions shared on Other topic. I'm fine being a 'stone-hearted' male.
From the things I've heard from my female family-members, it can be exhausting having such strong, sometimes crazy, and even irrational emotions.
Still, women tend to have more advanced social-networks that can act as a supports when needed. Also, people tend to want to help them more with just a request. And it would be nice to not be seen as a constant threat. (In just 2years, I've convinced a good number of people I want to outright murder them, even if I have no ill-will against them or any human-being at all.) Plus, women have a far wider array of acceptable clothing-choices, compared to us.
But then again, their struggles of what to wear based on mood is… alien to me, and I've witnessed some impossible-sounding durations for dressing-up process, especially the more important or high-stakes the outing is.00 Reply
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Master Age: 43 , mho 45%+1 yIf an alien came to earth and had to go off this site, we would have a shit ton of female aliens.
no one would want to be associated as a guy based on the usual bollox posted about cock lengths, racist, sexist, homophobic, political stuff on here.
I can imagine them laughing their alien tits off if one had to be a male, knowing (based on here ( just what a prize cock he would be).
I would be tempted to pick female,
I could be a good slutty lesbian Domme00 Reply
I wanted to be born a guy as a kid. So I could do things without having to be judged on whether or not its ladylike. My parents never would have worried about me hanging out with the opposite gender, or 'talking like a guy' and they would've let me do a lot more when I was younger. Plus even now I want to be a guy so I can have a cool beard and get muscular without people thinking it looks 'gross'
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Jus do it anyway. There’s plenty of disgusting muscle building chicks that I never insult or say anything about. They jus go unnoticed
You certainly won’t get people telling you it’s gross. We will jus be thinking it
Explorer Age: 35 , mho 53%+1 yMale! No periods, no pregnancies, No unwanted attention. Easy to go to the toilet! You can pee quickly in the Bush no judgement a woman does that she is looked at like she's nasty plus the clean up it's all so long you just end up holding it if your able to.
Men have better clothes in my view.
They are instantly respected.
Women are seen as weak and have to constantly prove themselves.
Most women don't have a fighting background so are seen as easy pray. With a man you just don't know so you will ALWAYS think twice before approaching. You would be far more cautious with a man but not a woman. Women aren't seen as dangerous! Just weak play things 🤬
I KNOW I would be the strongest man alive!💥 And no one would look at me funny when I say I fight men and beat thier ass.
Life would be good. I'd get laid to!062 Reply- +1 y
Easier said than done.
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Mmm which part?
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Not that I said it was easy just that it would be my preference. Pregnancy isn't easy and neither is period depending how heavy as a woman you are.
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"They are instantly respected." You're also forgetting the part that the one who's making it at the bottom are also men. To get respected "instantly" implies you think it's that easy. And as for pregnancy, no one's forcing you to have a child so your pregnancy is a choice.
" With a man you just don't know so you will ALWAYS think twice before approaching. You would be far more cautious with a man but not a woman. Women aren't seen as dangerous!" <-- it's not like men are made of steel while women are made of twigs. There could be more female threats but just because of biological difference, they get away with it a lot of the times. It's not even that easy for a man to become threats and little do you know, even an innocent man can be accused of being a threat. To get respect as a man, it's easier said than done. - +1 y
"I KNOW I would be the strongest man alive!" Sure lets pretend that actually is the case. If you're gonna have a woman slapping you or even punching you in the face, you don't deserve help nor you're not permitted to hit back because "you're the strongest man alive"
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I am not 'implying' it's easy I am talking about straight up confrontation. What you look like will dictate how the person responds to you. Trust me if you a man your not going to be treated the same if you were a woman. Obviously if the guy is big again he will be judged. Sized up and the person based on this will make a decision on thier next move.
Pregnancy is a choice - No its not! women wanting thier own physical kids have to get pregnant period. If I was a man and I wanted a child I would need to find a woman to get pregnant.
innocent man can be accused of being a threat - Absolutely. And I am not saying this is right. Although I would rather be seen as a threat then taken for a mug.
Let me be clear coz you've taken what I've said and gone in your own direction with it. The question is not what is easier. Being a man or a woman. The question is what would you rather be.
Being a woman comes with it's own expectations and limitations and I have tried to explain what they are. If I was feminine like a lot of women are there wouldn't be a problem. I am the servere opposite. I have more masculine traits then feminine ones so being male would be my preference.
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If you say that if you're a man or a woman you're going to be treated exactly the same then that would basically contradict what you said about being a man gets you more respect instantly. Because if men and women are treated the same like what you said then that would also mean women would be respected instantly too.
Nobody can get pregnant without making any decisions. Nobody is still forcing you to have a child. So yes it is still objectively at choice but it's just not a lot of women chose to get pregnant because they love children and regardless of the child's birth. So yes it is indeed a choice and you also have the option to adopt out of hundreds of thousands of children in the orphanage waiting to be adopted in this overpopulated world.
I am well aware what the question is but a lot of of your reasoning has nothing to do with being a man. Therefore those are what i pointed out. Action speaks louder than words by the way and you are indeed implying men have it easy make because you think they get more respect instantly. - +1 y
But after all i'm still saying easier said than done. You assume you're going to be the strongest man and you assume you're going to get a lot of respect if you become a man. Something called unrealistic expectations and i am just being real. Ironically unlike you with your username
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How am I contradicting myself when I never said that? Your making this up as you go along. Stop putting words in my mouth. If men and women were treated the same would I care about my gender? Men and women will NEVER be treated equally. They will never be treated the same. It won't happen because we are different like you said biologically and that will alway take presidence. Even in every day interactions. It will never be the case. Everyone is treated the way they are based on thier sex. Period. Your argument had no foundation because that is not what I said.
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I know I can adopt. I can have kids anyway I want but that is not the point I am making. That is the point your making. Because you have your agenda whatever that is. Because your not even paying attention to what I am saying let alone addressing it. Ok Biology has restricted me from doing what I want to do. I have limitations and restrictions that are biological. I understand that I can have kids/adopt and that's a choice. I am not disputing that I am saying because of that I cannot build strength the way a man can build strength because biologically I a a woman our bodies are different. Men don't have heavy periods. They don't have to factor that into thier training. worry about having to take time out. Every fucking month. Men don't have to do that why. Because of biology. The reaction I get alone. Every thing I do is made about my gender. It gets to the point my point isn't paid attention to because people are spending to much time fascinated with the fact that I am a woman. It gets tiring. If I was a man would anyone blink an eye lid? I could do all what I do no one would care. Because its expected of a man. But it's a big deal why coz we aren't treated the same. We aren't equal. Perhaps if more women were like me it wouldn't be such a surprise but that's not the case. So when this question came up I thought. You know what if I was man people wouldn't make such an issue of me being a woman.
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Ok a couple come out of a restaurant and they go to pick up thier car who do you think the usher will hand the keys to? He doesn't know who the car belongs to as he didn't park it his colleague has gone home who do you think the usher will hand the keys to? The woman or the man? Now I am linking it back to a point you have completely missed because you don't have an argument which is confrontation. Now the car belongs to the woman but who are you going to feel more comfortable upsetting?
The man or the woman? if either of them get angry who is going to deliver the most damage? Remember this is all guess work because we don't know know the what either of thier capability is so you have to guess. What is your answer? What is the chances of the woman kicking your ass over the guy?
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I don't assume I'll be the strongest man. I know I'd be the strongest man. The amount of work I put in as a woman. Please. This isn't even a discussion. Your pun on my user name would be a good one if it actually held any weight. But as you have based your whole argument on things I haven't even said. Well.
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If you was a man you’d get zero attention
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It doesn't take a genius to understand how action speaks louder than words actually. Ok my bad i thought you said they were going to be treated the same. i didn't read you said "not" but however, what i'm talking about still stand like how you assume that men gets respected instantly still implies you think it's that easy. Also like how you assume you're going to be the strongest man just because you get more testosterone and you don't get periods. I'm pretty sure you don't understand what "easier said than done means" If that is not the point you're making then you're complaining about pregnancy which you don't really have to commit at all. We aren't equal you say? What if i told you we actually are because both have their own pros and cons that only depends on how you treat your life? Also just because i say we are equal doesn't mean we are the same so learn the difference between equality and similarity. Because if you believe we are unequal then do you believe either one of them is oppressed? Spoiler alert they aren't. Because the grass is always greener on the other side. If you don't really one diskussion then why are you even discussing? You say you know you won't be the strongest man is also an assumption because let's be real, have you even met all men in the world? Also lets be real, those are anecdotes you're saying and it doesn't really provide real data. It's a logical fallacy.
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Your throwing around actions speak louder then words. Where does that apply here? It needs context it's no good just saying things with no context.
Logically it doesn't make sense for me to say I would be treated the same otherwise what am I changing gender for?
I never said or implied it was easy that was your independent Interpretation.
I said men instantly get more respect then women without having to do anything and then I gave you an example to illustrate what I meant with the usher and the car keys.
Getting respect full stop is something completely different I am not talking about that. Your talking about that. Your generalizing the whole conversation and you are not listening to anything I am saying.
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You don't know me yet you judge I don't know what 'easier said then done means' I am not saying every man gets instant respect in every context of course you have to work for it. But in a specific situation if you look a certain way and your with a woman your going to instantly in that moment for safety reasons respect the man over the woman.
No I would be the strongest man because I would put the work in, I would work towards it. I mean I already work out as much as a man does if not more but the result isn't the same. If I wanted to start a family sure. I would find a woman she would have my baby. I wouldn't have to factor any of the things women have to factor in. I would be able to focus solely on training. While my woman was pregnant. My training could even increase in fact. If it's me who is pregnant yes I have limitations. As s woman my whole body has limitations.
It's a belief I am already very strong as woman. I push myself to success and I have beaten many men so yes I truly believe I would be stronger as a man. Physically at least. My aim would be to be the strongest man in the world. And I believe I would achieve it. - +1 y
This is what I am trying to explain to you. Everyone is treated equally in the realm of their gender not when they step out of it. No both men and women are not the same. That is my point. All men and women have pro's and cons yes. Again I am not disputing it. My pro's happen to fall within the realm of masculinity so how far I take things like my fighting, my interests are not something women are interested in. So my gender becomes the subject of discussion rather then what I am actually saying. If I was a man my gender would not come up at all and the focus would instantly be on the subject at hand rather then it being focused on my gender. I wouldn't call it oppression again your misinpreting.
Your not understanding as I have said before. There is no point in me repeating myself if your not going to listen and hear what is it you think I am saying rather then what I am saying.
It could be a language barrier. No I am happy to discuss. I don't think we will get any where though. - +1 y
In certain situations I do actually feel the grass would be greener on the other side. I know you don't agree.
I'll be real with you. I have meet far more men then women. I have fought far more men then women. I know far more men then women. So I think I have a general idea. But I will take on the things that you said. a lot of it was quite positive even if it had no relevance and you didn't understand what I am saying and where I am coming from. - +1 y
That you are implying that it's that easy. It doesn't take a genius to understand where that applies. Nobody is saying you would be treated the same but they both still have their own pros and cons which makes them both equal but different. If that was really an independent interpretation that you claim, they put it be the case for your show me would be the strongest man and assume you would be treated with respect instantly. That's not an independent interpretation but that's the whole undertone to it. Also because i don't know you, i also have the rights to doubt your expectations. It's something called educated guess rather than just judging you. You can say you are the strongest woman in the world but i don't know you then how the fuck am i supposed to really know? That's not a judgment that's just a doubt. But still tho all you're still giving is an anecdote for your claims. Also nobody is saying that a woman's body has no limitations but you know i can also say a man's body also has limitations. The only thing is that you are making sound easy just because male have the upper body strength but the truth is, that's not always the case for all male. What you only look at are those men who have high testosterone but you also ignore that there are actually men weaker than women. And there are a lot of them are also because testosterone drops pretty fast too. This is exactly why there are a lot of old women who tend to be stronger than old men and they live longer despite how much training men have. You're not consider that so that is why you are assuming. And do you think your understanding anything about your undertone? spoilers you're not. You don't even understand what you're saying.
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I seriously have to ask are you reading anything that I am writing? I have already said I am not implying that it's easy. There is no way for use to be treated the same that's why I want to be the opposite gender. Not that it's anything to do with you. Your only upset because you think I think being a man is easy. I never said that and the the fact your still coming bk with this shows your not paying attention.
Ok keep repeating the same stuff if you feel it will strengthen your point. I have already Stated my pro's don't fit for this to be true in my case. You are just not getting it.
Thats not the claim your misinterpreting! Your really not reading anything. Wow your really not paying any attention. I wish I knew what you was reading and replying to because it's not my response.
You can doubt my expectations all you want doesn't make you right.
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An educated guess doesn't make it a correct one. I don't know your experiences so how can I know you are qualified to make that educated guesses? The same way you don't know me. Yet I am the one making assumptions. Its Intresting how that works. When you make a point it's an educated guess but when I explain to you how an example of how events will turn out, it being an educated guess its fallacy. I guess it's one rule for you and another for me.
Its irrelevant what you know of me because it makes no difference anyway you still aren't paying attention. So it doesn't really matter. - +1 y
Your generalizing again. Bringing in other factors that have nothing to do with what I am saying. I am saying my body as it is has limitations so I want to be a man so I don't have them and you bring in there are weak men to. That's your argument? So by the same token are you 'assuming' weak men can't get strong? Are you saying they have no choice but to be weak? They must remain weak because it was how they were built? I've seen plenty of weak men turn shit around coz they got tired of being pushed around so I know your wrong. As I have have said I know more men then women. So I know this to be true so you sit there with your educated guesses and keep assuming weak men will always be that. Unlike you I don't go around underestimating people that's why I don't bring up weak men I am not ignoring them because they have the ability to be strong. Its got nothing to do with what I am talking about.
I understand perfectly what I am saying it's you that doesn't understand and rather acknowledge that and try to grasp what I am saying your bringing more irrelevant discussion to the argument. I wait to see what utter nonsense you will bring next. Coz your still not going to pay attention and come up with the same bullshit all over again. - +1 y
I seriously read everything you said but is it really that hard to understand what implying means? Is it even that's hard to understand what undertone means? So seems like you're not even paying attention. Also it is just like how you keep repeating how you just want to deny things hoping it actually validates you. It's not a misinterpretation when what you said is obvious and it's obviously has the undertone in it due to your assumptions and your anecdotes. Also you just want a mistake judging someone for educated guess so i can be wrong ok but nobody is judging you but however the fact that you are making unrealistic assumption still stands that you imply that its that easy. Just like you saying you want to be a man because you get respect instantly. That wasn't even on underestimate. All i'm saying is it's easier said than done then you're already like "Reee you're underestimating me" because realistically speaking, you are not the only strong "man" in the world. So i guess being real is an underestimate according to you ok. How about if i say i understand exactly what you're saying and you cannot understand what i'm trying to say that you just want to take offense when someone is trying to expose you to reality? If you don't even want any discussion because it's going to be the same bullshit over and over again, why do you even bother. I can't force your to be right nor i cannot force you to understand what assumptions, implying and judgmental means.
Sure by sharing that story you're the only like it if someone "judges" you the positive way it's because those are the only things you want to hear but if it's something realistic, you just want to accuse anyone of being judgmental because that's the easiest thing you can do. - +1 y
What you also don't see is those weak men who get pushed around just don't see the point of doing it. So yes that is kind of like a survivorship bias you're talking about. I'm not even seeing you cannot achieve it if you are a man but i'm still saying the odds are slim. Because if that was really the case that every man would be really muscular while all women will be just like twigs. You know what else i have seen? I've also seen women who gets muscular we quicker and easier than a guy. So therefore my anecdote is valid. That is just to argue at your level.
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I know what implying means and that isn't what I am doing that is why you are interpretating because if you really wasn't doing you would be acknowledging what I have been saying. Your not acknowledging anything I am saying which means your going with what ever prognosis you have come up with. It really doesn't matter if I have implied it or not because you have interpreted it as you want to rather then what it is so it must be the case in your view it must be the case
No you must be using the term undertone in the form of literature which relates to implied because I know this term to relate to sound. In any case you are using undertone and implied interchangeably.
That was a typo that was supposed to say your underestimating men. Not me.
My example is an educated guess and you are down playing it and dismissing it by calling it an anecdote rather then actually responding to it. It's not an assumption it's happened many times in reality.
In my what you call anecdote men do get instant respect. But you keep generalizing. I have already said I am only relating it to that situation further more I did not say I want to be man only because they get instant respect in an isolated situation I said I wanted to be a man based on biological make up and for it to match up with who I am. - +1 y
I don't mind having a conversation however I require you to listen to what I am actually saying rather then making assumptions or guessing what I am saying because you have created a view of me which you have expressed in this essay and its not an accurate account.
I take on all opinions. Well news flash I am never judged in a positive way so I don't know where your going with that. If I was judged in a positive way why wouldn't I choose the option to stay a woman? The story I told was to try to give you context but your not grasping the context. Even if you don't agree or think that I have a case that's fine but you need to communicate that but your not doing that your ignoring what I am saying and talking about things that aren't relevant. - +1 y
Calling you judgmental is what you are if you think weak men can't get strong. I have seen men turn it around. You don't recognize them. Odds are slim granted you have to work harder, it will take longer but they can get strong and they have. These men are huge now. To use them as a comparison to what I am trying to say is not a valid argument. His biological make up still puts him at an advantage.
No man is muscular without making the choice to be and no woman is a twig without making a choice to be. However the work they do to get to where they are going is not going to give the same results.
Your talking about a very small minority of women. I very much doubt she built that muscle as easily as your proclaiming. It's not impossible for a woman to have higher testosterone levels in her blood and it's not impossible for a woman to be stronger then a man it's just highly unlikely. - +1 y
If that is the case that you should recognize the undertone what you are doing and also if that is the case i'm not interpreting anything. Ok let me just say fuck you to anyone but no that's just their interpretation. And you're not even acknowledging that. It's not an underestimate of men when majority of men aren't even a strong as you think. I can actually say i'm just being realistic while you are overestimating men. That's basic you like saying oh it's ok to hit men but it's not ok to hit women because anyone who disagree with that are just underestimating men. You giving story is actually considered an anecdote also i don't know who you are and i don't know those people you are talking about so those are anecdotal claims you gave. You calling me generalizing when ironic rates coming from someone who generalize about men getting respect instantly. So how about you listen instead and stop making false denials what you are basically doing? Nobody here is saying that weak men cannot be strong but i'm still saying easier said than done so that's basically like you're putting words in my mouth which is ironic. So if that's the case you're also talking about the small minority of men. It's scientifically proven that not all testosterone is evenly distributed so it can be easier for some it is not easy for everyone which you just want to generalize.
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Also you are basicly copy pasting the meaning of what i said without even understanding any of it
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Why are you comparing what I said to fuck you. This is what I am talking about what your saying doesn't relate. Out of all the examples you could of used you pick the one that makes the least sense. There is no way to make any sense of what your saying when your using examples that don't work. You can't misinpret fuck you so long as it's used in the right context. What I have said has no relation to this. Your going to have to do better then that.
It depends on the guy. Some of them take thier training seriously. Some of them don't the ones that take it seriously I am not over estimating. Yh there is the majority that don't take it seriously obviously they won't be as strong.
The biological make up is what I am talking about. What the man decides to do with it is up to him. Some men let themselves go they can't even get up. But that is his choice. The potential is still there and will always be there. He can always change his mind he has that option biologically. Its available to him that's all I am saying. He has that choice. I could. Well I have made the choice to get as strong as I can. But my body has limitations. - +1 y
It's not ok to hit anyone. But different people have different opinions on that. And you will find that on this site.
Well lets say your in a confrontational situation you need to think fast. You need to think on your feet. And in that moment you will make an educated guess based on science. It's the most logical thing to do. We are talking now so we can bring in all these other aspects but in a real situation. You need the answer right away. Now if you see two men. It will take you longer to come to a conclusion on who is more dangerous then if you see a man and a woman. Even if the man is out of shape, over weight. He will still be seen as the bigger threat.
Even if we take on your point about weak men the same thing still applies because a weak man can still portray himself as strong. He can be as skinny as fuck and still hold authority. Strength isn't the only thing in a man's arsenal. Men naturally have deeper voices that isn't an accident it's so men can project authority. Women don't have deep voices. I know not all men have a deep voice. I am talking about those who do.
I am not saying any of these things means that men have it easy of course men don't have it easy. If anything men have the most pressure because men have a very high expectation esp. from women. These things are thier to assist men in thier journey as men to being leaders. A womans journey is a different one. We cannot have the same journey as men and it's why we aren't given the tools to do so.
For the final time I didn't generalize men get instant respect. I am referring to isolated incidents like confrontation. Where you don't have a choice either you respect your opponent or you don't. And the worst thing you can do is not respect your opponent because there is a higher chance of injury. But you respecting your opponent is based on how you perceive them. - +1 y
As you love to generalize getting respect isn't easy I never said it was. it is something that has to be worked towards. It is harder then it looks I accept that 100%. I would be happy to take on the work. I am not looking to take on the bits I like of being a man and leaving the bits I don't. That's not how it works. I know this is easy for me to say. As its just a question on GAG and there is no way for me to become an actual man unless I am lucky enough to be one in the next life.
As the saying goes be careful what you wish for. I am a true believer in that. So it's not something I take lightly and it's not something I answered lightly. - +1 y
That was an example of being obvious. In response to you literally saying they get more respect. That is an assumption and there is no denying that. If you're not overestimating anything that i'm not under estimating but i'm just being realistic here. Also just because men have the potential doesn't necessarily mean it's easy and that is still what i am talking about "easier said than done" which you are making it a really big deal. Just because men have the potential doesn't mean they have to achieve that potential or it doesn't mean they would become the strongest man in the world. Let's say if you really are a strong woman. Do i have to tell you that men stronger than you are actually the minority of men? Nobody is saying that your body has no limitation but again you're still trying to make it sound like even if you're a man you would actually achieve being the strongest. Also let's not forget the fact that there is also genetic involved in anyone. Like for example men are taller than women by average, but that doesn't mean you're going to become the tallest man in the world if you become one. Ok now you're saying it's not easy but a you're easily making an expectation of yourself if you would actually become a man. You see you're talking about me generalizing ironically coming from someone who generalize about men. Coming from someone who likes to generalize about men getting more respect. If you're a true believer than that is your belief and that doesn't necessarily make it a fact that i'm just saying.
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For me your example wasn't obvious. Perhaps for you it was. I am saying they get instant respect in a specific isolated situation like the example I used not in all and every situation no. Of course not.
Assumption/educated guess it's the outcome that is most likely. If your saying there is a more likely outcome can you explain what that is?
Your making this a big deal to I am not making it a big deal on my own. I am not having this conversation on my own. We can stop of you want. I didn't expect a response like this so its certainly interesting.
Realistic ok. I absolutely agree with you that it's not easy. Fuck no. All I am saying is that men are better equipped. Yes genetics play a part.
Exactly just because a man is able to reach that potential doesn't mean that he will. Yh that is being realistic.
No you don't have to tell me that there are a minority of men that are stronger then me but if you see me you wouldn't think/believe that. You would only know that if we got into a fight because we are all judged on what we look like. It's happened so many times. People don't see things as reality they see thier perception of reality. And this is what I am getting at. That's why I used to confrontational example. If you throw the first punch you have mad a judgment on your opponent already. You 'think' you can take them. Where does this data come from? Not reality. Assumption. - +1 y
Your talking about reality which is cool unfortunately people make assumptions every single day and don't even check themselves on it.
How much of reality are we actually living? When you see someone you making assumptions all the time and that assumption is only broken when an action takes place to contradict it otherwise your continue to believe your assumption. I am not talking about you specifically I am talking society as a whole.
Your saying a lot of people don't reach thier full potential as a man. I am saying that would be my aim not that it would be easy just it's what I would go for. Weather or not I would achieve it realistically I won't ever know I just believe. Because if you don't believe you don't stand a chance but if you do. Yh you still might fail as we are being realistic but it's more likely your succed not with out putting the work in. Nothing comes without putting the work in. - +1 y
I keep telling you that the instant respect only applies to isolated incidents for which I have given an example to illustrate you keep saying that I am generalizing that men get instant respect and I have told you countless times that is not what I am saying.
It's not a belief when the situation has happened in your life countless times.
Men being the strongest man in the world yes that's a belief. Of course I want to know if it could be true but there isn't anyway for me to know that. - +1 y
Or i can say for you it wasn't obvious. But really now it could have been said better or are you just saying that just to contradict things? Either way it still could have been said better. A simple word i said "easier said than done" then you want to ask me at what part then i pointed it out but then you suddenly don't like it so you made a big deal out of it. So yes even if you turn yourself into a man, is still really easier said than done but no you agree is not easy. You know what else is an assumption? You assuming you could be the strongest man if you become a man. That is also an assumption because still you don't really have the real data of every man in the world. Also in didn't even happen yet despite you be leaving a lot that is still a belief and it's not a fact. So that is still an assumption from you and while society assumes you are doing it as well.
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Also if i'm the one who is making it a big deal then i'm not the one who's making like 3 or more comments with like five paragraphs each.
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It wasn't obvious for me. Ok if you say so.
Nope not contradicting anything just trying to find ways to get you to understand where I am coming from. And what I am saying.
Yes because I answer your answer point for point. You answer what you want. Leaving out a whole load of outstanding unanswered responses. So your answers will be shorter
Yh because I realised you were saying that I think its easy to be a man and easy to get strong as a man and it wasn't what I was saying at all.
No I don't now agree. I never said that.
I think it's a likely assumption based on who I am today. But I think we'll agree to disagree on that one. - +1 y
If you say it's not obvious for you then for you, you're not contradicting anything. I also exactly answered how you were confused about which part also ignoring the other things i answered so you're only looking at the answers you want. You're not saying that at all but i still talking about the undertone or how you just easily said it implies you think it's that easy just like how you assume you would be the strongest man just because it's your belief.
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I am not contradicting anything full stop.
You could of used a different example if you really wanted to answer me because if I don't understand your answer then how have you answered me? But you think your always right and your perfect in what you said so it's me with the problem so there is no need to change your example.
The last 'essay' I wrote you all you went on about was me and my belief that I would be the strongest man. Coz that's all that concerns you. Nothing about actual points I raised to what you said about being realistic so its clear you answer what you want.
Your not always clear with what you say and then you think your answers are clear so you shouldn't have to have to make any adjustments.
I have already gone over this but you ignored it and just keep talking about my belief that you disagree with. If you don't agree. Then don't agree. Yet your still making a big deal of this.
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And i am not misunderstanding anything full stop. Another example would be caught red handed. There's no need for you to explain if you're caught red handed as it is already obvious. Of course you don't think you're thinking you're perfect for whatever reason what ignoring that you're only looking at answers you want to see. That is why you are calling those answers you don't like to see "judgmental" Like what i said before if i'm not really making a big deal out of this and i'm not the one who is writing 3 - 5 comments with like 3 - 5 paragraphs each. After all my very first comment from you is just saying "easier said than done" which actually triggered you into paragraphs after paragraphs in my first response wasn't even a full sentence.
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I think I am perfect? That's rich! You need to check the mirror. That's you all over.
When you point your finger at someone else remember you have 3 fingers pointing back at you.
Caught red handed. What implying that it's easy when I never implied that and have tried to explain why I know it's not easy however you got triggered yourself saw what you wanted and ran with it.
No don't twist this. You love to play innocent. Like this is all me. I got triggered because again you saw what you wanted to see when you said I said women and men are equal and will be treated the same. Thats what pissed me off because it wasn't what I said. - +1 y
Then if that is the case i don't think i am perfect. So how about you take your own advice and check the mirror instead? Yeah sure tell that to someone who is actually pointing fingers. Of course you don't realize your been doing that. It's more like you get triggered over the fact that how i actually explained how that makes you implying without you actually saying it. The fact remains that you haven't said it better but now you mean something different when i pointed that out so yes that's kind of like a coincidence isn't it? However you said men and women are not equal therefore i am correcting how that is false because men and women are equal but only treated differently and therefore you're mistaking equality and similarity. So yes accuse me of being innocent all you want, do you think you're innocent? Yes? Then how about if i say so am i. Easy for anyone to say.
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If you don't want anyone twisting your words and how about you stop saying things just because you said so?
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I do take my own advice. Only you think your to good for this advice and that it only applies to me.
I don't need to imply anything if I have something to say I will say it out right. If my words implied that it's easy then I didn't use the right words to represent what I wanted to say and I have acknowledged that.
You cannot accept that your wrong. You think that your right all the time that your explanations are perfect and if people don't understand them they have the problem rather then come up with an alternative on the spot to assist with what you are saying. What do you think this behavior represents?
The problem with you is you copied and pasted my whole answer and said that its implying that its easy. I asked you specifically what did I say from the first instance and you copy and paste everything. Do you think you answered my question in doing that? No you didn't so I wasn't even given a chance to explain it better however I still acknowledged it the best way that I could.
Men and women are not treated equal or the same is what I meant but sure run with that. Nit pick. It's all you can do to prove a point at this point.
What a poor attitude. I don't twist peoples words full stop. I try to understand what they are saying. I will give them my point of view and what they want to do with it is up to them. Case closed.
But your going to twist my words because I have said things that you don't agree with. It's like an eye for an eye with you. You can't respect something you don't agree with. So you have to twist what they say to get the upper hand another way. Does this sound like healthy behavior to you? - +1 y
Easy for you to say. How about if I also say only are too good for this advice? And geez doesn’t that sound familiar? Yeah that’s right coming from someone who’s denying what they’re trying to say at the start. It’s not that hard to not assume but just prefer men’s life but nope. That’s a big urge from you. Do you even realize what your problem is? How you just wanna throw out those ad hominems so there for I backfired your own logic. You’re not the only one who can do that by the way. However, you’re still wrong about the “men and women aren’t treated equally” part as I’ve already explained. And repeating that doesn’t make you more valid. Also as for you and your poor attitude, just tossing ad hominems for your advantage thinking that’s how it works. Yeah and you’re calling me “poor attitude” ok. You still don’t realize how you sound and not realize how unhealthy that is.
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You can't say that because I am taking the advice where as your doing everything possible to beat around the Bush ignore the advice and ignore what your doing
I am not denying anything. You want to see what isn't there.
What ever I want is up to me and my business what has it got to do with you? Why is this aggrovating you so much? Why do you care?
What logic has backfired? I have asked you so many times to counter my experiences which you call anecdotes I am assuming that's what you were trying to type and you have not 🤷♀️
You can explain all you want how men and women are treated equally you are not every person on the planet so it doesn't matter what you say people will treat people how they want to treat them. End of story. You can't control how people treat other people.
I am sorry I didn't know there were rules. I can't throw out anecdotes that's not how it works. So now you're telling me how I must do things. I know you want things your way but that's not how the 'world' works. You don't get to pick and choose how people decide to make thier point.
Your aren't answering my question your just going off on another rant which shows you aren't reflecting on anything. Your just turning what I say back on me because you don't want to face the fact that your behavior is unhealthy and that actually you need to just let this all go.
It's not that serious.
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How about if i do anyways just like what you're doing? If that's the case then you cannot say anything at all unless you're a hypocrite. Nobody is saying that it's not your business but i ever all i'm saying is easier said than done. That has nothing to do with me caring so much until you started getting triggered over it. Because nobody knows what being the opposite gender feels like a hundred percent then it's just best to see both side of the story and always depend on how the person takes care of their life also because the grass is always greener on the other side this is why they are equal but they are not the same which is what you wanna misconstrue as if i'm saying they're both the same. Objectively they're not the same but they're both oppressed and privileged there always so if the grass is always greener on the other side then they're both equal also because lifestyle is subjective. Of course anecdotal examples are fallacies so it is like this. My grandpa smokes and he is over 90 years old so therefore smoking is not bad. That's an anecdote which is what you are using. Also doesn't prove you anything and lastly you didn't see my answer because you only want to see what you want to see. You just think i'm turning back everything but in the end you just want to be a hypocrite because you don't want your own logic to be backfired.
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I have already told you that I am aware that it's easier said then done however you don't want to accept that. You don't want to accept anything that I am saying. Period. You have made up your mind that I am now going back on what I am saying because I have been caught out. I am trying to explain to you I have nothing to hide and that there isn't any reason for me to do that and what is more likely is that I used the wrong terminology to say what I needed to say because there is no way in hell I would imply or say that it's easy.
I am no longer triggering over this. This is all you.
There is no way for a woman to know what is to be a man and vis versa. You are correct.
The grass on the other side might not be greener. That is also true.
I have been made a woman and I have accepted that the best I can because there isn't anything I can do about it and who am I to go against nature.
I think what your trying to say is that there are pro's and cons to both. And where I think it's better on the other side as I don't know what it's like to be on the other side there may be things that I am not considering or taking into account.
You may be right
Of course every one is equal we were all created equally by nature I literally meant society doesn't abide by that which causes conflict and frustration beyond measure.
The law only goes as far as to say anyone can do any job it's not gender specific. Every one must be paid the same it's not gender specific. But people can still treat you any way they want there is no law against that. And there isn't anything one can do about it. People have that freedom to treat other people how they want.
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The problem is lifestyle is subjective that's why everyone can get away with everything. No one wants to treat anyone as they deserve to be treated which is equally everyone wants to treat people as they think that person should be treated. This is the problem.
I don't know how your grandpa smokes and lives to over 90 he is an exception.
There are exceptions to the rule.
However there will be other ancedotes that highly contradict this one. And that would be what people will follow. No one is going to look at your grandpa and come to the conclusion smoking doesn't kill because statistics prove otherwise. He is in a minority.
I don't care if my logic is backfired it would mean I get an opportunity to learn something new.
You aren't trying to teach your trying to dictate or it's at least how your coming across - +1 y
You can be very patronising and that's what gets my back up and that's what triggers me. The minute you start to speak to me like that. Gona have problems. You might think your not doing that its simply how your coming across
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I already told you that you have been implying it's easy and you just don't want or accept that we just wasting with the whole point of my first comment. So it's more like you don't want to accept anything. This can go on forever i don't really mind. Also if that's the case you wouldn't we are show me with me the strongest man just because your turn into a man. So yes for that something simple i said and with a lot of paragraphs you're saying you're basically triggered. You want to call me triggered? it's easy for you to say. Easy for me to say too. If you think it is better on the other side then i just just your opinion and that is not a fact but however i am still saying that it is subjective so if it's really subjective then it is equal but different also because people are different and they can have it hard or easy regardless of their gender. And the reason why they don't get treated thesame because that is an equalizer due to their biology. So basically they're not treated thesame as an equalizer so they will be equal. Similarity and equality are still two different things is my point. If there exceptions you're talking about then i don't assume you're a part of the exception. Because they are the extreme minority. So you don't care you have been wrong all a long then ok. That would also mean i don't care if i'm just twisting your words just to backfire your logic also for you to see how hypocritical you are.
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We won't get any where you think I won't accept anything. I think you won't accept anything.
It only makes sense for this to go on if there is a point.
No I have explained to you twice now why I am if you want to call it triggered.
Your clearly triggered otherwise you wouldn't be responding. As you have put in this much effort I am at least trying to see where you're coming from.
Of course it's my opinion that was the question asked, this is how Gag works. I have given my opinion it's not about facts. If you're looking for facts your in the wrong place.
People can have it hard or easy regardless of gender
The ancedotes I used were not exceptions. They have happened to many times your ancedote is an exception and doesn't change the perception of smoking being bad because it is.
I didn't say I was wrong I said I don't care if my logic backfired it would mean I get an opportunity to learn something new. That hasn't been the case and my logic hasn't backfired. You haven't understood what I have said you still are not understanding what I am saying.
You twisting my words is misinterpreting what I say which I have told you, you have been doing from the beginning. The fact that you have to go to such lengths just to prove a point rather then doing it through honest measures just shows your not any better. Yet you want to call me out.
You want to call me every name under the sun. I'm this I'm that. Go right ahead if it makes you feel like you have achieved something.
No that's how you perceive me.
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And that sounds familiar. Sure it's just like how you think i don't accept anything. And if it doesn't make sense it doesn't take a genius. I am also explain to you how i am not triggered clearly. Just like how you also keep responding with a lot of paragraphs, ironically it would make you triggered if that's the case. So if you say men and women are not equal it's just your opinion then you're not correct them because men and women being equal are facts. It's just like when things go wrong when i pointed out your mistakes you're just going to say "it's just my opinion" ok it's your opinion but facts are facts no matter what. Then if that's the case the anecdote example i also give is not an exception because they also happened many times. Unlike yours just because you'll turn into a man you will the strongest man. Because you don't care about your mistakes is what i'm talking about so if you don't care if you're wrong, i can't force you to be right. And you just saying things hoping it will actually make your right and not wanting to yeah it backfired is just like a hypocritical way of wanting to attack someone and accuse them of misinterpreting things. And what about you having to go so much lengths wanting to call me out? That's hypocrisy. I'm just doing exactly what you're doing so ok you wanted me to go on then don't complain. You just want to say things hope it will make you correct that i can do the same thing so your logic is basically backfired at this point.
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You don't communicate effectively and you haven't from the start. With you it has to be essays not that you listen anyway you still just twist everything as your doing now. Your not triggered so why are you responding? Of course your triggered you have been since you saw my answer that's why you felt compelled to comment and your sure as hell triggered now so stop lying to yourself. Wow I said people don't treat other people equally not that both men and women aren't equal. Your clearly not paying attention just want to twist my words over and over because you don't have a solid argument otherwise you wouldn't need to twist my words in the first place.
How is your ancedote happened many times when you said yourself its an extreme minority? Not that it matters what you say because statistics linking smoking to deaths will do the talking.
Mistakes in your view just like this is all in your view. All in your head. You think just because you tell me I have made a mistake it's a mistake. Because you say so. Because you have spent so much time twisting my words it would be waste for me to be right wouldn't it?
Perhaps if you didn't waste so much time trying to twist my words, change what I am saying to get the outcome you want rather then the actual truth and actually took the honest approach. Perhaps things would be crystal clear but up until now your still twisting and changing my words to suit you. Not listening. I am not doing the things you claim but even if I was and your doing exactly what I am doing then your are no better. Your not taking any high ground that would mean your stooping to my level. Then you have the audacity to try and make yourself come off as if you better. As if you know better. How can you when you got here dishonestly. - +1 y
Do you think you're actually communicating properly and even from your original comment? Spoilers alert you aren't. That is just a simple response and according to you, it is triggered? Well you know who else is responding? That's right you are. So with that being said how about if i say you are the triggered one here lying to yourself also because you're not paying attention to everything. For the same reason i can ask how your anecdote happens many times actually outweighing the majority. You have no statistics of you turning into man becoming the strongest man ever so considered that lying to yourself. Yet you still don't see your mistake how it's not actually all in my head. That assumption already says all and i don't exactly have to prove anything to you now that it's proven. So if you keep saying that it's all in my head how about if i keep saying your assumption is not all in my head? Easier said than proven too. And of course you didn't waste your time just saying things that are actually a logical fallacy that can easily be back fired like what just happened and just saying things ask if you know better. Or i can also say i wasn't just twisting your words but i was being truthful just like what you basically keep on saying.
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There is nothing wrong with my original comment the only person who has a problem is you. Lol! your so predictable I knew you was going to say that! How did I know oh no, no not the forsakened ancedote but they are fallacies they don't give you any indication of what will happen next. So what just happened then? How did I know you was going to say that. Can't of been an educated guess right. Wrong. I am curious if you can do anything independently have you got any tricks of your own or are you just going to keep copying me? I may be triggered but let me tell you the difference. It's that I am honest. I already told you I was triggered twice. Now I wonder if you can remember what the reasons were. Just to see if your paying attention oh that's right we both know that you aren't. I don't need statistics to know how I'll perform as a man because I am actually already performing better then most men as a woman and it's not even me saying it. But I have my limitations. These can't be denied.
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I am curious to know how I would do as a man. If I was to surpass these limitations. I am not expecting you to understand just even a little bit. I know you think I don't know what I am talking about and that I think it's easy. I am done repeating myself. You can think what you want. I have exposed myself so you keep saying. My logic has back fired. All I can see is you triggering. And lying about it. Mmm first you were saying you were twisting my words now your saying you never did. Seems you can't even make up your mind weather to tell the truth or to lie. I would of appreciated you being honest from the start rather then you playing your games to get the outcome you want make me look like all the things your calling me. I actually thought you were trying to say something meaningful to me. Try to make me see this from a different perspective but that wasn't your plan it was just to get me to look a certain way for your ego. To prove yourself 'right' This was all about you proving a point. Well I hope your satisfied if you feel you've achieved something great by trying to bring out the worst in someone rather then the best well done pat on the back. Good for you
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Then there is nothing wrong with my replies wish we have a problem with. Just like what i predicted from you, how you just wanna say basically saying "there's nothing wrong with me but there's something wrong with you" or anything like that. You know what i'm also curious if you can actually come up with a point rather than just saying "you're wrong and i'm right" or anything like that which of course you don't really realize how cheap that actually is. The fact that you're not even a man yet and you're ready say that you know that already means you're assuming things because it is a fact that you've never been a man to experience it. So that is still something assuming even if how accurate you think it is, that is still not a fact. You even keep saying that i'm twisting your words, but after all i'm just arguing at your level for you to realize how you soon but of course you just don't wanna realize it. From the start i was being honest "easier said than done" because if you are really honest with yourself then you wouldn't really after what's going to happen if you're on the other side of the grass. Also this has nothing to do with bringing out the worst in someone but it's something called being realistic but sometimes reality hurts that's why.
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No. You should of just remained your self rather then playing at my level because fire doesn't out fire it just creates an explosion. And that's all that's happening here. Now we can't move forward. You can't let frustration drive you to playing to someone else's level. Always remain yourself. There is no way to be realistic because the question isn't a realistic one it's all hypothetical so it can only ever be based on belief and assumption. There isn't a way to be realistic. Its just a question and a hypothetical one at that. I know your going to say that hypothetical I am wrong but that's your opinion. Which your entitled to. But there is no way you can be realistic when the thing your talking about doesn't exist. It's always only ever going to be guess work. It can't be anything else so there is nothing to be realistic about
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And how about you remain yourself? You don't like your hypocrisy showing that is why. Like really it's ok for you to name call or do ad hominems or whatever but you don't like it when someone else does it to you. Telling me to stop fighting fire with fire because it will cause an explosion is kinda like an excuse when you can just stop the fire from the very start. But after all, if it's hypothetical now that you're saying, that's still means it's not a fact and you will never know. While you are focusing you so much on your positive side, getting all your hopes up a lot then i'm here as an equalizer. Because even men don't find it easy to become the strongest man in the world while you're already assuming you would become one. If i'm entitled to then yes i'm entitled to give you a comment which you're not supposed to be triggered.
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What’s not to love being a woman?
I love mah hairrr, my boobs, playing with my.. outfits & styles as I go out, girl power, doing what girls do, being teeny and getting big bear hugs, and just being feminine 💁🏼♀️24 Reply- +1 y
U sound like you advertise it and everybody shouls feminized...
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Hahah i dont know... if u help us with that too!!
- Yoda Age: 21+1 y
Most people would answer their own gender, since male and females ARE wired differently, even though a lot of people refuse to admit that.
Men wouldn't be able to be women, and women wouldn't be able to be men, because we simply think differently.
Unless this question suggests a complete personality change that is.01 Reply- +1 y
In truth, women and men should stop complaining about being their own gender, no one will ever truly know how it is to be the other gender, I'm sure there are hard parts to each one.
- Xper 4 Age: 25+1 y
Women have it easier when it comes to dating, getting sex, getting protection, getting attention and let's not forget about how women problems are actually taken seriously. plus there is more help for women. I talk about having depression and people don't care then a women mentions it, and everyone is like ohhh are you ok? Do you need anything
20 Reply Lmao what if you could both. Have a dick and vagina lol woman wouldn't like that bargain 😋 moat men would fuck themselves, get pregnant and have the child and raise him right without having to go to court to see him and women can't use pussy to manipulate men and take their money no more. Women will grow hair and look like chimpanzees lol.
00 ReplyI'm relieved that people picked their own gender. Admittedly, my bff and I have argued a lot over which would be better. It's a stalemate
10 Reply- Xper 5 Age: 37+1 y
I want to be a dude so I can curse as much as I want so my parents don't have to yell at me for not being lady like. At least if I'm a man, I don't get yelled at. Lol oh and pee standing up!
10 Reply Would be interesting to be a woman. I like to learn and try new things. So it would certainly be something fresh.
Plus comes with many benefits, some downsides too but don't seems so bad looking from this side of the fence.00 ReplyA male, even though women have it FAR EASIER in life right now, merely because I wouldn't want periods. Or to be raped.
00 Reply- Xper 7 Age: 38 , mho 39%+1 y
Nah i am happy being a woman. I am so happy that i can enjoy men and that i can bring them joy as well. I would not want it any other way🙈
01 Reply- +1 y
U could bring them joy in a different way too..
- 2.1K opinions shared on Other topic. Guru Age: 27 , mho 34%+1 y
I would stay male. I don't know how my life would be if I were female and I like the way I am. I'm resistant to change
00 Reply I'd want it so I could switch back and forth at will. Switch between looking like a hot/pretty girl to my hairy squire-jawed male self in a matter of seconds. That would be so cool! Just imagine the adventures I could go on like that!
10 Reply- Xper 6 Age: 20 , mho 32%+1 y
I wouldn't want to be a man so stay the same. So much pressure on men. Also I'd look ugly as a guy.
11 Reply- +1 y
i dont think as a male aneything is wrong with being male. the only problem is sexuality is big issue due to heavy porn exposure man has lost their sexual need in weird way, due to many fetish/fantasies and much more. this is why we need to Repent to God. cheers
Female, so I can just suck a little dick here and there and sit back, look pretty and have everything
22 Reply- +1 y
It’s harder than it looks okay 🤣
- Xper 5 Age: 30+1 y
Since I look very similar to my mom, it would be interesting if I become feminine like her, but I would still retain my male parts, use the men's bathroom/locker room, and still dress up like a man while still being emotionally attached to women.
00 Reply - Yoda Age: 29 , mho 39%+1 y
If I could choose being highly intelligent too, then definitely a man.
07 Reply- +1 y
@gaygod_19 Meh.
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Many of the smartest people who walked earth were men.
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@Lanabear119 nah the world just dont want u to learn about smart women. A google search could show u history of many more smart women forgotten rather than “male genius”. Honestly? I think only narrow minded stupid people think men are more intelligent and that most intelligent people are men. U didn't even take into account that in the past (and even now in third world countries) girls and women were banned from school, college and just education in general.
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Ok, get to the part where you give me the names of these intelligent females. The person with the highest IQ was a female, so I do know of many intelligent women. And the world does acknowledge intelligent women, especially the media, so there’s no way they would go unnoticed. And I think women and men are both intelligent, but in different ways. Like in general, men are smarter in the stem area, that’s just a fact. Not all men, but statistically they are far above average than women are. While women perform way better in the creativity field. Though they’re are females who are amazing at math and males who are extraordinary in the arts, but I’m saying in general that’s just what it is. There is no, “smarter sex” but there are more numbers of people on the opposite sex who happen to be one of the more intelligent. Though what you say is true, I’m talking about the present, not the past.
I love being a female. Except when I get my period lol.
00 Reply- Master Age: 50 , mho 82%+1 y
I used to say I would rather be a male but with males becoming more feminine I am not so sure.
04 Reply- +1 y
bruh its not a bad thing
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Nahh, she's the type to believe men can't cry or show emotions because apparently it's not manly. I'll tell you it's only human to be able to express emotions. I hope you know that those old made up gender roles believes and stereotypes are the reason why men kill themselves and struggle with anger and become violent
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@LoveIsFake. omg finally someone who has a brain, thanks for this comment lmao
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@strawberrylipstick yeah, no problem. It's something that has to be talked about. Unfortunately people who hold these believes are blind to see how its an issue in today's society and how it contributes to men and suicide. The sad part is that if you ever talk about this to a man or women who holds these believes they just laugh and say how men aren't men for thinking they have the right to express emotions
i think you forgot about the other thousands of genders
00 Reply- Anonymous(30-35)+1 y
I don't want to be pregnet or to have period.
I will still be a boy10 Reply - 3.2K opinions shared on Other topic. Master Age: 26+1 y
The grass is always greener on the other side. But since i'm already a male, ill just stick with it. I already made it this far being one.
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