Is my roommate spoiled and acts like a child?

[qbeth]

My roommate (23F) never ever throws away the trash unless I'm (24F) not there to do it for them or I need room to throw trash away and I can't because it's piled high and overfilled when I want to. I usually meal prep and pack my food in containers and don't produce a lot of trash but my roommate can fill the whole entire trashcan in one day. Sometimes they will leave a bag on the outside to throw more trash in when it's full. They are so lazy that one time when I was heading out with my overnight bags to visit my family and she said if I could throw the trash on the way out because they didn't want to go out in their pajamas.

If I am not home that weekend the trash will be emptied but if I'm at the apartment, she will leave to her boyfriend's place or go back home with the trashcan full of their trash without throwing it away. The best that I have seen her do is tie the trash so it's ready to throw away BUT will text me that they were in a rush to go get their hair or nails done and weren't able to throw it away and they were heading over to their boyfriend's place. Today, they left to their friend's house with all their trash filled up to the brim with a bag on the outside with more trash. I texted her to help take out the trash when she comes back tomorrow. She responded with "2 bags?" and said ok after an hour. My roommate decides to come back to the apartment tonight to throw the trash away and had her boyfriend help her then left to his place. She was probably petty/annoyed about throwing away the trash that she didn't put a new trash bag in and kept the light on to text me to turn off the light. I am not her maid, if she wants that then they should go back home for their parents to take care of them.

[LazyProphet]

She sounds lazy af, and selfish, also she doesn't respect you much and thinks she can walk over you, like telling you to turn off the light that she should have turned off, sounds like she did it on purpose to be a bitch. I'd tell her straight up, "if you fill the fucking trash then you need to take it out", end of story.

[qbeth]

This is her first experience living with a roommate and probably because she was so pampered by her parents this is probably the first time someone called her out to do something she never had to do herself at home. She straight up told me even before she moved in that she wants to be more independent 😒.

[BitterSweetApplePie]

Not spoiled, just lazy. As soon as your lease is up you might want to consider finding another roommate. Personally I could never deal with that - she'd have her hair ripped out.

[qbeth]

Oh I already found a new roommate thank god. She said she is gonna move back home because she misses having her family around to talk to. But honestly, I don't think she can take care of herself.

[Pete671]

She's not ready to share imho,